TALK TO ME!!!

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LIFERS THANK YOU FOR ALL MY BIRTHDAY WISHES, I GAVE MY BRAIN A LIL BREAK YESTERDAY BUT IM BACK!!!!!!!!! TODAYS QUESTION IS HOW MANY OF YALL HAVE DONE SOMETHING THAT YOU WISH YOU COULD TELL SOMEBODY BUT CANT TELL NOBODY BECAUSE IT WOULD RESULT IN ALL BAD SITUATIONS? IE (LOOSING FRIENDS, FUCK UP THE FAMILY ECT……). IF YOU HAVE A SITUATION LIKE THIS PLS LET ME HEAR IT.

TALK TO ME!!!

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  1. NAW I AINT GOT NUTHIN LIKE THAT! LMAO I HAVE THINGS THAT PEOPLE DONT KNO ABOUT CUZ THEY DONT ASK ME. IM THE GIRL WHO DOESNT VOLUNTEER INFORMATION BUT IF U ASK ME ILL TELL U THE TRUTH.

  2. I CAN DEFINITELY SAY THAT I HAVE ONE OF THOSE KINDS OF SITUATIONS…..TO VAGUELY PUT IT….LETS JUST SAY I WASNT A VIRGIN THE ENTIRE TIME I WAS W/ MY EX……SHADY RIGHT? LOL.

  3. alright Jerry=-)~ (where do u find these questions…lol)

  4. Hmmm Lets just say I knew the REAL difference between a boy and a man by 2nd grade from the “help” of a family member…

  5. I only have 1 and I will never let that shit out of the bag!!

  6. Im not sayin’ a damn thing!!!!.,LMFAO.,next subject.,.,LOL

  7. My family is expecting me to graduate in May next year from college. Truth is I dropped out my freshman year to date a NBA player and we broke up after a year. I never went back to school but I never told my family. I would have been the first to get a degree. I’m scared to tell anyone!

  8. mhm…. well it took me some time to get over it but the situation is LOOOONNNNNGGGG behind me! If i was to tell my parents that i was molested by 3 of my male cousins from the age of 5 til 11… Yep thats my story! So if my family was to find out yes it would totally FUCK UP the family!

  9. i’ve never done something that i think would ruin a friendship, but i’ve had something done to me i wasn’t rape but i fine being touch by a close a family is bad and i was put in a bad situation and i have to tell the fiance that her man is a pervert and love to girls when he know its wrong , his girl act like a dumb as said he was high or something like that’s a great excuse, he wasn’t high very sober and his two girls were around. right now i’m thinking about pressing charges cause he’s fucking liar and a cheater and i had with sorry i want him to know what it feels like to be violated. i’m only 20 he’s not cute he’s 37 the same age was my brother not saying i wouldn’t date older man. i don’t wanna be a home wrecker but he’s pushing me with his lies…..

  10. @the_truth….answered for me today…thanks baby! lol NEXT>>>>>>

  11. Well I dont have any of those cause I tell everything. There is one thing that i did and i told it but i dont think he believed me. I had sex with my (then) husband’s best friend. He was cheating so I thought why shouldnt I? He acts like he doesnt believe it but hey what can i do i told him. You would think he would believe it considering said friend represented me in my divorce and got me my alimony…HOLLAAAAAAAA. LOL

  12. @kandi LMFAO THAT’S HOW U DO IT GURL!!! CDFU

  13. i have alot of things i can’t tell anyone cause most likely they will get me in trouble but they are nothing major just like how i really feel about some of my family

  14. I couldn’t tell my parents that I was higher than a kite when we went to church last Sunday. I had spent the night at a friend’s house. Came home that morning high and a lil tipsy cuz I thought we weren’t going. I was hard to keep my composure but they didn’t find out.

  15. Okay so there’s a couple things….
    1)Did some things with a family member that deffinately was NOT okay between 7 and 10.
    2)Was molested by a really close family friend between 11 and 13.
    3)Have done WAAAY more with a best friends big brother than they would expect from quiet old me…

  16. My secret is my friend her boyfriend and i use to mess around with him before they started going out i will evr tell her that

  17. IMMA JUST SAY THIS, IF I TOLD, KILLED AND AND BROUGHT BACK TO LIFE AND KILLED AGAIN, PRETTY DEEP….LOL…IM TAKIN THAT BITCH TO THE GRAVE THOUGH

  18. Some things are better left unsaid.

  19. JD YOU GETTING DEEP NOW! WOW.

    I’VE DONE SOME THINGS I WASN’T PROUD OF BACK IN THE DAY BUT MY PAST IS JUST THAT –MY PAST.

