TALK TO ME!!!!

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WHATS UP LIFERS???? I WAS TALKING WITH THE HOMIES LAST NIGHT ABOUT HOW GUYS GET TURNED OFF IF A GIRL HAS BEEN WITH A FEW GUYS. THEN EXPECT THEM TO STAY AROUND KNOWING THEY BEEN WITH A BUNCH OF GIRLS. THAT’S SOME SELFISH SHIT LOL. SO TODAYS QUESTION IS FOR THE FELLAS: WHY DONT GUYS GIVE GIRLS THE SAME PASS THEY GIVE US ?

TALK TO ME!!!!

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  1. That answer is simple! It’s not us as men that will not give them a pass, it is the society we were raised in. If a man sleeps wih 10 women he is considered to be a “PIMP” if a woman sleeps with 10 men she’s a “WHORE”!

    Woman are held to a higher standard and let’s be honest all men want to think their womean is clean and pure.

    Truth of the matter is you will never know the REAL number of men she has slept with anyway

  2. that stupid ass double standard. lol and it only makes sense to YALL.

  3. LMFAO I am soo gonna enjoy this one!!! *breaks out popcorn*

  4. LOL Whaddup Kandi!!!

  5. I personally require a female to be around the same number as me. I haven’t sleep with a whole bunch of chicks cause I was brought up with the saying “respect your body” and I would expect the same from a female. I will never wife a chick up if she has porn numbers.

  6. Since u said for the guys I’m gonna sit back and chill and c what they say…some guys r on that narcisstic tip!

  7. lol cuz guys dont want other guys talkin bout how they girl is a hoe. its easier for the female species to ignore dudes who get around, get over being cheated on and stay with the guy, etc. At the end of the day its just how it is, thank god for being a man

  8. Guys dont give us the same pass because they are afraid someone will see them with a chick thats been ran thru. If she been around da block a few times–he dont want nun of his boys to clown him when seen wit her. who knows? his boys have even hit. LOL

  9. I’m so glad you realize how dumb that is. I know a guy who freaked out when he came across his girl’s ex…His reasoning was “i don’t want to think about him sexing you, having him right here in my face”. Meanwhile, this nigga has a child that visits them every other weekend…what is she besides a reminder of his previous relationship???

  10. i think most girl just understand that a guy been with plenty women if he is halfway fly. not that they have evidence but its just there thinking that he had to have plenty women. i think we as men while we may know a fine chick had to be with a lot of dudes or more than likely have based of what she look we can think that but at the same time we dont want comformation that she has. like an unspoken rule dont ask dont tell type of thing. so while u may have been with jd, johnta, ty, trey, ush, nelly, and the texas ranger i dont care as long as u dont tell me you have lol

  11. ALOT OF REASONS……CUZ LADIES ARENT SUPPOSED TO CARRY THEMSELVES LIKE MEN….I DONT APPROVE OF LOOSE GOODS, & ONCE A GOOD GIRLS GONE BAD ,SHES GONE FOREVER…AINT THAT WAT THEY SAY ???? TWITTER.COM/TYMCFLY

  12. lol cuz guys dont want other guys talkin bout how they girl is a hoe. its easier for the female species to ignore dudes who get around, get over being cheated on and stay with the guy, etc. At the end of the day its just how it is, thank god for being a man LOL but its the truth

  13. Well maybe becuz if a female has sex with many many guys a guy may be able to tell. They don’t want a chick that they have to fist instead of finger… lol But when a guy has been with a lot of girls he gets better… That fucked up but C’est La Vie..

  14. It is an unfair double standard but men have always had higher standards for women.
    It goes back to our hunter gatherer days. 😉

  15. I dont nessasaraly think its a double standard. Its just expectations. It not very “ladylike” to be with alot of people. But in other ways its expected of a man, almost encouraged. Its just what the rules of sex have grown to. women dont give passes they just figure its how it is. always been that way and i dont see it changeing. altho it schould (std’s) no joke!

  16. Because that’s how it is. It may be selfish but oh well. Some shit you just can’t change because it’s the way of the world. Just like if as a man I take care of my woman then I’m just being a man. If it was the other way around, I’d be a boy, or a bitch. Because I damn sure aint about to wife nobody that been with the amount of people I’ve been with

  17. im so happy you hit the guys wit this question, cause ive been tryin to get my male friends to answer this shit for forever lol…this should very interesting

  18. what up Anita. yall been holding it down while i’ve been gone i see. lol

  19. Because we expect our women to be the ourity in our life. So when a woman has been with a lot of guys, it fucks with out security and to cover up our insecurity we bring hers down by call her a hoe and other terms. Also Society, since the begining of life, trained us to believe that a woman should be the nurturant and made it okay for men to expand.
    It isn’t right but thats what it is. It’s mostly dealing with our insecurities. Point Blank.
    What up Kandi and Anita.

  20. This implies that they’ve had the “sex number” conversation. I was talking about this earlier with a friend and I honestly wouldn’t want to know if she’s been with a lot of dudes…I’m definitely not telling my number. All that matters to me is that she doesn’t have any STDs and practices safe sex. That whole sex numbers thing can give you a skewed picture of a person. We all have a checkered past…

  21. lol..i hate to say it but a man can be the biggest hoe in the town and find the right girl and change his whole rep…but a lady…..no go!!..she can only be a good girl to somebody that didnt know her..cause to the ppl that know her…then, now and still a hoe…lmao

  22. Its a pyscho analysis type deal… the male was raised to see a woman who has slept with many men as a hoe, or something you fuck when you drunk bored or just looking to run a train on.. with proper protection of course. POINT BLANK NO NIGGA SNIFF WHERE I PEE AT… but a nigg see it as if i fuck hella chicks then thas what i do and my niggas see me as a nigga that gets mad pussy..so i gets mad love haha its society and generational gender placement in a web of sex rules and regulations..

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  23. I think that, that shit is coming to an end. It used to be looked down on for a promiscuous would ever be able to settle down ie turning a whoe into a house wife. While at the same time us ddods where always taught it was the way of the world to slay as many chics as we could. But, shit now now who really gives a fuck. If you aint fuck with a broad by the time she like 14, 15 you can give up on trying to fuck a virgin. By the time she get out of high school she like 10 deep and know how to give decent head. So what are you left with? I learned long time ago to not ask question that you don’t want to know the answers to (I asked this chick one time after we started fucking and she told me I was the 32nd she was only 25 needless to say we still fucked around even after that). So, if you a real nigga and you worry bout who she done fuckt and cut the chick off cause of that you might as well convert to liking boys!!!!!!

