TALK TO ME!!!!!

WHATS UP LIFERS FIRST LET ME SAY YES I DO READ ALL THE COMMENTS YALL POST.  FUNNY SHIT BUT ANYWAY IN READING THE COMMENTS I SAW ALOTTA YALL TALK ABOUT BAD BOYS KNOCKING THAT BACK OUT. SO THAT BROUGHT ME TO THIS. DOES GOOD DICK AS THE LADIES CALL IT MAKE GIRLS STICK AROUND LONGER THAN NORMAL? I ALWAYS WONDERED WHY GIRLS THAT ARE IN  ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS GO BACK TO THE SAME PERSO., I’VE ALSO HEARD GIRLS TALK SHIT ABOUT A GUY BUT STILL BE SNEAKING TO SEE HIM. SO TELL ME, DOES GOOD DICK PLAY A ROLL IN A GIRLS DECISIONS?

TALK TO ME!!!

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  1. just asking how do you get signed with so so def ???

  2. Good Dick can be mindblowin and make a girl not think straight. It is all part of the package and a girl has to consider what she loses when she walks away from the man and his talents. We don’t need that man’s dick to be satisfied, but damn does it sure feel hella fine! SHIT!

  3. I have many friends who stick around just b/c of the sex. I don’t! If he doesn’t treat me as I deserve then he’s out the door. But I don’t lay down w/ the guy until I feel out his character enough to want to keep him around.

  4. I’m back on this shit. I’m first this time.
    I think some women equal good fucking love. They feel a man loves them because he breaking her back out. Bullshit! I done broke many backs out and I didn’t love half them females. Also some feelings catch feeling because the sex is good. The same way it may be hard to find a good hearted person, I guess it’s hard for them to find some good loving.
    Where Kandi and Anita at?!?!

  5. Not a grown woman or rather NOT this grown woman aint no dick that good! I will not be mis treated or disrecpected in any way shape form or fashion. Both my male and female friends tell me I am hard on men but I just dont have time for games and BS.

    Some women are weak for money, sex, good looks etc so it all depends on what moves the woman so to speak.

  6. I thought I was the first. FUCK!! haha.

  7. Ofcourse good dick plays a role…eventually it wears out like anything else but you enjoy the ride while it last…right!!…when u mature and come out of that stage then more important things take the leading role…but its nothing wrong with good dick!!

  8. Good dick will blow your mind and have you doing all kinds of shit you swear you wouldn’t do. Most women are already vulnerable when it comes to men, so throw in good dick along with that=A VERY WEAK WOMAN.

  9. So that’s why I can’t get rid of all these chicks…

  10. Most Definitely “Good Dick” Plays a huge roll in an relationship. If he fuck up but he putting it down in the bed, I be like “Oh i’ll give him another chance” and Vise Versa, Like Ashanti Said she know her man gone be back cause she got that “Goos Good”

  11. Why not go back to wat ur familiar with than tryna find something new that u arent sure about?

  12. with me its like GOOD DICK ain’t gonna make me stay BUT I’m not gonna say that I won’t call ya a time or two and let him blow my back out

  13. I think it does… I don’t think that if itt comes down to a left hook and dick and a good dude and okay dick work women taken that black eye on pupose but do think dat dick wil cause u to make some exception or two lol

  14. Yes! Good Dick does bring a woman back to that particular man! I mean, he can have no money, dingy as hell, don’t have a job, but if he know how to work it in bed, it kind of take care of some of the slack that his has. But at the same time, good dick only goes so far. I mean, ole dude will never be that woman’s main. Just someone on the side, just like dudes to females.

  15. hell yea if you weakminded that is…..

  16. I don’t see myself callin back either…..especially if he disrespects me & not truly remorseful. Please…..on to the next

  17. With me some good peen will make me want to keep going back. Even if the dude ain’t shit. We can go for months without talking or seeing each other. But when he is in town I am ready for it. Shit I sometimes dream about it. I wish I could put it in a box so that I could have it every night.

  18. Sex is important to a relationship, but feelings are a key factor. I mean if dude got that good dick n nothin else some girls with emotional problems will stay but if he an’t got somethin goin for him most won’t. It’s like somebody else said b4 me people will equate sex with love n if he wanna fuck n he put serious effort into it it must be love…
    I don’t know really what makes females stay, but it ain’t just them cuz my friend stabbed a dude and put him in the hospital and he stayed w her for 2 yrs after that shit.

  19. HELL YEAH IT DOES, SOME FEMALES EVEN TAKE BLACK EYES AND BUSTED LIPS FOR IT… ITS NOT ALWAYS THEY BE SCARED TO LEAVE IT BE BECAUSE HE DICKED HER DOWN GOOD AFTER HE BUSTED THAT LIP……ALOT OF WOMEN ARE GUILTY OF IT BUT WONT ADMIT IT CAUSE THEY KNOW THEY’LL LOOK STUPID AFTERWARDS

  20. I can’t lie. LOL I gotta have a good dick to compliment my relationships. Very important to me. Call me shallow but I gotta have a good dick. I’m at that age where I 100% know where I’ll make my compromises and a bad dick isn’t one and my teaching days ended at 26. Cum strong or don’t cum at all… I can’t have you looking like my thumb when your hard…HELL TO DA NAW!!!

  21. Good dick can and will make you lose your mind! It will have you speaking in tongues, BUT it doesn’t make a woman stay with a loser! I can only speak for myself, when I say this. If he doesn’t meet my standards, in the beginning, he doesn’t get the privilege of blowing my back out!