    I BELIEVE I AM FORGIVEN FOR THOSE THINGS AS WELL.

    TODAY I FOCUS ON DOING ALL GOOD NO BAD.

  20. Got ’em @ keepin ’em. Had an opportunity to reveal, but saw no value in ruining someone else’s llfe.

  21. I’ve been in this situation but my thing is honesty first. I would rather situations go bad then to tell a lie, or cover up shit. I believe honest makes all situations right regardless of the outcome. I have a book I’m ready to release that is gonna make many ppl mad in my community and family, I’ve changed names but anyone that knows me will know those involved and because of the content I don’t know somebody might want to kill me, not speaking it but it’s possible, I’m just not scared, for legal reasons I’ve changed some of the names. I no longer have fear like that because truth and honesty will make all situations right, I just believe it. In everything I’ve learned to be true, in being true to me I can be true to you…and whomever. Now that’s PEACE!!!

  22. Because I have done a bunch of shit and leaders in my community look down on those like me my shit was in the media however, I dealt with many of them and their asses was involved in some half baked shit, a story I know first hand, I’ve addressed them personally because again I’m not scared, but I’m gonna put it in black and white where they can do nothing about it, through this I am talking about the lessons I learned. I find ppl untrusting when they can’t speak their mind no matter what it is. SO WHAT IS MORE IMPORTANT, THE RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE HERE, OR A RELATIONSHIP WITH A POWER THAT MOVES ME IN WAYS I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND? For an unwaivering relationship I’ll uncover a bunch of shit no matter who gets caught. Nothing can harm me in being truthful, just my beliefs.

  23. I hit my wife’s step cousin before we got married. I was with my wife (then girlfriend) at the time but I got at the cousin and played like I didn’t know they were halfway related. I then acted like I put two and to together after our first lil date when I knew she wa feeling me and wasn’t going to say no to keeping it going. She was my side piece for almost a year and we never got caught. Had to stop messing with her though because I didn’t want to lose my girl who I eventually married. If she ever knew my marriage would be over.

  24. I told my aunts friend I was bangging her son all over her house. I mean her bed, his bed, the closet, the restroom, the garage, the living room, the kitchen, etc. Yea I kno I was a hoe

  25. In the words of Brittany Murphy in the movie “Don’t Say a Word”…….I’LL NE-VER TELL-ELL!!!!!!! lol

  26. Wooooooow!!!!!! all I can say is yes there are plenty of things I have to say that would cause a major disturbance in the lives of others ( or myself) I have had to hold back on my personal blog quite a few times because I came too close to putting too much out there.

  27. You must of saw Oprah when she had Mackenzie Philip”s on and she was talking about having sex with her father…I haven’t done anything that would ruin my family or friendships, but I have done something that I’m not proud of. We won’t talk about that. Have a good one~

  28. JD Happy B-day!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Live it up, lyk alwayz haha

  29. My friends boyfriend had been hot on my trail for awhile..when we would all go out together he would give me this long stare when she wasnt looking..make passes and thennnnnnn this mofo called me up and asked me “When r we gonna hang out”?.. He made it very clear that he liked me and asked me if i was down..I cursed him out and told him if he ever approached me like that i would tell her…He never did it again after that.. I never told her tho because she is in love with his azz and i just feel like if i did she would believe him and not me..SO she will find out he isnt any good one day hopefully on her own.

  30. hahhahaaa.. well… umm…. my mom thought i was a virgin til i got married… well…. lets jus say…. in 8th grade i skipped school a couple of times.. ooops… its really nothing that bad.. but she is very christian like.. and she will probably kick my ass… but hey.. it happens to the best of us…

    🙂

  31. I’m not saying anything but it involves friends and I do not know what state of mind they would be in if I told them. I said something about it on twitter when I traveled to L.A but not going to say anything else

  32. JD. NO one is going to tell shit like that… Hell no JD. Most people will plead the 5th. Somethings you take to the grave.

  33. My mean, stuck up, ass boss got this fine Jamaican wife that he love to flaunt around work. Talkin bout they high school sweethearts and how he swept her off her feet and he’s her only lover. When he introduced me 2 here he even had the nerve to tell me “Don’t stare 2 hard” in front off her. Wish I could show everybody at work the pics I have of her chillin in my bed and let everybody know how I use to knock it down before I started workin there. Didn’t know she was married….Small World! lol

  34. IMMA KEEP IT REAL JD YOU WILL NOT GET THAT INFO OUT OF ME(PLEAD THA 5TH) AND IF IT’S SUCH A SECRET WHY ARE THESE PEOPLE QUICK TO SPILL IT TO YOU BUT CAN’T LET THA SHIT BE KNOWN IN THEIR PERSONAL LIFE(SMH) SOME PEOPLE ARE NOT BEING TRUTHFUL WITH THEIR STORIES HMM..