  24. it’s a biologically subconscious thing: men were given an endless supply of reproductive equipment, therefore we think that wasting it all around town is no big deal. onthe other hand, women were given a limit, only being able to release one egg each month for a certain amount of years. she needs to be more careful with who she lays down with.

    also, we are able to ENTER INTO situations must easier than women. whereas women are often stuck until the guy is done. it’s biological.

  25. @kandi Hell yeah gurl!!! Your 27 cents was missed round deez parts. LOL

    Whaddup Olu…

  26. That stupid double standard will always be there. Dudes can sleep around all day and they jus a playa but if a woman do it then she a hoe. Watch, I bet dudes aint even gonna be able to give a valid explanation for why they think like that.

  27. There shouldn’t be a pass but most of us fellas are insecure about things like that because we see our woman as our prize and it doesn’t mean much when everyone else is first place with the girl as well.

  28. i think because a lot of men think in a sexual way women are like Secret Clubs and if everyone can get in its not special anymore BUT if a Man can Gain Admission into the Club its seen as an Accomplishment and if you have the skill to into a lot of clubs then you are the man.

    that’s not the way i think of it but it is for a lot of people

    OR Another Way to think of it is that Woman have the Lock and Men have the Key and its the woman’s choice to let their guard down and let the key go into the hole so if they let every dude stick their key in then….. you get my point

  29. The reaso why is because men expect more from women, and its a double standard, but if we did the same there would be alot of single people out here. But thats why a good girl never tells, her past. Now I see if she has been around the block a couple of times, but hey sometimes a HOE can be changed into a housewife, if they have matured and decided to be in a committed relationship. Yeh most mean dont want to think about their woman with another dude, and with some niggas they know too, come on, thats going too far. But if you are mature enough to get in a committed realtionship, you also have to leave the past, behind you

  30. Treat others as you want to be treated. So if she needs to have a minimal number of partners, you need to have the same credential.

  31. Good Question. I believe that as a woman we accept a man regardless of what his past is/was because at a point we believe that we will be the ones to change them to a one woman man. We don’t judge, we just want to be loved.

  32. I heard a comedian break it down in a way I liked. He said for the most part a man can sleep with a woman and not feel anything for her. But a women (not including prostitutes, groupies or drunks lol), takes time to find something she likes about a dude (sense of humor, looks, etc.) before she gets down w him so it’s more personal. It’s the reason female escorts and prostitutes can make a killing….;)

  33. I think educated women are starting to behave like men in this sense…we’ve started looking at ya’ll like “if this dude has been with too many girls, he might have something like AIDS, Herpes, a bunch (more than 1) of baby mamas …i don’t need this is my life”.

  34. I THOUGHT THE QUESTION WAS FOR FELLAS??? LOL

  35. @Christel Stop talking about my brother!!! LOL

  36. Because they have an “in” and we have an “out”. And that “in” may get wore out. Just kidding (not really) This is just another one of those situations where there is a double standard. Can’t really explain it. It may be a situation where guys are more vocal, they see a girl they have been with and most automatically tell their boys “I hit that”. It could make the current guy feel like he’s catching seconds. Whereas women don’t do that because if they would it would just give the guy more credibility.

  37. YOO-Christel. What do you mean educated? School wise or just common sense?

  38. I think it may intimidate men a bit.Like she has more or as much experience as he does.Also,men usually like to think of women as a conquest,like getting them is something that only they could accomplish.Also,I don’t know any man who wants to think about his girl with someone else no matter the timeline.Its all a part of that stupid “Boys will be boys,but girls should be ladies” mentality.

  39. All we need is a liitle understanding..

  40. @ Olu Both…women that actually use their minds and think about things – those of us that aren’t completely ruled by emotions or some false dependency.

  41. idk, I actually would prefer a girl who hasn’t been wit that many guys. It lets me know that they dnt give it up 2 any random guy off da street.

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  43. I agree w/ EastPoint Vet but i’d also like to add that there is a huge double standard true enough. We know its not fair ladies but, it just is what it is. Guys get turned off when women have been w/ numerous partners cause guys always won’t what a number brother hasn’t had. If you have had her, we rather just not know about it, don’t ask a question you don’t want to know a answer too policy. Its like if u not from College Park and u just kick it in Stockbridge all the time and u meet a female from CP that’s been w/ everybody and anybody. If u don’t know her past you’ve got her flauting her all around Stockbridge like “oh yeah man i got me one now”, not knowing u got the biggest hoe in College Park. But guys don’t generally wanna be in a relationship w/ some1 a female w/ several parnters, we might be fuck friends or cut buddy’s on that kind of level, but as far as a relationship naw it ain’t gonna happen. Basically I said all that to say this, its like the old rule of thumb, “You can’t turn a Hoe into a Housewife” and “u can’t eat off of a dirty plate”

  44. You sait it! We’re selfish! From the beginning of time men want their cake and eat it to. We place standards on others that we don’t expect from ourselves.

  45. It’s not guys fault that they get the pass. Alot of girls are attracted to the guys who are ladies men. They love the guys who talk about how much sex they have had and all the people they have had sex with. Exp. Trey Songz, he is a very handsome and talented young man but the ladies love the fact that he loves sex and loves to talk about it. Now if the tables where turned not many men would really want to wife someone like “Superhead”. Men like to think whats theirs is theirs and no one else can have it and won’t get it. Once they find out that its already been had they don’t want her anymore. But they will gladly boast in the fact that they had her too. Alot of it too has to do with the fact that women are considered emotionally weak. Men call themselves hoes all the time and if a woman calls them a dog they will gladly yell BOW WOW. But if you call a woman a hoe she wants to cry. Woman are giving men the power to limit us sexually. Everyone loves the fact that Lil Wayne wants to fuck every girl in the world but thought it was trashy when Superhead fucked her way up the financial ladder and into the spotlight!

  46. YOO-Christel. I don’t think a woman needs to have an “education” to know who to lay with. She should naturally make the best judgment for herself.

  47. The reason why is even a really good looking guy has to have some charm and game to sleep with a lot of women. Women don’t have to do anything to sleep with a lot of men. A hot woman has had guys trying to fuck her since she was a teenager. All she had to do is say yes.