  22. Most definately…. Good dick is hard to come by, when we find it we dont want to share it. Thats why some of us women are willing to go through hell n high water for it. I’ve seen my friends go through plenty of outrageous situations that involved good dick.

  23. When a woman finds a good thing..pun intended 🙂 she will tolerate some of the bull crap that he dishes out but that doesn’t mean she’s not doing her lil thing on the side as well. Alot of things play a part in why women stay with men..kids, financial stability, etc. It depends on the woman and what she’s willing to deal with, but EVERYONE has their breaking point.

  24. JD, honey I have never had a guy hit me. Ever!!! They can be mean, but I have never been hit. I am 37. My guy would eff the shiet out of me, but that is about it. He would punish it properly. Kill it. It would fix me. Make me scared to piss his ass off, but he never beat me. To try to answer ur question, it’s hard to leave a cheatin’ low down brotha that’s layin it down proper like……….I’m just sayin’, but I did it and he is beggin till this day. He has been on classmates-closed the account. He has been on facebook, blocked his ass. He sends messages by mutual friends, so what. He is done. Biscuits are baked in his shoes dammit. The motha effa is done.

  25. S-E-X is a powerful thing and it definitely plays a role in the decision making process (whether to break up or stay together). It does make women stick around longer, even if the relationship is falling to pieces and the couple are growing apart emotionally. I believe that some people do rely on sex to keep a relationship from ending but it only does more hurt and damage to both individuals. Having sex with the same person for a period of time creates physical and emotional ties with that person so it’s hard for our brains to just cut those ties loose all at once. I could go on about the physiological aspect of it but that’s another post. Hope this answers your question 🙂

  26. I think good sex requires two people to be on the same page, emotionally and physically. Meaning if there are problems in the relationship, good sex isn’t possible.

  27. I would say “good dick” puts things in a different perspective. Yes, you might be pissed off at the dude but you aren’t willing to give up the sex and allow him another chance as was stated above, but once you get older and you realize it’s not always about the sex (although it is an incentive) but there is much more to a relationship so “good dick” or not I’m not willing to give up being happy just to supposedly get my back blown out.

  28. Hello yeah some hoes will lose they mind over some good dick! And if the man has a good mouth piece with that good D hes a deadly combination! I know females that bend over backs for a man just because hes got that good D!

  29. Yes! Good dick will make us stick around longer. And just because a female talks shit on a guy doesn’t mean she won’t still let him hit it. As for abusive relationships , that is all mental. You don’t even want to sleep next to someone that you’re scared of or mad at.

  30. YOO-Anita. LMMAO!!!

  31. IF UR AN EMOTIONAL FEMALE THEN YEA U WOULD ALWAYS GO BACK TO FUCKED UP RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE OF THE DICK. SOME GIRLS DONT THINK A GUY LOVES HER UNLESS HE HITS HER OR DOES SOMETHING CRAZY TO HER OR OVER HER. THATS JUST SELF ESTEEM ISSUES. I CAN HAVE EMOTIONLESS SEX WITH MEN SO IF I HAVE SEX WITH A GUY AND THE SEX IS BOMB I WILL GO BACK I WILL STICK AROUND LONGER THAN NORMAL. SO YES IF U HAVE GOOD DICK A CHICK WILL STICK AROUND LONGER. SHIT THINKIN ABOUT IT I WANNA GO GET SOME GOOD SHIT RIGHT NOW….;)

  32. I think it’s a comfort level. I think most women go back to their ex/fuck buddy or whatever you want to call it for that good fuck because that’s what phsyically the man or woman wants at that time but emotionally women I think deep down mistake lust for love and through their (fake) relationship feel used in being a down ass chick so the sex is a validation to that chemistry…So jd if you read all the comments hint hint please tell usher I would like to go on a date with him. what do I have to do … Thank you !!!!

  33. JD that is just how it is just like us women have power men do to and It blows our mind but I never understand people like that they just seem so dumb and stupid to me I’m not about to let any man put their hands on me or else we going to play grit ball and then I’m going to cut your ass up Lol but I have a friend that was in a relationship 10+ years and would talk some mess about him and then go back and have sex with him and act so in love and I thought she was the dumbest bitch in the world for a minute until she left his dirty ass but aint no Dick good enough for me to stick around and let him hit me or talk shit about him.

  34. @Olu LMFAO Dude I can’t lie. I looked at that shit like :O WTF IS THAT?!!! His chest was above my fuck’n forehead!!! smh All I could do was just lay there…LMFAO Never ever thought I’d see someone that small. And to, think I was afraid of white guys being short…not anymore!!! CDFU Dayum I’m glad the lights were off…smh I’d call him out but he lives in the atl and could be a lifer…shhhhhhh

  35. I’ve called my ex after some months and years just to get that good good!

  36. It definetely factors in, but if the only good thing I can think about when it comes to a guy is the dick then that’s not enough. I’m not gonna lie, it’s made me dip back when I know I shouldn’t have but ultimately I couldn’t overlook his flaws & stay with him.
    I have NEVER been in an abusive relationship in my life, I’m not the 1 for that………dare a nigga to act up & trust & believe there won’t be anything to sew back on (a la Bobbitt). I know that makes me sound a lil cookoo but oh well, there’s a line that needs not be crossed and anything involving putting your hands on me in a threatening manner is that line. I think that in those cases staying has more to do with self esteem or other mental issues and actually nothing to do with good sex at all.

    You didn’t know????????We talk shit about guys all the time, that doesn’t mean that we’re gonna let our shit dry up trying to find some1 new. We will keep u guys on tap until something better comes along and then it’s seeyabye!!!!!!!!! Kinda the same way that dudes do.

