TALK TO ME!!!

WHATS UP LIFERS, I BEEN READING PEOPLES TWEETS AND THE DAY TWITTER SHUT DOWN I HEARD ANGIE MARTINEZ ON HOT 97 TALKING ABOUT HOW WORRIED PEOPLE WERE ABOUT PEOPLE POSSIBLY GETTIN A CHANCE TO READ OTHERS DM’S. WITH THAT BEING SAID I FEEL LIKE CASUAL SEX IS BACK!!! JUST LIKE KIDS IN LA DOING COCAINE, MY QUESTION TO YALL IS DO YOU THINK TWITTER HAS OPENED THE DOOR FOR THAT? ALSO DO YOU THINK SEX IS AT ALL TIME HIGH RIGHT NOW? IF SO WHY? BECAUSE WE’RE IN A RECESSION OR IS IT THE SOCIAL NETWORKS?                                                            TALK TO ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  1. Sex is at an all time high. The reason why is like you said. Its a recession and people are down and sex makes people feel better. And Social network sites just makes it better. You get better access to girls that you would probably would just walk up to on the street and ask her out. Its easy to do it off facebook, twitter, or any other Social Network sites. I know it helped me out sometime. But I agree, Casual sex is back.

  2. Wait I’m tryin to find the connection with Twitter and sex cause I’m not sexin anyone in my timeline that I haven’t already sexed. And what the hell does the recession have to do with it? People fuck when they broke they fuck when they broker. Lol

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  4. Sex never went anywhere, I think that as individuals we have periods of excess and periods of droughts. When you are not getting it everyday it’s easy to assume that everybody else is in a drought too… Also age plays a part, at certain periods in life most people are more active than at other times in life. There are many factors that affect our frequency of doing the do.
    I have read about and experienced personally the phenomena of men being more active when they have financial security. A man with money is generally more confident, and confidence attracts women. When your pockets are light your focus is on getting money, not getting laid. But at the opposite end of the spectrum, when you are absolutely broke, sex might be the best cheap/free entertainment going… So depending on your personality being paid or poor can both increase your level of activity

  5. JD to be frank, I don’t think social networking has opened up the flood gates for casual sex but, I do think that its opened up the door to discuss sex, in general, more openly. As far as casual sex goes, I can’t say I’d personally put my goodies on the red carpet for someone to take advantage of, celebrity or no, just because we talk on twitter. The recession, one would think, would leave you to want to sex more, if nothing else, simply to relieve stress but I can’t say people are doing it more or less because of the recession. Should we do it more, in my opinion, absolutely. Every golden opportunity, seize it!! Of course I say this because I’m not a fan of casual sex and more because I’m a monogamous nymphomaniac.

    But perhaps people are NOT having sex just because they have other factors influencing that decision such as finances, lack of work, children etc.

    Whatever, the case I say you should NEVER deprive yourself of such a high calorie burning activity!

  6. Social networks could have something to do with it, but then again it can’t be Twitter because Myspace and Facebook been popping for over 5 years now. The recession might have something to do with it because niggas is just tryna stay home instead of blowing cash. The more you stay home then the more you and your partna will get that bed rocking ya feel me. I haven’t noticed personally, but that’s my opinion. I will say that it seems as though homosexuality is looking a little more accepted now and maybe that has something to do with it. I’m not taking sides on that issue. I’m str8 myself and love the pussy but hey im just saying what i see.

  7. Im kind of confused on where you’re going with this but sex has always been around, and “sexting” isn’t just limited to a phone anymore, now you can practically reach everybody with the internet.. it’s almost like twitter (or any social network) is the new way to cheat on people, it’s easier to hide your dirt in a DM then it is on a phone..
    lol sorry I probably got way off topic but a lot of my friends either cheated or were cheated on by their bf/gf’s when this whole twitter phenomeon came out.. it’s almost like being a kid in a candy store, you have so many options of people to chose from and you can connect with people you probably would have never met in real life.. it’s a fun place to be but it can also becomes a dangerous one if your not smart..

  8. That is pretty ignorant to blame twitter or any other social networking sites for bad decisions/choices. The frequency of sex is really not something one can measure. Moreover, the recession is affecting many things but has nothing to do with sex.

