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WHATS UP LIFERS YALL COMMENTS ARE KILLING ME OVER HERE LMAO!!!!!!!!! ANYWAY TODAYS QUESTION IS HOW IMPORTANT IS SEX TO YOU OR A RELATIONSHIP?

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  1. IF DA PUSSY AINT RIGHT….I AINT STAYIN DA NIGHT!!HAHA
    WIT THAT SAID U NO WAT T IS!!!!!

  2. Sex is very important in the words of Steve Harvey “it is a way to connect and to recharge” it deepens your bond when both parties are satisfied. It as lessens the likely hood of straying when both parties are satisfied. Plus to be all the way real when the sex is great you want other parts to come together just as well.

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  3. It’s not the most important thing in a relationship but it does help the situation a bit. A relationship is connection on many different levels: Mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally..etc.

  4. Its not that important.

    Only at the beginning. Cause after awhile you get used to it no matter how good it is.

    Once that newness fades away, its the other things that make a relationship work.

  5. It mean alot I mean if we dont have sex then its gonna be a boring relationship

  6. SEX IS THE REALLY ONLY THING THAT SEPERATES FRIENDS FROM LOVERS!!! KISSING WITH TONGUE, AND HAVING FUN WITH EACH OTHERS BODY PARTS..

    I KNOW YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITHOUT THE RELATIONSHIP.. BUT I THINK A BETTER FITTING QUESTION IS CAN YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT SEX.

    BUT TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION, I NEED SEX TO FEEL THE DESIRE FOR A RELATIONSHIP, CAUSE IF WE NOT HAVING SEX, THEN IM SEEKING IT ELSEWHERE AND SLOWLY PUTTING U IN THAT FRIEND BOX!!

  7. To me sex is very important in a relationship. Once you start having sex with the person you’re with, to me then the relationship is in a whole new level. Sex is like something you share with the person you care about in my opinion. I have been wiht my boyfriend for about 3 years, when we started having sex, it made us get even closer. So without sex, I think it’s hard to know if you really want to be with that person, I mean sex is part of the stages to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with that person.

  8. Sex is like a drug you gotta have it .. If you not getting none I will get enough for you me and everybody else

  9. Confirmed: Beyonce/Taylor Swift moment was staged!
    Look at this:
    Among those who did offer support backstage was Beyoncé’s dad, Matthew, who comforted Taylor and her family, and arranged the moment in which Beyoncé gave Swift a second chance at the spotlight.
    full article:
    http://www.people.com/people/package/article/0,,20302940_20304464,00.html

    Ha. I knew it!! Matthew is so tricky!! And everyone is thinking beyonce is the holy angel. ugh!!
    That staged event with Kanye and Beyonce is so obvious!
    The general public are beginning to get sick of Beyonce and what better way to get some positive publicity than
    to have Kanye bounce up on stage and humiliate the poor girl, then have Beyonce come to the rescue of
    little Taylor and make herself out to be the “star with a heart”
    This is just shameless!

  10. I think it is very important but thats not what a relationship should be based on. It should be based on love or waterer i guess i don’t kno i’m young but i like to think im wises lOl… :o)

  11. I think sex reconnects you to your partner, the lack of sex leads to thoughts of cheating. Sex and intimacy are very crucial to the growth and development of a relationship.

  12. Confirmed: Beyonce/Taylor Swift moment was staged!
    Look at this:
    Among those who did offer support backstage was Beyoncé’s dad, Matthew, who comforted Taylor and her family, and arranged the moment in which Beyoncé gave Swift a second chance at the spotlight.
    full article:
    people(.)com

    Ha. I knew it!! Matthew is so tricky!! And everyone is thinking beyonce is the holy angel. ugh!!
    That staged event with Kanye and Beyonce is so obvious!
    The general public are beginning to get sick of Beyonce and what better way to get some positive publicity than
    to have Kanye bounce up on stage and humiliate the poor girl, then have Beyonce come to the rescue of
    little Taylor and make herself out to be the “star with a heart”
    This is just shameless!

  13. @Tracy I with you but Spiritually comes first for me.
    Not that much cause I’m a Virgin lol.