  48. Men look at men like as a hoe for sleeping around and shit. I might give my mans props for fucking mad bitches (excuse my french) but we look at other cats in a ill mannered way for fucking around. Anita, Kandi, what you think?

  49. @Big Shaun<— u were on a good point muh nig…women do have an "in" and tht said "in" makes them more susceptible to desease….So 1 thing is "hey if she been wit 50 niggaz id wanna kno cuz its likely tht she had shit and the speaks on her character"

    The next point is "eaziness"…Yall women play so hard 2 get sumtimes…Im tryna holla at u and u playin tht tuff shit…i finally get u 2 let me in and im like puttin u on pedistal status…nxt thing u kno i find out u was the neighborhood ho and u was blowing smoke up muh ass cuz i was a good catch..FUK THT!!!

    Anotha side is the whole "way of the world" shit…we grow up learning tht women who play hard and arent premiscuous r the good girls…and tht its ok 4 a guy 2 play arnd bcuz we r the MEN…lmao!!! now needless 2 say tht shit is dumb, but until the world walkx diff ur gonna have those "sheep type" niggaz who will think tht way…me personally…i dnt like virgins or inexperience, shit gets in the way lol!!

    Now speaking personally, i thoughtfully screen ne chick i fuk wit…muh sex parts r special…io grew up thinkin tht jus like women did…so i watch who i sex…have i slipped up in a drought hell yea..a nigga get desperate at times hahahah!! real talk but i make sure tht she 1. is clean and tested and 2. in case tht slip happens she ca b a decent baby motha…jus keepin shit all the way wit yall…so yes like sum1 said if i come in wit a low # 4 a reason…even if hers is higher than mine i expect her decision makin process 2 be 1 of intelligence and tact…Lets b real who wants 2 walk arnd wit a wifey who fuk aint shit Ray-Ray and Tony n nem!! lol!!

  50. I give females that pass…..I just have a problem with women wanting that pass but still wanting the perks of a double standard. If you want to have multiple partners as a some men do thats your business, but when you ask for other perks and I treat you as you would treat a man that has had multiple partners don’t get mad. You won’t give me some head cause you don’t know who I been wit, but you want me to eat you out? WTF You out with your male friends and I can’t speak but you see me with my sister and now she is the new bitch cause I didn’t give you none after I saw you. Get out of here!

  51. Ha What Up Jd Ha Man I Like Your Music An The Music You Feature in Ha Man I Can Rap To But I Don’t Know If Anybody Would Like It An I Like That You Helped Produce Bow Wow Ablum When He Was Young Alright G Talk To U Later. Out

  52. because men will be men its like that sayin men want the cake and eat it toooooooo

  53. @Olu I’ve had male friends ask me why I’m kick’n it with a certain guy and of course the smartass kicks in and asks “why you need to know?” LOL When I’m there for one reason…fuck buddy. LOL But that didn’t make me any more of hoe then the dudes other than what society wants you to think. 😉

  54. YOO-Anita. So my point stands on both parts. Men look at other men in a bad way when therif rep is questioned and also you used your better judgement to determine if you wanted to fuck with him or not. Do you have a degree? If you don’t mind me asking.

  55. @Olu<—and i agree wit u…i got a friend who may b workin on like 75 80 and yea 2 me he a fukin ho…and its so bad tht he dnt care if she look like gorilla balls…long as her body tight…lmao!! i cant do it…smdh!!

  56. Oh yeah I’m picky about who I sleep with…especially since most of them were while I was in the military. I make it a point to be somewhat friends including the ones I’m just trying to get a fix from. LOL I have an associates in computer networking and I’m currently working on the bachelor version of it. 😀

  57. YOO-Biggl48. LMAO! I got a cousin who is working on close to that number. I thought I was bad, SHHIIITTT!!! And it’s not like they feeling these girls, they just think the shit’s cool. Fuck that. What about the down low cats who do the same shit!! Never thought of that huh lifers!!

  58. Have you all noticed that only minority men have this issue? In general, White men don’t care how many partners their girl has had as long as she’s clean…and whites are getting married and having families (not baby mamas) more often than minorities.

    Ignorant statements like “men will be men” and “this is how it’s always been” do nothing to better us a people. It’s a lazy way of thinking, a cop-out that gets us nowhere. It halts any real understanding and progression. We really must do better.

    I haven’t mess with a lot of dudes because my mother’s a nurse and was very honest with me about what could happen when I was growing up. Condoms aren’t always effective and I don’t want some horrible disease from a dude that slept around with even ONE woman that’s slept with ONE infected dude. I also prefer not to have kids out of wedlock with a dude that i don’t even stay with… Notice that my reasons have absolutely nothing to do with not wanting to seem like a hoe for some idiot dude that’s slept with half of the city’s population.

    @Anita LOL to your previous response to me.
    @Olu…maybe you didn’t understand me. I’m not taking strictly about book knowledge. I said women that use their minds and actually think -women that aren’t completely run by emotions. Women that understand that a lot of brothers are living by antiquated, unreasonable, and unworthy expectations will not entertain such ideals.

  59. LOL ….”girls have an in”. Ya’ll kill me with something different everyday

  60. YOO-Anita. SO back to what honey was talking about with “educated women”, congrats on the CPN and good luck with upgrade of it, but you don’t think it makes a difference if educated or not right?

  61. @biggl48 How the hell does your boi sleep with so many and not have a shriveled dick?!!! I bet his balls look like a newborns’ by now. LMFAO smh What city you live in dawg so I’ll know to stay away. LOL

  62. That’s because some guys have not come to the conclusion that women have a certain since of promiscuity about them just as we have… you have male whores and women whores it’s the individual that matters. This goes back to the women’s suffrage movement when they were given the right to vote, many men did not want women voting but if you look back at history the women ran the household; this was another form of double standard (you can have your say in the house, but not in public)… once women started getting positions in the work force their were more affairs happening and the guys could not take it because women were never suppose to be out of the house. My personal opinion is it’s the individual, because it’s a personal choice to degrade yourself whether you are a man or woman. We have to get pass the point of gender regardless of what it’s about, whether it be about sexual promiscuity, women in the armed forces, a woman president or any other myriad of issues.