    @Kandi… LOL

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  10. Like the 4th person said…sex never went anywhere…But how would I know…I’m only 15…But i hope sex didn’t go anywhere…

  11. I don’t think the social networks opened the door for it, it may have made people more easily accessible. But casual sex has always been around. It’s just that these days women are more agressive, and have a don’t care attitude about sex. As women we set the the standard for what we allow and don’t allow from men. Back in the day, when as women we used to keep things on the low, these hussies today broadcast their sexual liasions like it’s a badge of honor. SMH. I remember(see how old I sound, I’m only 30yr) when you dated a guy and you made him wait for sex, at least 6months.(Hey!!! my kitty my rules, don’t judge me) These days, if he takes you out to an ok resturant (for some ppl, that is McD’s) he gets the kitty that night. And the guys expect sex too!!! SMH. I do believe sex is at an all time high. The media is very powerfull with their subliminals on tv, where EVERYTHING is sexual(as the saying goes “sex sells”), from commercials to movies to tv shows. So our teens and preteens are experimenting with sex at an earlier age. I don’t think the recessions has anything to do with it. If someone is being affected by the recession, they need to be on their grind in figuring out to put some money in their pockets to pay them bills, rather than sittin at home tryin to figure out who to call up and f@#k. So they shouldn’t have time for sex. And if that is the only pleasurable thing you can think of to occupy your time, you have some major loop holes in your personality. Everytime you have sex you’re playing Russian Roulette with the Stork. Condoms are not fool proof!!!! Also people don’t go to church anymore like they used to, so they do what they want, either out of ignorance or they just don’t care, and the biblical moral codes that used to govern our actions are no longer there. I personally think it’s the time in which we are living in and the media.

  12. Ok glad to know I wasnt the only one who didnt see the connection between DMs, twitter and casual sex O.o

    @ebony you have plenty of time to have sex focus on your studies please and thank you 🙂

    No casual sex for me to many STDs and what have you. So yall be sure to practice safer sex at all tiimes!

  13. Sex and social networking has nothing to do with one another,,, how many years have humans been on the planet? So people have been having sex for like a million years. A Doctor just told me that the birth rates tend to go up during a recession cause people don’t have anything else to do. (That’s where the baby boomers came from, the great depression)

    I don’t even like having sex with lots of women, the more women you have the more problems you got to deal with. Give me a 50 year old divorced chick and I’m straight,,,, No drama there, plus anything goes…. LOL

    Spock

  14. @ SPOCK….

    SOCIAL MEDIA OPENS UP A WHOLE NEW WORLD AND ACCESS TO PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WORLD, PEOPLE ARE MEETING THROW SOCIAL MEDIA THAT WOULD NOT HAVE MEET OTHER WISE!!! YOU HEAR OF PEOPLE MEETING THROW WEBSITES ALL THE TIME, EX, EHARMONY AND MATCH.COM THEY BOTH ARE DATING SOCIAL NETWORKING SITES.

  15. @ THAT OCEANS CHIK!!!!!!!

    Back in the day we had hops, I think people are meeting less now because we are in the house more. I think back in the day we had to go out more and therefore we met more people.

    SPOCK

  16. I do believe people are meeting more and more through social networking especially with twitter. I had one but had to get off I’m telling you it’s the devil LOL get’s you into nothing but all kinds of trouble. I saw that through other people twitter account had my jaw on the ground the things people were saying tweeting posting pics of and what they were on there for shit was nasty but anyway I do think twitter is more open to meeting new people. but, having sex because of a recession???? I don’t get that part cause I have sex now and even before it was a recession we all have sex so IDK Sex was good then and it’s good now. If I was on twitter it would be no different I’m with Kandi I wasn’t following or talking to any guy in my timeline who I haven’t been with LMAO with the exception of some people.

  17. What up JD? I’ve been checking out you’re Living the Life series, well that at least how I view it, and just want to say thanks for giving us a peep into the life of someone such as yourself and just keep posting I’ll be watching. Now to answer your question no I don’t think Twitter has opened the door for casual sex and no I don’t think sex is at an all time high. What Twitter has done is give people an outlet to speak their minds, share thoughts, and let people into their personal lives. Sex has and will always be around it’s just that now with the social networks, Twitter, the actions are being broadcast so that more than the people an individual would see, talk to, or meet are able to know what that person is doing. That’s all I care to type on that subject, FYI sex is gonna be prevalent in great or bad economic times.

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  19. Sex has been around for many many many yrs and as the yrs go on the sexual revolution evolves just like everything else, before showin leg above the knee was a horrible thing to do and know i dont think you can by a dress or skirt that goes below the knees anymore. So things like twitter and other social networks are just part of the evolving process its just another avenue to take wen you wanna get a lil bit, I think the social networking makes it eaiser for someone who might not be as agressive as others to be a little more forward and adventrous and do things they wouldnt normally do if they didnt have the social networks. I dont think sex is at its all time high, we in America have a long way to go before that happens, example Europeans i think they are further advanced in this sexual evolution than we are, when we start being as open as the Europeans are about sex, then i think we will be at our all time high.