    Waiting on Swats2812 reply to this question.
    Hey Jd you and the Oceans should answer some of your Talk to Me questions.
    I would love to here Johnta and Bcox answers.

  14. hello

    well if you have been single for 9years and have not hade sex in a long time you can go crazy well i haven’t hade it and yes i’m looking for the right guy and hopefully he want be like my last man he sleep with my sister yes….your girl cherry

  15. Sex in my relationship iz like tires is to a whip. It’s not as important as gas but if you you don’t have them yo shit aint going nowhere! I gotta have that sex for my since of love in the relationship to keep pushin’. Matter of fact, I FEEL LIKE IT’S STILL BITCHES THAT OWE ME “SEX”…..Like #Biem!

  16. If it ain’t making good sex it ain’t making good sense. How can u stay and be happy when the sex ain’t good? It’s number 1 in my book cause after good sex everything seems to naturally fall in line.

  17. sex is not that important good sex is. just getting sex is not enough you gotta keep the sex life fresh so if you not getting pleased then it will be other problems

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  19. i think sex is the key,who wants to be ion a relationship and not get some but if you AC Green thats sumthing else.Sex is a great thing to have in a relationship if its good or very good some people become stalkers and whatnot……on a different not I saw In To Deep Lastnight and your part was so funny.”lets go out back and smoke the good shit…..ha ha

  20. Ok lol now sex wouldn’t be the first thing i try and look for in a guy. I would check out his swag, personality, im an independent woman so that man would have to be on his A game for me 2 even give him my undivided attention and thats real talk. But if we had got into a relationship we all lovey dovey and going out places together or whatever and it gets to sex and he ain’t got it…yall know what i mean…then i might have to boot him. Sex is an important factor to me and my relationships but not my main focus. I mean damn if im going to fuck with you, excuse my language, i gotta at least know you here for me and not my ass and if you still playing that lil old highschool game then you can’t handle this point blank…but i will say if you the man there will be head board banging every night! Lol idk if i clarified the question well enough but sex is like 85% important to me because if you can’t put it down ima get bored with you and you just gonna get them feelings hurt. 🙂

  21. I totally agree with ^Tracy!!You took the words right out of my mouth!!! You definitely need more then great sex in a serious relationship!!!

  22. Sex is important it is when you become one with a person, its brings you to a whole new level of your relationship

  23. sex only is important when u have that deep emotional connection with someone in my eyes. personally i never been the type of person to enjoy random sex partners. to me its a waste of my valuable time to jus cut wit anyone

  24. Sex is very important, cause if you are not having sex or good sex with your mate, then they should just be your platonic friend. Who doesn’t wanna be with someone who satisfies their sexual needs??

  25. I already know this blog question is gonna have ppl in harsh denial…sex is extremely important in a relationship…as important as morals and values and ne other pertinent piece of judging or standards u wish ya partner 2 uphold…I personally think ppl who dnt say sex should b important or dnt expect it as a cardinal piece in a relationship has neva had great sex and then lost it…now u can have a decent relationship with a bad sex partner…but the person on the short end of the stick is always gonna b itchin 2 get sum good dick/good puss frm tht person who they kno can beat it up/twerk it right…and frm previous blogs most of yall women admitted 2 havin said friend….2 deny how important sex is is askin 4 a problem tht u can push 2 the back but when it comes 2 the light its gonna b a make or break situation.

  26. Sex is one of many important things in a relationship. Without it a relationship sucks, yet if sex is the only point of the relationship, the situation will suck(& fuck) and be pointless. You have to have a good balance.

  27. Sex is as important as food in a relationship. So if ya dont eat you survive. and If we can Fuck couple times a day then it aint gonna work

  28. sex shouldn’t have priority over having a relationship, but sex definitely is a factor that contributes to a relationship. A relationship shouldn’t also be based solely on sex, because that’s just like basing the raltionship on physical attributes which we all know won’t last long. I think sex to me is what puts the icing on the cake, once you have all the ingredients to make a successful relatiosnhip work, sex is just what tops it all off and makes everything more sweet and special.

    swat2812 and the rest of the ocean 7 should definitely put the input on this topic =D I woould love to know what you guys think esp Johnta!