    By the way thanks to all the lifers that sent me messages about my hustle you guys are very motivating, and for those that dont know go to http://www.myspace.com/mokanemusic

  63. OKAY JD I LIKE THIS TOPIC AND THE REASON IS BECAUSE IT BRINGS ME TO THE TITLE OF A WOMAN THAT CONSIDERS HERSELF AS A “BAD BITCH” MEANING THAT SHE CONCEALS HER MOST PRIZED POSSESSION EXCLUSIVE. MY OPINION IS I BELIEVE THAT US FELLAS WANT A BAD BITCH BECAUSE SHE KEEP HER “GOODS” EXCLUSIVE NOT WANTING TO EXPOSE HER BUSINESS THROUGH THE GRAPEVINE. GUYS DON’T GIVE GIRLS THE SAME PASS THEY GIVE US UNLESS THEY’RE PORNSTARS LOL

  64. YOO-Christel. Maybe I did, but I still feel it should’nt be a difference if she just wants a fuck. Now if we are talking relationship then yes, he must have something to offer. If I see a honey with a great body and nice face but a dumb mind, I’m fucking if I want but I would commit to stupidity. That’ll be cutty buddy.

  65. It’s because men know how men are. We ruthless dogs straight up. I myself have been in both situations. I’ve had women say I’ve dated your friend or someone you know before so I don’t want it to be akward and I’ve also had women who know the sleeping with all my patnas and she throwing it at me too. I personally could careless until you start informing me then imma say chill out or get on. That also go to mention that ladies need to be more honest and if you got some shit let a mufuka know, we aint tryna get burned for your pleasure.

  66. IT IS A FUCKING TURN OFF WHEN A GIRL IS FLIRTING WITH EVERYBODY WHEN THEY WAS FLIRTING WITH YOU JUST A SECOND AGO. YOU CAN’T TRUST HER, IT’S NO DOUBT ABOUT IT. I BEEN THROUGH THAT SITUATION SO MANY TIMES, IT’S HARD TO TRUST WOMEN. WITH MAN, THEY DO THE SAME THING TOO, IT’S ALSO A TURN OFF, BUT FOR SOME REASON, GIRLS GET JEOLOUS IF A GUY THAT WAS FLIRTING WITH HIM A MINUTE AGO GOES TO SOMEONE ELSE THAT ALSO CAUGHT HIS ATTENTION, BUT ONCE HE COMES BACK AT YA, THAN THEY HAPPY AGAIN WHICH I SEE A LOT WHEN I GO TO THE CLUB ONCE IN A WHILE. I DON’T KNOW WHY THE FUCK YA CONFUSE ABOUT, BUT YA NEED TO BE REAL WITH YOURSELVES, YOU WON’T LIKE THAT SHIT EITHER IF THAT HAPPENS TO YOU, BUT YA DON’T CARE CAUSE ALL OF YA ARE WHORES WHICH I CAN SEE FROM READING YA COMMENTS ON HERE.

  67. YOO-Anita. LMMFAO @ your comment to big.

  68. YOO-Nikita. A woman and man can be flirty without meaning shit with it. Example-OLU.

  69. @Olu To me, educated in this type of situation means that she got her emotions in check and not expecting to change a dude and try to make him permanent. For some reason females don’t want to think outside the fake ass “love box” and act like high schoolers and equate sex with love. If a guy tells you straight up he wants “no strings” then she should take it at face value; make him her fuck buddy or leave and find a dude to truly hook up with. Even in my 20s I stayed away from that fake ass “love box”…except for one but he got caught up too so that worked out for us. LOL But that is not always the case…

  70. IT IS A FUCKING TURN OFF WHEN A GIRL IS FLIRTING WITH EVERYBODY WHEN THEY WAS FLIRTING WITH YOU JUST A SECOND AGO. YOU CAN’T TRUST HER, IT’S NO DOUBT ABOUT IT. I BEEN THROUGH THAT SITUATION SO MANY TIMES, IT’S HARD TO TRUST WOMEN. WITH MAN, THEY DO THE SAME THING TOO, IT’S ALSO A TURN OFF, BUT FOR SOME REASON, GIRLS GET JEOLOUS IF A GUY THAT WAS FLIRTING WITH YOU A MINUTE AGO GOES TO SOMEONE ELSE THAT ALSO CAUGHT HIS ATTENTION, BUT ONCE HE COMES BACK AT YA, THAN THAT’S WHEN YA DUMBASS GIRLS GET HAPPY AGAIN WHICH I SEE A LOT WHEN I GO TO THE CLUB ONCE IN A WHILE. I DON’T KNOW WHY THE FUCK YA CONFUSE ABOUT, BUT YA NEED TO BE REAL WITH YOURSELVES, YOU WON’T LIKE THAT SHIT EITHER IF THAT HAPPENS TO YOU, BUT YA DON’T CARE CAUSE ALL OF YA ON HERE ARE WHORES WHICH I CAN SEE FROM READING YA COMMENTS ON HERE.

  71. biggl48 fixin to have me veer off topic………………
    A woman can only have 2 sexual partners but end up getting some STD from a ho ass man so the #’s game isn’t really a factor although it can be. Diseases don’t just spontaneously appear from thin air into a womans “in” & guess what, that same ho ass man will go off and poke another 20-30 girls and the next thing you know they all got what his nasty ass gave them.

  72. i think its cuz for a chick its more emotional…. so we know tht the dudes they been w meant they ws really feelin them… whereas we’re more likely to do some chick whether we really feelin her or not! n women know that 75% of the chicks we tappd ws jus for the heck of it!

  73. @knicha only 75%? LOL

  74. WELL I WOULDN’T BE TURN OFF IF HE OR SHE HAD A PAST, UNLESS THEY LEARN FROM THEIR PAST THAN I’M STRAIGHT. BUT IF THEY HAVE SOMEONE THAT THEY ALSO SEEING, I WOULD KNOW AND I WOULD BE STRAIGHT UP WITH HER AND HIM CAUSE MANY TIMES I HAD THIS PROBLEM WHEN MY GIRL IS STILL IN LOVE WITH HER MAN, I’M LIKE, AREN’T YOU A LESBIAN??? SHE’S SAYS YES, ” YOU FUCKING LYER!” I DON’T DO BI SEXUALS OR BI CURIOUS. BUT GUYS, THEY ALWAYS GET OVER THEIR EX, BUT GIRLS, THEY NEVER DO, WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT? JERMAINE I WANT YOU NEXT TIME TO MAKE A DISCUSSION ABOUT WHY GIRLS CAN’T GET OVER THEIR EX. IT’S REALLY ANNOYING TO HEAR THE GIRL TALK ABOUT HER EX 24/7, LIKE I’M GONNA DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. LOL! MAN GET TURN OFF ABOUT THAT, IS THAT RIGHT?