  37. Bitches stay dickmitized. Good dick have a bitch doing stupid shit. I know a broad that stayed with a dude after he got her sister pregnant. Now she screamed and hollered talked bad about her sister, busted windows & all that shit. But the next time I see her, she walking down the street with him like they the happiest couple in the world.
    But everybody on the block know he still fuckin’ her sister. And she know too. But she still with him & her sister ain’t no better.
    It gotta be the dick because love don’t make you do stupid shit. Or at least it shouldn’t.

  38. Good D gets old..nucca wat else can u do..lol=-)~ STIMULATE my MIND & my BODY WILL FOLLOW (ALWAYz)!!!!!

    JD~ if u read each and every comment…WAT HAPPEN 2 MY BDAY GIFTs….(NOT 1 DUFFEL BAG..WATS GOING ON O BOYz)

  39. Damn the dick, good money keep you staying!!!!!!! ya know “throw it in the bag”, “you can have it all”, “you can have whatever you like”,,,,that type shit,,,,

  40. I just realized I didn’t address the abuse part of the question. Both my Mom and Aunt were physically abused. Compared to my Mom my Aunt was lucky, she was only hit once. But my mom was beaten up repeatedly and I have no clue why she would stay with that asshole with 3 babies hearing that shit. There’s more, but I’m getting pissed thinking about. If the very first time a motherfucker raises his hand to me, I’m out the fucking door right there and then…unless its my house then that bitch is out!!!

  41. I’m Gonna b honest and say YEAH if the dick is good it can have ur mind messed up. We as women r more emotional too .As far as staying around when we aren’t being treated right,women will stick it out longer than a man but when we get fed up and we are done we are done! But yeah good dick along with u thinking ur in love can have a woman stick it out longer than she should

  42. some women equate good sex with good lovin’ even though he tagging that head sometimes. Or he doesn’t work any damn where but he still get to lay in the house because he know how to break a sister back loose. that’s a double hell to the nawl!!!!!!!!!!!!! no man, fine or fuggly-looking, with good dick is worth the trouble if he ain’t contributing to my well-being.

  43. lol, we women are off the chain!!! Don’t get us started on some damn dick JD, lmao. I love some good “Vitamin D” left a few when it wasn’t good or to my liking (and would let him know it). However if its not working and emotionally I’m not feeling it then “to the left to the left”. It has to be a combo. Granted if he isn’t where he should be emotionally, then later far later I may pimp the D and get what i want. Then leave him alone, he will be in and stay in hoe status if emotionally we don’t match. Otherwise GOOD “Vitamin D” is good for the body, soul and mind!!!! ummmm got me wanting to make a call…lol

  44. Man…chix go bonkerz ova good dick…I like 2 talk 2 women and get their view point on diff shit and apparently niggaz ain’t puttin it down like we think….so tht “good dick” is hard 2 come by anyway….and when they get it they def dnt wanna let it go…I’ve seen chix come bak afta years 4 the “good dick”…I kno personally a chic tht got cussed 2 shit and came bak 4 the dick….

    Now I have a diff opinion on y they stay thru abuse…I think women r 2 afraid tht they will find similar situations…so they feel like they rather stay wit this fukd up dude who they have history wit, rather than tryin new guys and them subsequently being fukd up 2. Its a bad way 2 think but it happens….and even worse sum of the younga chix I talk 2 give me this bullshit line “u gotta go thru sumthin wit a nigga 22 make it real”…r u serious!!

  45. The term bad boy doesnt neccessarily mean thug or womanizer. It can also be used to characterize a man who is all of that. Which is a accolade like saying shes a bad chick. As far as the question at hand im pretty sure it plays a factor in a womans to stay. Personally that would not be enough to make me stay.

  46. HELL YEA…lol

  47. Dick can be good, hell is can be amazing, but no man gonna treat me like shit and i come back jsut to get another taste or to poke me some more. A woman’s gotta bitch slap herself and walk away. There are many other good dicks out there!

  48. Yes, you will stay you will deal with lies and cheating and other jive that in your heart of hearts you wouldn’t take from a man that wasn’t putting it down. In my recent days I have started giving up faster on good meat bad man. Because it becames lackluster and for a lack of a better phase he stops touching my soul. Thus leaving me with nothing ,but a sexual relationship that I probably could get from someone else with less problems…

  49. Funny you ask that question….I have heard my girls say his D is good, I am not leaving him. Blah Blah Blah. I have never met a man who had me sprung off the D. I am far from perfect and I think I have had some pretty good pieces in my day but for me to stay cause the D is good and he’s not treating me right. Fuck that. Now I have stayed in some situations cause the ends was right. By no means am I saying one is right and the other is wrong, I have never just never been wrapped up in the D.

  50. sometimes good dick can make a girl stay wit a man…but in an abusive relationship it’s not just good dick it’s a mind game that a man plays with the woman making her feel as though she has no one else cause usualy the man isolates her from her friends and family til she feels like she’s alone and only has him..but thats no excuse for staying in that relationship..i have never been in an abusive relationship but i have had friends and family members in those types of relationships..so yeah maybe good dick is some of the reason for staying but alot of it is mind control!

  51. @alexis Yeah gurl those mind games can kill a persons mind, body, and soul…

  52. I’m going to keep it 100 No GOOD DICK doesn’t do nothing for me you know why because Sex is not Love. My man has to give me Spiritual connection and and stimulate my mind mentally Sex comes last for me. I’m Virgin so I don’t nothing about Good Dick lol.