  20. its definitely social networking…. u can do lots without even saying a word.. we all gone have carpal tunnel.. seems today its more about touching , texting, tweeting. but no talking

  21. LMAO @Spock 50 year old divorce chick, really, lol you are a royal mess!

    To put my two cents in yes it is a recession and people are having more sex because going out nowadays is costing alot and if you are not a high roller to go out and pay for a girls drink at $20 a pop for drink you are gonna stay home or where ever and just kick it. Going out to have dinner is also out the door. Is social networking to be blamed? No I dont think so, what social networking does is open the door to reach out to more people and have a wider friend base not to increase the reach of your little black book!

  22. Wait.
    You lost me.
    I’m missing the connection between twitter, and you thinking casual sex is back O_o

  23. This epidemic of casual sex is emphasized in the book of revelation & yes social networking, the recession & personal choice are all factors!!!

  24. Twitter? Its just a big text message board that everybody in the world could see if they want too! @spock made a point about plp having sex thats life it makes the world continue.. But for me i cant f*ck in this recession and how could other plp. You kinda think it will be like drugs when they high come down yo ass still broke as hell…lol (put orgasm in place of high)!!!

  25. Social Networks definitely have had an impact on sexual relations. Facebook alone has reconnected many people who probably would have never rekindled the ole flame. Surveys show that facebook is involved in one form or another in 75% of divorce cases these days.
    Social networking allows people to communicate with more people, and the more people you communicate with, the more opportunities there are for a sexual connection. I don’t know of very many people connection on Twitter, but it is definitely possible, as I have made business connections on twitter that have led to real world meetings, I am sure that a sexual encounter between two people with nothing to do on a Friday night is more than possible.

  26. I guess some people are shy and using social network is way more easy than gonna talk to a girl in bar or a club.

  27. (I.M.O) SEX will always be at an all time high “RECESSION” or not.. it’s much easier to get some ass using any type of social network than personally meeting someone..It’s gives you more options and less hassle, you don’t have to try as hard to take some home 🙂

  28. I did not really understand the question until I read the comments. I am not in to that casual sex stuff and never have been. I figure if you sleep with a stranger you met at a club, you will sleep with someone you met on Twitter or any other networking media. That’s not my thing.

    @ SPOCK I don’t really know why a bad economy would effect the rate of sexual activity. From what I understand, the baby boomers were a result of soldiers being gone a long time and coming home horny to their horny wives to create children not because they were broke the entire time. I could be wrong.

    ANyway, I have a twitter account and hardly ever use it except with family. However, it does seem that Facebook has made it very easy for my ex-flames to contact me and almost ALWAYS they are getting ready to go through some divorce. lol I ain’t stupid though. My conversations never go there. I am smart and loyal chick. That’s probably why they think of me when things go wrong at home, but they gets no love here. That’s over and well done.

  29. JD! Please pay me my money.. I never forgot….. Sincerely,Lady B

  30. @Moni

    They came home, the women were doing the jobs that they were doing before the war and they were in a recession .

  31. Lmao! @ yall’s comments..I think social networking izzz the new hookup spot..For facebook i mainly have ppl as friends that actually know me..so u get the ex’s that want to c what u look like now..and trying to holla..then u got guys sending u random requests or inbox messages..Somebody said that Facebook is turning into the new Blackplanet which is booty call central! Guys send u requests and u look at their status or pics and it shows they are obviously involved..tacky..i hit the ignore button..then for instance on fb u sign up for other pages like The Essence music fest page..then guys from that page hit u up..talking about i’m gonna let u know where the nice parties r but then it eventually gets around to them trying to holla lol..They try to feel u out to see if ur down so social networking gives ppl the courage to try to get it if they can lol…I’m not down with casual sex either..and in this day if a lot of ppl r i hope they r protecting themselves

  32. i don’t think sex is at an all time high and twitter and sex i don’t understand the connection

  33. If you look at the influence that having instant access to other people has had on society, then yes. Moral barriers are broken more easily with all of the options people have at their disposal. I truely believe that we r not in a recession in the true sense of it. I seems like people r losing their safeguards and dont seem to be able to say no. Sex has become another form of a hand shake to some. Those people will just be those people with no regard for themselves at the time. E….

  34. jd it is what it is, people these days just want to be a part of something no matter what it is. a club, a cult, a dream anything so that they can semi define themselves. humans act on impulse and react irrationally and ask for forgiveness later. twitter and other social networks are outlets for anyone who desires interaction with another human being, the need to be heard no matter how miniscule the subject is a way for anyone to contribute their views and feelings. if people use these networks to hook up, whatever let the chips fall where they may. everyone check out strictly biz entertainment out of the queen city. keep it real.

  35. I fell people need to be more careful about what they decided to put out on line, b/c some of that stuff can come back and bite you in the a$$; And I fell to see how twitter and sex go together.

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