  75. Thanks for hitting the guys with the question this time around.

    The double standard makes sense if you think about it. I think it’s nature’s way of regulating reproduction and passing on the best genes. Women produce one egg compared to millions of sperm produced by a male. So it may be based in instinct. Males are very territorial throughout the natural world. Look at chimpanzees, the strongest male gets to mate with all of the females that he wants to. But the females better not get caught mating with other lesser males. And we all know every man thinks he’s the greatest thing walking. So you see men have that ridiculously overblown ego for a reason, lol.

    So ladies, whenever your man does something that doesn’t make any damn sense, try to see him as a chimpanzee and you’ll get a better understanding. Although I think the same goes for women too. Hope that wasn’t too weird of an analogy, lol.

  76. @Minnie LMFAO I like that analogy!!! Banana anyone?!!!

  77. I’m glad you liked it, lol. At least you don’t think I’m a weirdo. I deal with people alot so I have to come up with some kind of theory for the crazy things they do.

  78. girls get turned off by that too there’s this guy i know who is really nice and he’s real good lookin he was into me but he has literally fucked every single girl in the town all the hoes all the ugly girls all the good looking girls all the girls! lol so i am just completley put off by him he actually has a lot going for him nice and good looking as i said and he’s got a good job too but i just couldn’t and wouldn’t

  79. Its Because when you think about it we are alpha’s and the thought of women being with other men all kind of different ways is sick it’s a good chance she smash the homies . Most of the time it being done at here place so you think about all the kats she been with at that place. To keep it really women are worse than men a dude say ive been with like 60 lady they laugh it off i might still give it up let them here a chick say ive been with 30 guys they will call them a Hoe.

  80. YOO-Anitta. Point well made.

  81. ITS A MAN WORLD !!!!!! COMPLETE SEXIEST how bout ladies we just dnt kiss and tell i NEVER do!!!!

  82. @Olu Stanks homie. 😀

  83. BIGREV SAID IT BEST…no other explanation loll..i said it b4 the guys started posting..some men are narcisstic, they have been made to believe its all about them ..how selfish!

  84. Wottup Jd, i was wondering if you wanted to buy the biggie x bape tee off me. Shawn Mortensen took the pic, there were only 4 made by Bape, you could only purchase the t shirts from a bape gallery in Tokyo, im selling mine for $3000.00.

  85. Guys just have the gut reaction that there going to be compared to or “sized” up.and if they dont live up to what the lady has already been with then there afraid that its just going to be over like that…..but wether the girl said its the best they have had (lie or not) the guy narmaly forgets about it cus they belive there at the top of that list and got nothing to worry about.

  86. WE GAVE THEM A RIB TO LIVE…WE’VE HAD THE RIGHT TO “DICK-TATE” SINCE THE START OF LIFE

  87. ^^^^^^SEE JD ..THATS the shyt i’m talking about…^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

  88. LOL @ Frank…You didn’t give shit, God took it. Im sure if he would have asked, man would have had something fly to say

  89. @Frank You didn’t give us shit!!! That was God’s work and your dick-tate’n life ate the freak apple following after a woman when God said not to… Try again cuz.

  90. Good topic J men can be hard

  91. because a women isn’t suppose to carry herself in that manor. A women is suppose to be a lady at all times

  92. @raheam That would mean you brothers would actually have to man up and marry a chic before sleeping with her. LOL And since most of you think with your dicks…you’d have a lot of illegal wives to provided and “take care” of.

  93. very good question jd i don’t have this problem but lots of my girls do and they hate that shit. come fellas speak up

  94. LMAO@ Frank Loot. Wait…are you serious?

  95. Men are turned off by certain characteristics that they feel a real women should not have just like women are turned off by characteristics they feel women should not posses. Even though each of them themselves may have these traits they dont want their potential mate of the opposite sex to have these traits.

    Example
    (Generaly)A woman does not want a man that is feminine, unable to protect her, emotional (as in cries when confronted with a stressful situation). These traits are acceptable for a women to have

    (Generaly)A man does not want a woman who lives a “bachelor lifestyle”, always cursing, and having other qualities that people consider “masculine”

    Also ever since the teenage years women have always been attracted to men that are able to get other girls. In other words women want what they think other woman want and that makes the man more attractive to them.

    On the flip side men want what they want they typically dont care if no one else wants her and wish they didnt have to worry about other guys wanting her.

    So basicly if women would have the same outlook and not want guys that have been with a lot of women then men would have to change. But women dont hold us accountable the way we hold them accountable so thats a problem that they have to deal with.

  96. *just like woman are turned off by characteristics they feel men should not posses.

    CORRECTION TO THE SECOND LINE OF MY PREVIOUS COMMENT

  97. It is what it is…DOUBLE STANDARDS…that are here to stay.

  98. LMMAF to Nakita Benjamin how u on here calling women on here whores but u on myspace HALF ASS NAKED U BASILLY ON THERE SELLIN YA ASS SO WHAT WHOULD MEN THINK WHEN THEY GET U. TO WHO EVER MADE THE COMMENT ABOUT FLIRTIN WOMEN CAN FLIRT W WHOEEVER THEY WANT AINT NO RING ON THEY FINGER WHY IS IT A TURN OFF THEY DONT OWE YOU ANYTHING

  99. i kno u said this ? was fo da fellas but imma comment jus bcuz. If a nigga has been with more than ten girls and more than likley he has sexually,then gets upset wit a women for having the same criteria, then he bitchass nigga, and he probably mad bcuz he the eleventh guy. Yall know guys always won’t to be a womans first, and what the girls to be the twevelth jackpot yall hit. SAD. Thats y i say FUCK NIGGAS GET MONEY

  100. I LOVE HOES!!!! LOL Maybe I should find a better word… I love a woman that has been with lots of other men…WHY cause they know what the hell they are doing and they are not as shy!! I hate chicks they are all shy and hold back. You have to be with them for a year before they do that move on you that they were doing with that other guy anyway. Them girls that have been around get right to it…

    PS….