  53. spelling error my bad.
    @MONIE I AGREE WHATS YOUR SIGN GIRL.

  54. Ofcourse a virgin wouldnt kno what “good dick” does @ Tellingthetruth101….but in reading all these post i can c tht “good dick” isnt enuff 2 make women stay in a relationship; howeva, if its sum side dick or jus a good fuk yall sprung on it…i can say i have neva had ne pussy so good tht it had me goin nuts…but i could b missing out

  55. Good dick will make an otherwise sane woman lose all common sense. I would never stay in an abusive situation. But, good dick has made me stay in a realtionship that wasn’t going anywhere or with someone I knew wasn’t good for me. But, he just made me feel so good. Lol. Sad but true.

  56. @biggl48 interesting point there….. men don’t have “good pussy” to go nuts over? really? Men is that true???????

  57. we are going in on the topic 2nite…people bringin the dirty

  58. Bad dick can’t call the house past 11:00 p.m.!

  59. Hell yea why else would we go back to the same ol shit as much as we hate to admit it the dick is what makes us stay if the dick is good you got a girl for life or a good fuck however I will say there is no dick in the world that wll make me stay in an abusive relationship and eventually the bullshit gets old and we let it go some sooner than ever BIEM!!

  60. Good Dick does play a role in some women’s discussion to stay with a man. As someone stated most women equate sex with love. I have a bestie (best friend) who is dating/engaged to this nicca. He lives with her he has no job lays around the house and smokes weed all day,and get this, this fool (the bestie)
    pays his child support payments *side eye* right. I ask her all the time, why are you with this no good ass nicca. Her answer ” The Dick Is Good” Shitttt Fuck that. In the words of Sommore(the comedian) “Soon as a nicca fuck you real good you give him the keys to alllll yo shittt”..lol. She says don’t get dicknotized, that when the dick to good and you don’t see the reality of some shit..lol…………. I said all that just to say this…there is nothing wrong with having a dude that’s giving you that good good, that mind blowin, back snappin good dick. What about Good conversation and all the other Good stuff that goes into a Good relationship. Hell make that nicca the bootie call, the jumpoff, the sidenicca, boyfriend# 2 and go find something better, because YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!! just my 2 cents

  61. @MainChick <—but most of yall women neva wanna admit tht yall have fuk buddies or tht ya play niggaz 4 certain aspects…to muh knowledge thts what makes yall call us "no good ass niggaz"..hmmmm..

  62. good dick is hard to find lol

  63. HELL YEAH, DICK PLAYS AN ESSENTIAL ROLE. WHY U THINK JANET’S BEEN STUCK WIT YO ASS FOR SO LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!! HAHAHA LMOA THEN ROTF. BUT YEAH JUST LIKE JEANETTE SAY GOOD DICK IS HARD TO FIND. HELL IF YOU REALLY WANT TO SEE IF ITS TRUE ASK JANET AND IF SHE TRYS TO CHANGE THE SUBJECT SHE LYING THATS HOW YOU KNOW. WELL , IDK IF JANET EVER TOLD YOU GOT DICK, MAYBE. IDK

  64. @biggl48

    lol… you are right most women wont admit that we have fuck buddies (why u ask) because than we are looked upon as being whores, sluts or worst by you no good ass niggaz…lol…lol..lol. Psss how u become so knowledgeable in no good niggaz…..hmmmm ( r u somebodies jumpoff lol)

  65. Mr Ltlline…Let me explain something to you … A woman should have respect for herself to listen to her husband/brother/father-strong male figure and it doesn’t have much to do w/the “D” word…as it does with a woman being respectable and making something of herself and her “man”!!! Okay…so most women who claim to be “miss independant, lack proper respect for men , and do not realize that a sexual life should be completly private and can be amongst many men, depending on many things…anyhow…i have a ? for you…”DOES GOOD …YOU KNOW THE “P” WORD,,, KEEP YOU GOING BACK OR IS IT SOMETHIN….ELSE AND THERE YOU HAVE IT YOUR ANSWER!! LTL-LINE… YOU ARE AWESOME! –Always Rhapsody… to the ladies, respect yourself, don’t let that stray from respecting men…we are made from them after all!!! A good woman is usally resources from an incredible man!

  66. Hello JD,

    I have to say it does in some cases but what I have noticed with me is when I feel I am done the sex that I thought was so good is not so good anymore.

    Thank you for asking

    Patrice

  67. LOL @biggl48 I’ve had fuck buddies but only when I’m not in a relationship. Gotta stay “in shape”. LOL

  68. Yoo-Anita. Ma, I’m lost on where you went with that. I just got back to it.

  69. @ MainChick<—well id b lyin if i told u i was perfect…i was the "bad boy" in highschool and college…i did my fair share of dirt…im grown now…but i still have friends…but like kat Williams said "u keep attracting aint shit niggaz…u must got aint shit pussy" lol!!

  70. @Olu biggl48 said that most females are afraid to admit to having fuck buddies or play guys for certain shit and then turn around and call’m no good nigs LOL So I just admitting to having buddies but only inbetween relationships so I can stay “in shape”. LOL

  71. HELL YEAH GIRLS STICK AROUND 4 SOME GOOD DICK….AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT… ..and this may sound so ignorant but…GOOD DICK CAN ALSO BE A TYPE OF HEALING..LOL AND ITS LIKE WEN YOUR WITH SOME1 AND THEY MAKE YOUR FEEL GOOD lol YOU KIND OF 4GET ALL THE NEGATIVE SHIT THATS GOIN ON lol… so i think that some dick can be a reason why girls choose to stick around !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  72. I agree with MainChick. Some women lose their minds for good dick and it’s a sad sight to see. They will throw damn near everything over board for it. Friends, family even their children. I can’t stand dingbats like that.