  35. @ Cece…..quick to spill it cuz 9 times out of 10 no one will figure out who you are on here unless you got a pic up or something to give you away…..duh!!

    I got a situation that wouldn’t ruin nothing with me personally other than the “friendship” relationship I have with my ex….the relationship between my and her sister on the other hand would be ruin most likely and no telling how their family would take it. Anyhow, a few months after my ex broke it off with me, her older sister showed interest in me. Being the young and cocky ass nigga i was, I started smashin that ass on the low on a consistant basis for some YEARS. All the while my ex and i still kept a somewhat close friendship with each other. The sister ended up poppin up preggo but she wasnt sure if it was mine or this other nigga she messed with. Eventually I started messin with my ex again….BUT i NEVER messed around with one while I was messing with the other, that would be trifiling….lol!

    I dont mess with either one now, but am still friends with both of them….the ex still doesnt know I messed with her sister…if she ever found out…who knows what would happen!!!

  36. The secret I kept had nothing to do with hurting family or friends. The secret has hurt me from day one and it still does after 13 years 10 months. It’s a secret that make me smile and cry all at the same time. At this point the pain out weighs the joy.

  37. lmao

  38. HELL NO!! I plead the 5th on this one. I am not self-incrinating, me & this one going to the grave…plus I’m lowkey tired of jd getting all the juicy shit outta us, but we don’t get a damn thang outta him lol. While I understand y, its not enuf for me to give up the info….NOPE….on to the next one…see yall 2morr

  39. @ Hollie from STL

    Co-sign!!!! They trippin!!

  40. BACK WHEN I WAS 17 BEFORE I MOVED AWAY FROM CALIFORNIA THAT SUMMER WAS LIKE MY BEST SUMMER I WAS BIG KICKING IT WITH THESE INDUSTRY KATS AND WE WERE HANGING OUT AFTER THE BET AWARDS AND SO WERE IN THIS HOTEL ROOM WITH SOME BIG NAME ARTIST @ THE TIME AND WE HAD THIS GAY GUY WITH US THAT USE TO BE EVE’S PERSONAL ASSISTANT,SO HE WALKS IN THE ROOM AND ALL THESE FACES DROPPED AND THE GAY GUY WAS LIKE DAMN I’VE FUCKED ALL THESE GUYS, HE STRAIGHT BUSTED ALL THEM NEGRO’S OUT!!!!!!!!!!!

  41. WHEN I LIED TO EVERYONE AT SCHOOL THAT I WAS RELATED TO TONI BRAXTON. MAN EVERYONE BELIEVED IT BESIDES THIS NEW STUDENT WHO BECAME MY BEST FRIEND AT THE TIME. SHE KNEW I MUST BE LYING BECAUSE SHE KNOW’S TONI HAS 6 SISTERS AND NO BROTHERS. THE REASON SHE KNEW IS BECAUSE SHE MET MY UNCLE WHILE HE PICK ME UP FROM SCHOOL ONCE TO TAKE ME HOME. I INTODUCE HER TO HIM, AND SHE TOLD ME IS THAT YOUR MOM’S BRO OR YOUR DAD’S BRO? I SAID MY MOMS. DO’OH! LOL! SHE TOLD EVERYONE IN SCHOOL THAT TONI ISN’T MY COUSIN, AND EVERYONE IN SCHOOL HATES ME. WELL THEY DON’T HATE ME, THEY JUST LIKE TO MESS AROUND WITH MY EMOTIONS ON PURPOSE. I BEEN PICK ON A LOT IN MY LAST YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL. IT WAS THE WORST FRESHMAN YEAR OF MY LIFE. I NEVER WENT TO MY PROM, TO MY GRAD NIGHT, AND ECT. MY POPULARIY WAS OVER. I ALWAYS WAS POPULAR IN SCHOOL SINCE ELEMENTRY, MIDDLE, AND HIGH SCHOOL FOR BEING THE CLASS CLOWN, FOR BEING THE MOST POPULAR BASKETBALL PLAYER IN SCHOOL, AND FOR BEING THE MOST OUT SPOKEN PERSON IN MY SCHOOL. YEAH MAN, BECAUSE OF THAT, I NEVER LIED TO ANYONE AGAIN. LYING IS FOR DUMMIES. LOL

  42. I MEAN MY SENIOR YEAR WAS MY WORST YEAR NOT MY FRESHMAN YEAR. DO’OH!!!!!!!!!! I HATE WHEN I MESS UP LOL!

  43. BUT I AM RELATED TO A CELEB. YOU WANNA KNOW, WELL HER NAME IS GARCELE BEAUVAIS WHO’S RELATED TO MY MOM’S COUSIN SIDE OF THE FAMILY.