    Fellas you better be DOUBLY strapped…but it is what it is!!!! Any ladies I will still respect you too!!! No disrespect here!!!! 🙂

  101. YEA SPOCK WHY IS A WOMEN A HOE CUZ SHE BEEN WITH OTHER MEN BUT A MEN IS NOT A HOE SO MAYB WOMEN GET WITH OTHER MEN BECAUSE MEN TALK SO MUCH ABOUT HOW GOOD THEY DICK IS AND IS JUST AS WEAK AS THEM BUT IF U GONE CALL A WOMEN A HOE FELLAS U SHUD REFER TO YOUR SELF AS 1 ASWHILE

  102. @ Frank Loot, you didn’t give us anything, God took it.

  103. @sugarbaby just like Whodini said back in the day… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZVMT_itVC4&feature=PlayList&p=890A9484872F386B&index=10

  104. Raheem, if men expect women of today to live up to traditional characteristics of gender roles then they need to be prepared to do the same

  105. @ Minnie Your reasoning makes perfect since if we are to accept that we are nothing more than animals. However, if that were true than we would be driven completely by our biological needs and there would be cognitive social decisions. Killing our sons and any other competitive male would be just fine. Rape wouldn’t exist. And monogamy would be restricted to a very small percentage of us. Marriage wouldn’t be a reality… but if you believe in God, then you know that none of that is considered acceptable.

    If Black males continue their current behavior…and not just in reference to the stereotypical uncontrolled hyper-sexuality – they really have no right to be pissed about others referring to them and treating them like animals.

    We have to do better.

  106. I think it only matters depending on the age of the girl to me i mean if a girl is like 20 and been with 12 niggas what do you think? Say she started havin sex at 15 or 16! if the number of dudes a girl been with is more than half her age or greater, to me is POSSIBLY a hoe.

  107. I was wondering when spock would pop up with some ignorant shit!!!!LOL! At the end of the day women and men are differnt….,and I’m really really trying hard not to judge pple buy there past, but now a days u can’t be to careful…some chicks are worse then men, and men are naïve……its just to much shit out here to be slinggin pussie and dick all over the place!!!I CANT BE BOTHERED……

  108. Ok folks, let’s learn how to use the right words with the right spelling. Woman and Women should be used in the right way. Than and Then aswell.

    YOO-Anita you shut homeboy down with your comment. I can’t lie you are right on that.

    Notice how men are talking about the women that hit. Now think about this fellas. How many of those women (notice I said women not woman when meaning women.) let you hit knowing that that’s all you want? Men think becuase we get her, her and her, we doing something! NIGGA! Please. Half the time your game aint that nice. She alread is viewing you out and sizing you up before she let you “hit”. While we think we running game, we the one who just got played.

    Spock what up homie.
    Kandi chime in.
    Anita chime in.
    Frank chime in.

    I wonder what JD has to say.

  109. I personally will not fuck with a dude who brags about sleeping with a whole lot of chicks cuz i would keep thinking about how I’m about to go where anotha chick or chicks has been and it just turns me off. Plus I dont believe brothas wrap it up 100% of the time anyway and Aids/Hiv is high among Black Women as it is.

  110. YOO-Steffknee. You right. People are out here fucking like aids don’t exsits.

  111. CHRUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH OLU CHRUCH

  112. Thank you sugar. Which comment did you admire?

  113. JD i think quys dnt qive us tha same pass cuz its a territorial thinq……they dnt wanna b where any other quy has been but they dnt find a problem for a female not to want to slob all over where his dick has been..catch my drift?

  114. @ Olu You forgot about “their”, “there”, and “they’re” or “you’re” and “your”

    But thanks. I’m glad to see that annoys others. A mistake is one thing. A systematic error is another. It’s hard to take one’s thoughts seriously when it looks like they can’t really read.

    This comment from you is great: “Men think because we get her, her and her, we doing something! NIGGA! Please. Half the time your game ain’t that nice. She already is viewing you out and sizing you up before she let you “hit”. While we think we running game, we the one who just got played.”

    The problem is that dudes will look at women that think like that as whores as a part of the same double standard.

    Once again, these type of men mean nothing to women of substance.

  115. YOO-Christel. Thank you. Shit I’m just being grown about the shit. Most of the people I associate with are females. 90% of my friends are females and they tell me how they feel and I view how they act when it comes to men and shit. It’s all about being grown about the shit!! DiiGG!!

  116. coz women bare children!

    an guys can wash off while women are more infected!

  117. @christel stanks for saving me from typing that out. Also to and too were left out…shhhhh

    @Olu Dudes get played on a daily basis and just don’t have a clue. LOL DUDE 1: “Naw that’s ma gurl!!! She wouldn’t do that to me.” DUDE 2: “HAHA Syke dumbass your gurl just left my place bout 5 mins ago!!!” LMFAO I grew up with seven boys and only 2 were my brothers. LOL Ya live and ya learn Olu!!! 😀

  118. YOO-Anita. I’ve been that dude on both ends. I’m als that dude that now, I won’t allow a woman play me. I don’t trust a bitch after she leaves my sight. Notice I said bitch.

  119. Hmmm, I’ll take the nation and use it as a metaphor… George Washington and all them other men–Adams and Jefferson and Madison, etc.–they’re called the founding fathers. Lady Liberty is an iconic symbol of America as a country. What does she do? She stands, holding a torch, welcoming newcomers to the free world–that is Ellis Island. She is the representation of so much more. Yet, she stands there. Welcoming! Meanwhile, the 44 presidents(all men) are running this country.

    Now, with that being said, to answer JD’s question… Men can do whatever the fuck that want and women are just doing to have to accept that shit. Is it a double standard? YES! Is it fair? NO! Will it ever change? HELL NAW! Do I think men should try to change the standard? FOR WHAT? IT’S NOT GOING TO WORK!
    —I’m not the get in/ get out type of female so this just me playing devil’s advocate but anything you can do, I can do better. Shit, if you can’t appreciate the fact that I’m a ho and I’m a better ho than you, then maybe-just maybe, it’s about time for yo ass to settle down in life. I mean, damn! You already rule the fucking world, both physically and spiritually because biblically the man is head of the woman (To those who follow in my faith as Christians you know that Adam called Eve woman because she came from man). And this was in the beginning. So Why don’t guys give girls the same pass that they give to other men? SIMPLE, BECAUSE THAT DON’T HAVE TO. That’s just the law of the land.

    Nisha
    XOxo

    P.S. I felt like blabbing today! 🙂

  120. *THEY DON’T HAVE TO

  121. Christel,

    I’m not saying it’s right or exceptable. I’m saying it has a biological basis that isn’t necessarily rational. Of course societal norms and rules are necessary to guide our behavior or else. That’s why we teach our children right from wrong and self control in spite of what they may WANT to do. But it doesn’t change the fact that the instinct is still there. Some act on their instincts without regard and others don’t.