    I couldn’t do it, if a guy has a whole lot of drama and only good dick to offer he can keep it moving. It’s hard to sleep with someone I can’t stand. Eventually you don’t even get turned on anymore no matter how good it is. At least that’s how it is for me but I hold grudges and I never forget.

  73. YOO-Anita. LMAO! You are a trip. At least you are honest about it. Guys are the same way. Like pussy is pussy, but a girl who can have good sex is something else. I don’t believe in good pussy, I believe in good sex!

  74. dont be jealous, you know every one “want ride”

  75. YOO-Anita. I was talking about what you said about the white guy.

  76. Coming from a guys perspective i say yes..There has been a lot of times in my younger days where i use to do the most dumbest shit , like sleep with the girls cousin or sleep with a friend of hers..And i always use to just fuck my way back in , cause the girls i have done this to had a very nice bag ( a lot of money ). And i use to get what i want, when i want..BUT YEAH IT DOES (in some cases, not all )
    Perfect example – the two movies BABY BOY and BELLY.. IN BABY BOY he fucked the shit out of her and made her clean up the crib and make Tacos when he is the one that fucked up…LOL !! And in BELLY all i have to say is ” Keish,Keish listening I DON’T KNOW NO FUCKING KIEANNA”… LOL !!
    But like i said IT ONLY WORKS IN SOME CASES.. But u cant wear it out.. And what i mean bye that keep fucking up and expect it to work all the time.At times u just have to stop the bullshit and just be real..CHI-TOWN IN THE BUILDING..PEACE !!

  77. @ AnitaLTL<—AKA "baby batter" i kno u would tell the truth…

  78. LMFAO @Olu dude was black…LMFAO He cooled my nerves about white guys being short. Haven’t hit whitey though…prolly won’t. shhhhh

  79. @biggl48 Hell yeah!!! I ain’t skurred!!! This thread reminds me of this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IX380vS_Mzs LMFAO Looove this song!!!

  80. Damn this question seem like its personally for me. Ive been with my girl 6 years on n off. She started beating on me n I’ve learned to fight back but i shouldnt even have to go thru all of that in the 1st place. But Yea the sex is good n I love her thats y i dont want to leave her. On top of thats it hard when u have her in ur ear telling u u cant leave. But yea she makes sure she sexes me good so i dont wanna get it from another bitch. N yup the move Baby Boy says it all.

    But ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS is not whats up. I lost 2 very close friends of mine 3 days apart n they didnt even know each other but they got killed for the same reason. Kee-ah-sha was beat to death than shot twice in the head on top of that he tried to kill her 2 times be4 this all bacause he didnt want any1 else to have her. She was only 21. Fabia was 24 and her ex boyfriend killed her in front of a club all because he thought she was givving his puusy up than he shot his self.

  81. @biggl48

    We don’t like to admit to having fuck buddies and using niggas in part because of what Mainchick said.
    The other part is, u guys like to run around thinking your slick and pulling the wool over our eyes but 2 can play that game. We’re slicker about it like Tyler Perry said in “Goes To Jail”…………..ya’ll like to sit there and think that just cuz ya give good dick and damn near suck us dry that we won’t creep if you do/ if you just don’t act right and that’s simply not the case.

  82. YOO-Anita. I got it now. I had to re-read it. You are wild. So after that night you never talked to him? Did you tell him?

  83. YOO-Anita. What’s your facebook page?

  84. @Bootyinyoface<– but women neva call women aint shit…yall always have excuses on y yall did it…and yall only try b like niggaz..CRAP!!! If yall wit the perfect dude…good job nice guy but bad dick…yall kno yall wanna call lil leroy frm rnd the way who pipe u up real nice

  85. @biggl48

    Damn right there’s always an excuse LOL & sometimes it’s just cuz I felt like it.
    Bad dick guy wouldn’t be my damn boyfriend anyway. We touched on this a couple of “Talk To Me”‘s ago. Call it shallow or whatever u like but there is no room for bad or short dick at all, u gotta be workin with somethin in that department otherwise u are just my friend……u could be my perfect FRIEND and lil leroy wit the good pipe can be my man.

  86. Oh, & don’t get it twisted us women have names for other women, ain’t shit isn’t 1 of them but those names are normally reserved for those that do nothing but try to snatch up “taken” men.

  87. this is off topic, but here goes: i’ve been looking for this re-mix to JE’s “I Gotta Be”….it has a girl rapping on it and it has a tight percussion track. I can’t find it anywhere. Do you have any idea on where I can find it? and no, I wouldn’t object if you personally hooked me up 🙂

  88. if someone knows they can bring you back into the fold by just laying it down every few days (or hours) then that person can damn near get away with anything and keep playing you like a flute because they already know how to get you to stay with them or how to shut you up if they are tired of hearing your mouth.

    a person who doesn’t do shyt, don’t have shyt and ain’t about shyt but knows their head/tongue/pipe/anal game is on point can always find a place to live and a hot meal (usually with the same person they playing like a flute) because they know how to manipulate the other person into giving them what they want. and since just about every person they’ve piped/tongued/heady moe’d down has confirmed it by telling them how great the sex is, they already know that they are on to something pretty marketable.

    but if you’re blessed to be in a healthy relationship with someone who just happens to make you “carve karma sutra diagrams with the head board” then rock out til it falls out.