  44. @ Kandi …..I HAVE NO WORDS FOR YOU!!! DIRTY MF….I hate when women justify doing something wrong… If your man cheated does that justify you doing the same thing? So if he killed somebody would you do the same thing? Dude could have some flaw in his character or something….But anyway… I’m very surprised at you!!! 🙁

    My personality is too up front, I am a very direct person, most people can’t deal with a person like that. It is what it is. My cousin who died of Aids a few years ago is a good example of someone trying to protect the people that he loved. Growing up I knew dude was a little feminine (dude use to switch and stuff, etc) but even with all those signs we didn’t know he was gay. After high school he went to FL and I think they turned him out, the point is is that he never told anyone about himself being gay he just kind of disappeared. There are a lot of guys here in Atlanta like that, they run to Atlanta from their city so the people they grew up with won’t know their secret. The point of the matter is that the truth is going to come out anyway, it’s just better to tell the people that need to know or will find out later anyway.

    JD I found what you said was not out here.. It took me this whole time since that conversation. Get the popcorn…. Less Blogging…More work….Less Blogging more work…. I’m out…..SPOCK

  45. I’ve never did anything to hurt family or friends….but I do I have one lil secret, which I would always keep to myself!!!;-)

  46. I havent done anything to hurt a friends or family, but i have a lil secret that i will keep to myself.

  47. i haven’t done anything to hurt frens or family, but i have a lil secret that i will keep to myself.

  48. @Spock

    Shut up! LOL At the end of the day I did it cause i wanted to do it not cause he did it first. He cheated SEVERAL times within the first 2 months of the marriage. I wanted an annulment he agreed, i find out 3 years later we STILL married so i was PISSED. He got what he deserved and life goes on 🙂

  49. So, this is the first time I ever let this out and I can’t believe I’m saying it now but I do feel exclusive with my fellow LIFA’s and Ocean boys.

    Me and one of my good girlfriends had a secret relationship and hid it between ALL of our friends and families, we knew that it wouldn’t last forever so we kept it secret so it wouldn’t get awkward in the future for everybody we knew. We would do it everywhere and anywhere, all the time before, inbetween and after hanging out with our friends or doing anything. If any of our friends found out, they’d be like WTF!!!!!!! We had a great time though but because I couldn’t commit to her because I had to follow my career and only needed a purely physical relationship, she developed more and more feelings til she got tired of being heartbroken, now she hates me.

    Ah well, we’ve both moved on. She found a boyfriend, which I think is a total dumbass and she is only on the rebound and I’m looking for a long term relationship that I can commit to.

    That’s my story…LIFA’s!

  50. OMG CANT BELIEVE IM WRITING THIS BUT HERE IT IS I SLEPT W/MY COUSINS BABY FATHER.WE WAS FUCKING PARTNERS B4 THEY MET, BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE WAS ALSO MY BESTFRIEND BOY FRIEND I NEVER TOLD HER THAT HER MAN WAS MESSING AROUND WITH ME AND MY COUSIN.MY BESTFRIEND HAD NO CLUE NEITHER DID MY COUSIN.EVENTAULY HIM AND MY BESTI BROKE UP BUT HE WAS NOW WITH MY COUSIN THE WHOLE TIME THEY WAS TOGETHER I WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP.ME AND HIM STILL HOOK UP,AND LAST YEAR I GOT PREGNANT BY HIM BUT GOT A ABORTION BUT IM PREGNANT NOW BUT I WANT THE BABY.THEY NOT TOGETHER BUT THEY HAVE A SON.WHAT SHOULD I DO.WE BOTH WANT THE BABY

  51. Oh Wow I think i’mma take mines to the grave I told God and asked for forgiveness and thats all I acn do. My family would efinitely give me the side eye and everything else. Oh, i haven’t told my parents that I was molested by 2 of my female cousins and one of my male cousins and a female family friend. But i told my siblings. about my cousins molesting me.

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