  122. YOO-nishanisha87. UMMM…Good shit. I respect that.
    I’m on that junior mafia shit, Fuck bitches, Get money.
    LMAO. I’m ponly joking.

  123. I meant Only. Cancel the P.

  124. @Olu… I mean, I’m just saying. Bitches ain’t shit but ass and tits. LMAO…. totally joking. But for serious! Like get the fuck over it. It is what it is. That’s just the male ego and his fucked up insecurities. Don’t claim you want no bad bitch then when you get one, you on the phone crying to yo homeboy (or better yet, yo best female friend that you fucking on that low ) because yo gal ain’t just YO bad bitch! Charge it to the game!

  125. Guys are so insecure!!! They always wanna know who better like we are really gonna say the last nigga was the BEST he had me in here climbing walls, and I just wish u would hurry up when ur on me. LOL! Guys cant help there EGO.

  126. @Bea Yeah their egos get them into places they can’t handle or information they truly didn’t want to know. LOL

  127. LAWD ITS HARD 2 ANSWER THIS QUESTION… FIRST OFF IF YOU A REAL ASS WOMAN OR MAN YOU CHOOSE YOUR MATES WISLEY SO THAT YOUR BUSINESS WONT BE IN THE STREETS…NOBODY WANTS A PERSON THAT HAS BEEN RAN THRU MALE OR FEMALE BECAUSE IT SHOWS A LACK OF RESPONSIBILTY!!! KNOWING HOW MANY DISEASES ARE OUT THERE IT SHOWS THAT YOU DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOURSELF OR POTENTIAL MATES…ITS SAD THAT FEMALES DONT MIND THAT THEIR MAN HAS BEEN WIT EVERY CHICK ON THEIR BLOCK…I MEAN DAMN WE HAVE TO HOLD THEM TO A HIGH STANDARD JUST LIKE THEY HOLD US…IRRESPONSIBILTY LIKE TRYNA FUKK EVERY GIRL IN THE WORLD IS WHY BLACK WOMEN HAVE THE HIGHST HIV/AIDS RATES NOW!!! LETS BE RESPONSIBLE PEOPLE…

  128. @ sugarbaby

    You are right I hate the fact that it is a double standard and that is the reason I never judge women. A men can go out and be with lots of women and people say that it is normal but if a woman does the same thing she is a HO…I don’t think that’s right…

    @ mskisses

    I agree with you, it’s so much stuff out here you have to be careful and what women don’t realize is that MOST MEN NEVER GO TO THE DOCTOR!!! It’s sad but niggas would rather fall out somewhere then to get themselves checked out. “Shit if I got something I don’t want to know” THAT’s EVEN MORE SAD!! At least most women will go get checked, and for the Women running behind the bad boys with no job,, Guess what he don’t have no health insurance either,,,something you need to think about. I got a fine ass Doctor and that helps everything…I make sure to see her not only once but twice a year!!! I still like an EXPERIENCED woman….Yeah that sounds a lot better!!

  129. @ Olu

    What’s up homie…I see you doing your thing on this one!!

  130. The main reason for this is the man’s inner “EGO”. You know we have this inner fear that another man can or has made the lady that you’re with feel better than you have. We as men cant deal with that. We can deal with alot of things but thats one thing that attacks us on the inside and we cant front and play that off like some things that attacks our outer EGO’s. Ladies I should be selling yall this instead of telling yall. To my fellaz, just remember COP AND BLOW is the name of the game. You COP one if she wants to leave……LET HER and BLOW her off and go COP another one.

    Just keep it 100 no matter what you do…………….

    IAACP RECORDS………………….

  131. ahhhhhhhhhhhhh haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  132. YOO-Spock. I had to. I love this type shit. JD picked the right one this time.
    I should be an AR fpr SoSo Def.

  133. @Olu you need work on your editing skills first. LMFAO *runs*

  134. YOO-Anita. I knew it would come back on me. I’m correcting folks and fuck up myself. Haha. LMFAO. Damn ma, you bust me out like that!! SHIIIT. LOL…
    [email protected]. Look me up on facebook.

  135. @Olu dude just tell me your fb name… or CLICK MY NAME and request to be a friend. hint hint

  136. YOO-Anita. I did that. You must have like a privacy block on your page. Facebook comes up but your page doesn’t. My profile has a privacy block on it too. I’m about to change it for you. Look up Oluwaseyi Ikuegbuwa

  137. http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30392686&id=1299270190#/Olu.A.Dickson.Ikuegbuwa?ref=name

  138. yo yall mackin and shit @Anita @Olu! Dont hurt yourselves! But bottom line dudes be on some undercover insecure shit and they just cant handle “exprienced” women they start askin gay ass questions like “who else have you done that with” bullshit on that page! Niggas are funny like that you gotta fuck with real niggas ladies who are non judgemental! But you just cant be MY GIRL! Not with too many miles on it, i like new car smell!

  139. well, we are men, and I guess it comes with it haha LOL. call it being selfish, but we have to admit though, we just can’t stand “not being the first”, you know what I mean ? by the way, sir Dupri, I’m one your big fans here in the Philippines. been hooked to living the life. much respect, more power..

  140. Because it just never seems to be the same thing!! you digg?? but JD im feelin u, i was with one of the homegurls one night and we were driving up this mountain, when she tells me “oh, i fucked one of my sluts there!” like what ?? i asked, “so, why do u call him a slut?’ with her responding “because, thats what i like to call him”, so i tell her, if hes a slut then what does it make u ? but forgetting that, same ol thang, why dont the fellas give the girls the same pass theyre givin??

  141. I don’t hold the # of dudes a woamn has been with against her. At the same time I have no desire to date a virgin, I need a certain level of exxxperience, I have done all the teaching I want to do in the sex-ed department. As long as a woman is disease free we are all good. I have been with too many women to trip on any woman with a past.

  142. Hey JD, I would like to se eyou take this topic in another direction… what if your mate came at you about their past of heavy partying and party drug use cocaine, LSD, Extasy, etc. I don’t mean they were strung out, but what if a person you were dating said they were wild a couple years ago? can you trust that they have stopped using drugs? Or does it matter?

    Hell I think I might do a blog on this topic now tha tI think about it… http://hispointofview.com <– check back later today… for the post.