    @chunkie
    that was brave of you to state your situation but also important for people to know that it happens on both sides of the coin. some people have no idea that females/males beat on their partners and emotional/verbal abuse is just as painful and crippling. and the “baby boy” sex after wards is a reality for lots of people but only you can determine what you will allow yourself to handle. but i’m sure you already understand that cuz you have the examples.

    @ not a robot!
    “bad dick can’t call the house past 11:00pm!”
    that is the funniest shyt i’ve heard in a long ass time.

  89. @Bootyinyoface<—well yall call us "aint shit" so i call yall "aint shit"lmao!!!…and even if lil leroy aint got shit goin 4 him..ud b wit him ova the otha dude 4 a good fuk…

  90. @biggl48
    LMAO!!!
    If lil leroy ain’t got shit goin for him but the good dick then he wouldn’t be my damn boyfriend either but I’d still fuck him. I’ve been the sugar mama before and that shit is whack.
    Not every man with a good dick is good boyfriend material but you have to have the good dick to at least be considered…..just the way it is, some things can’t be overlooked.

  91. bff

  92. @Bootyinyoface<— i ca dig tht…i dnt think ne grown woman would stick arnd 4 the "good dick"…but it sures gets clothes, bills paid, and meals cooked lol!! i must admit!!

  93. The sad thing is a lot of “Triflin” men use that “Good Dick” as a way to manipulate low self esteem women into doin shit like paying their rent for them and buyin them new cars and givin dudes money on their paydays…I grew up witnessing this a lot even in my own family and some dudes will Dick you into Bankruptcy if you’re not carefull. Sometimes only Jesus can get you out of that situation if good sense wont.

  94. In the beginning, it’s enough to make me wanna stay around but not enough to keep me around. I wasn’t taught, so I always thought sex solidified the relationship. I had life fucked up. When I got “good dick” I thought he was the one for me. However, what helped me get my head right was, just as well as he has “good dick” I have “good pussy”. That understanding aids me in choosing the proper “JOY STICK”, one also equipped with controls to stimulate my intellect and my intangible nectar.

    Hopefully, a woman can learn from a “bad boy” experience and move on. Many of these type of men have some discipline and search deeply for trust whether it appears that way or not. I don’t necessarily sense a “bad boy” when I meet someone I’ve always dated men at least 7 to 10 years my senior so I didn’t think he was a boy at all but as it turns out…however, I always had strength enough to gather my spoils and move to higher ground.

    Regardless of the content you have great topics. Helps me identify things and continue to define my character. Peace!!!

  95. Good dick plays a big part but to an extent. I had this cuddy buddy right with some bomb ass d!@k I told myself I wasn’t gonna get serious but the more we had sex the more I began to feel this guy I didn’t want to get serious cuz he was a player but I ended up falln hard. We over now but if he would of been bad in bed he would of been a one night stand lol so my point it…. Sex is what can keep a girl hangn around…. If the relationship would of been abusive I wouldn’t of stuck around fuck that ain’t no man puttn his hands on me without it bein foreplay…. Peace out!!!!

  96. I know as a man I been on both sides of the coin. I done hooked a chick in and I been hooked (bad!!!) It happens but I’m only gonna deal with so much bullshit especially if the only good thing is the pussy. Females, and males to a lesser extent, be putting the blinders on cause of some sex. They be looking past shit that was obvious from the moment you met that person. I’m sorry, but ain’t too many straight surprises in any relationship. Females trip me out too with that going behind the back shit because if a man did it to y’all you’d be salty. but when y’all do it, it’s cool. You would think more “grown ass women” would state what they want and make it clear. but y’all know how y’all chicks love games and drama…

  97. GOOD D*CK IS A HELL OF DRUG!! POW!

    IF YOU OVER 30 AND YOU PAYING “GOOD D*CK” BILLS, FEEDING HIM, CLOTHING HIM, ETC…WATCH BABY BOY AND SEEK COUNSELING!! ALL YOU NEED FOR “GOOD D*CK” IS “GOOD P*SSY”…NOT YOUR PAYCHECK…HOLLA!

    WONDER HOW MANY ESSAYS WILL BE WROTE TODAY? LMAO

    OLU!! WHERE U AT?? LOL

  98. JD, not to get to serious,but someone staying in an abusive relationship is something all together different. I am certified in DV counseling. On to the question at hand. I have to be honest, in my experience good dick is no readily available, sorry fellas but I gotta keep it real! So it can be a factor, but I guarantee I’ve got a plan in motion to get rid of the rat bastard that is not treatin me right in other ways.

  99. sorry, not readily available

  100. @Olu click my name it’ll take you str8 to my fb page. And no the next day I was GOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE!!! LOL

  101. i think that may make a woman stay to a guy who dosn’t treat her right but not in an abusive relationship thats too far if there staying in an abusive realtionship because there’s good sex then there pathetic
    but when a woman’s older it’s more about someone whos treat’s them right and they would want to make a comitment too but they do probably stick around for good sex when there younger.
    but ladies if your gonna do it like that don’t let the guy know it! cos then he gets lazy

  102. Well I’ve been talking this this guy for two years know not looking to be in a relationship with he just provides me with good dick that keeps me running back for more.

  103. JD On the abusive relationship I agee with Sdedee its often more about the woman and her life experiences and issues that makes her stay not so much the sex ,very complicated.
    But for the average woman I think we stay mostly because we hope for comitment somewhere
    down the line.Frankly most of us lie about how good it is anyway to stroke that ego.
    Glad to know you read our comments

  104. get ur weight up in dat 2k9 xxKiLLeRmiKe my homie rashard79 spank dat ass aay okay

  105. It all depends on the person. Alot of girls stick around cause that nigga be bangin that head against the headboard, and have u fallin asleep. Thats good dick….You have to come with more than that just to keep me around. I done had some good dick, but i couldn’t and wouldn’t be seen in public with dude, but he puts it down. So he’s my go to guy at 12.1.2oclock in the morning but u gotta go when we done.

  106. Yes and no. Good pean won’t make me stay in an abusive relationship. Good dick will make you act irrationally.. Like if you find out he giving it to someone else.. Drive you crazy if you know another woman is getting the good good he gave you… It’ll make you put up with lies and things you don’t like… It’ll make you pick a fight just to get that GOOD make up sex..

  107. YOO-Anita. LMMFAO!! Damn you left son the next day? No call to say hey, how you doing or nothing? That’s a nigga move! LMAO! Well yeah, I did and nothing really happened.

    To the rest of the Lifers yo, “good dick” or “good pussy” will make you do a lot of stupid of shit. Like I had this shorty who would drive an hour everyday to come see me and I treated her like shit. Not physically but I shitted on her crazy. That’s because my sex game crazy. I was also young so… My point is no matter what anyone says, that goodness like I call it, will change your whole persona!!

    YOO-Aita. Holla at you boy. You too JD.

  108. of course good dick make majority of women stay around longer than we should. This i am gulity of and still goin through as im writing this, dick will make you do alot of stupid shit that you shouldnt be doin, see differents between us women and men, men can have sex with women and not have any attackments to them what so ever but women we totally fall in love wit that shit. Both good dick and pussy is an powerful drug that really needs to be obtain, cause it do be having alot of out here goin crazy and most ppl can get hurt from it literally (in a emotional state). my question for you ocean guys what advice could you give us women who fuck wit nigga wit that good good but is no good for us?! cause as for me i really be wanting to break away but its like the dick is right their in front of me why not take it lol….let me stop

  109. and the girl right above me SHERRI…thats 100% true, shit like that happends around here all the time….

  110. Good dick will make you put unnecessary shit in your name like houses, cars, boats, child support. ALL THAT SHIT. But like I said in the other one, when you get older you learn. I have a dude with good dick now on the bench and he gets called up periodically but he does NOT get permanent status until he gets his net worth up. Suze Orman taught me better than to fuck around with my future over some dick. LOL

  111. LMFAO @Kandi quoting Suze!!! 😀

  112. In relationships, sex is a vital component. However, in my opinion it is not a determining factor as to a woman’s decision of staying put in a relationship longer than usual. It could be she is sticking around hoping that the “good dick” relationship will appreciate in value to ” I love you…”.

    Women in abusive relationships go back to the same person because of self-esteem issues. Being abused whether physically or mentally can take an emotional toll on someone and thus lead to doubts in one’s self esteem.

  113. YOO-Anita YOO-Kandi. Finally!!!
    Where were you yesterday when we were going hard on folks?! Haha @Kandi’s comment.

  114. @olu whats yer twit name? mine is aneeneeLTL

  115. YOO-Anita. Olu1987 I need to set it up again. Check it out if it works.

  116. @Olu Not working…

  117. Dude im homeless…I haven’t been on here like I should I see I have been missing all the fun. Hopefully I will be back in my condo by the weekend or imma set up a Lifer donation drive so im not sleeping in my car. LMAO

  118. @kandi I got 5 on it!!! LOL

  119. I DON’T KNOW BECAUSE I NEVER HAD A GOOD DICK, I SEEN FAT BIG DICKS A LOT FROM GUYS THAT WANTED ME TO SUCK IT, BUT MANY TIMES I DISREGRAUD THEM FAT, LONG, BIG DICKS WHICH MOST NIGGA’S HAVE. ONE REASON WHY I DISREGARD THEM IS BECAUSE I THINK BEFORE I DO AND THAT’S WHAT GIRLS NEED TO DO WHICH THEY DON’T. I THINK BEFORE I DO BECAUSE I NOT ABOUT TO LOSE MY SOUL TO A GUY WHO I ONLY JUST MET OR KNOW FOR ONLY 3 DAYS. ONCE YOU LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY, THAT’S IT, YOU MIGHT BECOME ADDICTED LIKE ALL PEOPLE WHO HAVE SEX WHEN THEY FEELING HORNEY WHICH IS FUCKING BAD! I TELL THEM ALL THE TIME THAT I’M A VIRGIN, THEY GET SCARED BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT I MIGHT BE TIGHT UNDER THERE. THEY SCARED THAT THEY WOULD POP A CONDOM. LOL! SOME THOUGHT THAT I WAS USING BIRTH CONTROL AND THAT’S WHY THEY NOT PLANNING ON USING A CONDOM. THEY GET MAD WHEN I SAY I’M VIRGIN AT THE LAST MOMMENT, BUT WHEN YOU TRYING TO PLAY THE BAD GIRL, IT’S LIKE YOU DON’T THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES. THAT’S WHY MOST GIRLS GO THROUGH IT WHEN THEY WANT A BAD BOY. AS YOU GET OLDER AND YOU NOT THAT CONFUSE TEENAGER NOMORE, YOU WILL SEE IT AS A SCAREY SITUATION!!! YOU NEVER KNOW IF YOU MIGHT GET PREGNANT BECAUSE MOST GIRLS JUST DON’T THINK ABOUT IT, SOME GIRLS WANTS A BABY SO THEY ABUSE THEMSELVES TO HAVE IT SOONER OR LATER, AND THAT’S WHAT TEEN GIRLS GO THROUGH WHO WANTS A CHILD. NOW I DON’T CARE TO HAVE SEX, I DON’T HAVE TO PROVE TO PEOPLE THAT I’M EXPERIENCE, I DON’T HAVE TO PROVE TO A MAN THAT I CAN DO IT ALL IN THE BED ROOM. IT’S JUST STUPID! FUCK THAT! THERES NO NEED TO HAVE SEX, SEX IS ONLY FOR REPRODUCTION, NOT FOR PLEASURE. IT’S A SIN!!! IF YA DO IT FOR PLEASURE, THAN YA WON’T EVER HAVE THAT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE ONCE YA NOT FEELING IT NOMORE WITH THAT PERSON, YOU WOULD GO OUT THERE AND CHEAT. A LOT OF PEOPLE SAY THAT HAVING AN AFFAIR FEELS REALLY GOOD, YEAH I CAN SEE, BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU FALL FOR THE PERSON THAT YOU HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH, YOU GONNA HAVE TO BREAK YOUR MANS HEART EVENTUALLY.