  143. http://hispointofview.com/2009/09/past-habits/

  144. double standard

  145. Its because the more a woman has sex the bigger and more worn out her vagina becomes, once a mans dick stop growing he done lol.

  146. i dont think nobody want nothn with alot of miles on it u not gon buy a car with a lot of miles cause its gon break down on u so better yet a woman dats been around the neighborhood the club is ran down with no rubber on tires so u know if u aint got no meat on them tires u no u aint gon get to far bro

  147. Damn! You are comapring women to cars? Haha. I do it too but not in this manner!!
    So basically you are viewing them as an item to help you get around until you find something better!

  148. ITS LIKE WHEN GUYS HAVE SEX WIT A BUNCH OF GIRLS ITS SUPPOSE TO BE COOL AND MANLY BUT FOR WOMEN THE WORLD LOOKS AT THEM LIKE WHORES IF THEY SLEP WITH MORE GUYS THEN THEIR HANDS CAN COUNT! THATS WHAT SUCKS FOR WOMEN AND THATS WHY I THINK A LOT OF GIRLS TRY TO HIDE THEIR FREAKY SIDES AS IF THEY DONT SUCK A LIL DEE! BUT I THINKS ITS MORE LIKELY THAT I GUY WOULD CARE ABOUT A GIRLS PAST BUT GIRLS ALWAYS WANNA KNOW HOW MANY SEX PARTNERS WE HAD IN THE PAST AND ITS LIKE “WOMEN JUST SHUT UP AND WORRY ABOUT WHATS GOING ON NOW!” THEY TURN INTO DETCTIVES AND SHIT! GUYS ARE DEFINITLY NOT AS ANAL ABOUT A WOMANS PAST SEX LIFE UNLESS THEY WANT HER TO BE THAT SPECIAL GIRL.

  149. If a women put an add on a dating site offering free sex for the right guy she will have a hundred guys lined up to try and hit. If a man put an ad up he would be lucky to get one response! If a women has multiple partners it isnt viewed as an accomplishment because its too easy! If a man has multiple partners he gets props because its not easy for most men! If a man has multiple partners it means that he gets it and is good with the ladies and women like that in a man! If a women has multiple partners its not really saying much just that she likes fuckin!

  150. @Jay Ellis CO MUTHAFUCKIN SIGN!

  151. Spock i think u would like to Phuck an experienced woman..but i find it highly unlikely that u would want to wife her and respect her..thats bs alllllllllll men want to believe that their wife or wifey is innocent..thats why when they say they want to know i dont think they really want to know..

  152. Yo, really though, its nasty on both parts. I mean for a woman to open her legs for a bunch of different dudes…yuckos. But I feel the same way towards men. I dont see how you trust to put your piece in a bunch of different women. Its like neither knows how many ppl the other has been with plus, yall may slip up and go raw every so often. Check ya self cause if he or she go raw with you who else got it like that.

    Keep it safe and be secure, sometimes you get the answer you dont want when you ask too many questions.

  153. I see i missed a couple Talk To Me sessions, it seems like jd posts new shit after i get tired of checking everyday!

  154. WELL I THINK US AS MEN N OUR MIND WANNA BE THE ONLY 1 WHO HAS HAD THE PUSSY AN WANNA B THE ONLY 1 WHO GETTIN IT. I GOT THIS NEW LOGIC ” THE DICK TO PUSSY RATIO” AND THIS IS HOW IT GOES…..LETS SAY A 18 YR OLD CANT HAVE 10 DICKS UNDER HER BELT WHERE AS A 25 YR OLD WOMEN CAN GET BY WITH IT…. SO IF MY GURL WHO IS 23 GOT 10 DICKS UNDER HER BELT THE BITCH WAS DOIN TO MUCH FUCKIN!!! 18 TO 21 LIGHTWEIGHTS 22 TO 25 MIDDLEWEIGHTS AN 25 TO 30 HEAVYWEIGHTS AND ANYTHING AFTA THAT U CONSIDERED A SEASON VET SO WAT IM SAYIN IS U CANT BE 20 AND DONE ALREADY YA RUMBLES N THE JUNGLES

  155. I think men are naturally territorial and SOME men want to believe that they are the first and only….it sounds crazy but it’s true….men can’t handle the truth…I think the thought of another man banging a man’s woman kills his desire for that woman…..woman are usually more forgiving….ON THE OTHER HAND some (not many) men get off knowing other men want or have been with their their woman but I guess that’s another show for another time!

    JD I love what your doing this is great and especially coming from a man’s perspective…keep doing what you do!!!

    ~Lifer4Life

  156. cuz jd guys like there women like there cars, little to no miles!!!

  157. A pimp is a pimp and a whore is a whore. If, as a dude, I’m getting on 5 or 6 different chicks and they taking me for my paper and getting over on me, then I’m a dumb whore. It’s also true if a chick messing with 5 or 6 different dudes, and she not giving them jack but got their pockets empty and staying in $500 heels and furs, then she PIMP’N them whores. Like they stay, it ain’t trick’n if you got it, in this case that “it” is them playa azz skillz, that got you pimp’n.

  158. For one most men think women are lyin about their number of partners if number is to low anyway. I dont understand why a man would want a woman who doesnt know wat shes doing. Im not sayin experience means that a woman has been with alot of men, but if she aint fucked no one she aint gonna know wat to do wit ur pipe. its all depending on wat the man considers alot of sexual partners.

    Now men, i give them a chance to have higher numbers because alot of the guys i know lost they virginity at a young age, but as a female i dont want a dude that has fucked a gang of women thas nasty and it leaves nothing for me to feel special about. I dont want no dick everyone has had and can tell u wat to do to get him to cum. thas not attractive. some niggas brag on havin numbers higher then the 50’s to me if yo ass aint 35 or older that is just not acceptable that u are stickin ur dick in pussy like that.

  159. Alright,quick chime in. Simply put, women get to CHOOSE who they let in. A man can pursue all day but if a woman wants to not give him none, he’s assed out. So with that said, a woman who opens her legs to every swinging dick is less desirable because there is no challenge. That thrill of the chase just doesn’t seem that thrilling anymore.

  160. I know I’m not a guy but I gotta answer this cause I think I know.
    Guys don’t want a good girl regardless of what they know or heard they don’t want you to confirm that. They only want to think that they are the only one thats been there.

  161. Hahah Awesome! this really is some good stuff. If only I had thought of it 1st

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