  120. I think the reason why a lot of women that do stay with these “bad boys” is because they have no self esteem and possibly do not know of healthy relationships to look at as an example. This does not apply to all women though. I think some ppl like drama and they attract drama in their lives, if they have none in their life they would be lost. No dick in this world would keep me with a man that is not good for me. Life is too short to invest time in a bad relationship. You live and learn and make choices and if you want that for yourself, you only have to blame yourself for going back to a bad relationship.

  121. You have to think about this way when a man see a super fine woman they begin to think about all the things that they can do to and with her. Whan a woman finally gets a man that can bring it she is going to be slow to leave him. There are very few guys that can satisfy a women (i.e.) make her have a orgasm from penetration. So when you get one hot damn he can always get it be cause you already know you are going to be thoroughly satisfied and get a good nightt sleep.

  122. Nakita u b going wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy out there with the question lol!

  123. nah it aint bout the good dick! 9 times outta 10 a girl stays with a dude because she knows him!
    “better the idiot that you knnow” (even if treats u like crap) thers that fear of the unknown, not sure wat the next idiot gon be like, at least wit this one u kno exactly wat it is that he does wrong!

  124. WOULD YA LIKE TO HAVE HIV, GONARIA, AIDS, HERPPIES, AND ALL THAT OTHER DISEASES? CAUSE THAT’S WHAT’S GONNA HAPPEN IF YA KEEP IT UP.

  125. Hellllll yea, I was going out with this guy and I knew he had another girlfriend on the side, I even ran into her once. She tried jumpin in my face talkin about her man, her man, her man. Let’s just say I was being carried of by the police as she was picking her teeth up off the floor.

  126. Nakita I 100% Agree with you Boo! I’m glad you are learning at a young age, dont wait til ur all used up by dudes to learn the “Truth” Preach!!

  127. BULLSHIT!! well not for me neways..i mean like i said im onli 18 but reallie if a niqqa is treatin me wronq then he qotta qo..imma dime diva..u cnt n wont find another like me so if he wanna fuck up im not qonna stay around jus cuz he lay qood pipe cuz trust u may put it dwn..but there is alwayz..ALWAYZ another niqqa who puts it dwn waaaaay better than u eva did..

  128. JD and the Ocean / Lifers Family Hope all is Blessed what are you thoughts of Maia Campbell?????

  129. Well, since I now know that you read all the comments….. J/K!

    No need for a speech… YES! Sad but true!

  130. CAN’T NOBODY DO ME AS WELL AS I CAN DO MYSELF! SO IN ANSWERING YOUR QUESTION WILL GOOD DICK MAKE YOU STAY/ HELL TO THE NAWWW!

  131. NOTHING IS THAT GOOD..U SHOULD GET OUT! HE CAN BE REPLACED! I WOULD NEVER ALLOW ANY1 TO ABUSE ME, AND I KEEP GOING BACK!

  132. i have never had someone who made me want to be with them just because they had good stuff
    the good stuff is only good while it lasts
    usually they want to share it with everyone else
    that is not my m.o.
    it is mine and mine alone otherwise you have to go
    i am not trying to get an incurable disease or look stupid and needy
    i have more self-respect and self esteem than that
    there are more fish in the sea

  133. I may be one of a million when I say this but good dick aint always what its made out to be! A nigga who knows they have good dick act very different than they should in a relationship. They feel like they have some type of control or something. I tend to want a guy who is humble and caring but not soft as cookie. The sex game is just extra. If there is a problem in our bedroom then we can work it out. The sex is considered good to me when me and my man have a connection beyond just physical so it will take time to get to that but we will eventually if we get the connection down first. My best sexual experience was with my bestfriend of 3 years and not with the nigga who laid it down proper because of our relationship.

  134. The good dick make you do strange things but great dick make you do anything. Good dick make the world go around.

  135. what do you when a girl try’s to act hard in front of her friends when yall about to fight and you know she an’t hard how do you put the chick on the spot

  136. YO I GOT GOOD DICK AND IM NOT EVEN A MALE BUT I GOT 8INCHES AND PLENTY OF GIRTH ON MY STRAP AND ME AND MY GIRL BROKE UP 3MO AGO AND SHE STILL POP UP AT MY CRIB TALKIN BOUT CAN I JUST FUCK HER GOOD ONE MORE TIME SO IF U GOT THAT GOOD BECKY AND SOME GOOD DICK HELL YEA DAT MKE A DIFFERENCE

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