  29. sex is like wet ass take it how you get it lol but in a relationship shouldn’t be about sex but it helps to make sweat back dripping hard core sex at times dam i miss it lol yeah man..

  30. sex isnt the main key to a relationship. if u cant stand the one u wit how is sex gonna make the relationship better?? how can u enjoy sex if u dont truly have strong emotions about that person??

  31. I’m sooo not gonna lie…its VERY important regardless if I’m in a relationship or not. LOL It doesn’t have to be every single day but 3-4 times a week would be good. But since my teaching days are over, if he ain’t cumming correct he won’t be cumming back…

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  32. Well in my relationship luv,trust & differently sex is very important 4 me. If you’re not givin me enough I will go else where. LOL..

  33. AMEN on that one Cherry!!!!

  34. the question shud be do you stay with someone who aint pleasing you sexually??

  35. I think that sex is very important for a realationship cause its a thing where both come close together a real special moment…very private and intimate!
    In my opinion if sex is getting boring in a relationship soon the relation between man and woman gets effected by this fact…
    Althogh we´re are in a modern age/era i would say that “sex in a relationship” have to be something special sometimes …to keep the relationship fresh…exp. the woman should wear nice lingerie (on special days or special occasions) or other things…

    yes thats my short statement its your boy!

  36. In my own opinion I think sex is VERY IMPORTANT……if a man cant hold it down in the bed room then theres no point of even being together . Sex is one of them top necessities in a relationship.

  37. c i dnt think he is sayin tht a relationship should or shouldnt b built off of sex…he is askin how important is it…i think as adults we all kno u cant have a sex driven relationship and expect it 2 work…but i like the analogy @ExxcelLTL used…its like tires…its a part of the care tht u dnt have 2 care 4 as much as the engine but u aint ridin no damn where w/o tires

  38. I’m sooo not gonna lie…its VERY important if I’m in a relationship. LOL It doesn’t have to be every single day but 3-4 times a week would be good. But since my teaching days are over, if he ain’t cumming correct he won’t be cumming back… No games here unless its psp or wii. LOL But there will be some on here in str8 denial…as usual. LOL

    Whaddup biggl48LTL!!! Hope you’re feeling better homie!!! 😀

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  39. @BIGG NORMALLY I DONT LIKE YOUR YES MAN ASS, BUT IM FEELING WHAT U WROTE THIS TIME.. SO PROPS TO YOU!!!

  40. It’s extremely important, especially for those that know what they’re doing. You know what’s funny, I come to find that a lot of people have sex just to have it, and have not the slightest idea as to what it is they are doing. I was that way when I was younger. Just doing it, because that’s what I thought I should be doing. Sex is more than that to me. It’s that powerful & spiritual connection that is long lasting. It’s a non stop job, keeping it hot, sexy, interesting, fun. It’s also important to have sexual commonality.

  41. JD, it’s mandatory and it better be good. Period point, blank

  42. Sex is important, but it’s not the most important factor in a relationship….wtf is a relationship anyway?? 9 times out of 10 the person ur with is mentally with someone else anyway. I do believe sex enhances the “relationship” and makes it more exciting. Its a natural part life.

  43. @ANITA, I NEVER FEEL U!!!! BUT I GUESS I AGREE WITH THE “NOT TEACHING” I NEED YOU TO HAVE FUCKED BEFORE BEING WITH ME…. I SAY NO TO VIRGINS!!!!

  44. @DEIRDRE…. PERIOD, POINT, BLANK!!!! LMAO THAT’S HALARIOUS!!!

  45. @CharlesNelson I unknowingly had a virgin once… I had folks laughing at his ass after that!!! LOL Imma hafta share this story later. LOL

  46. i think sex is very important in a relationship but your relationship shouldnt be based off of it. sex should only be given to a person that worthy of your time and your body…giving it up all willy nilly is not cute for a male or female. you should also get to know a person first its nothing worse than hearing people talk about how good the sex was but dont know shit else about the person!!! when u choose to have sex with a person each time your are giving a part of yourself away and when you finallly settle down with that special person u want them to know that u think they are special and what they getting everybody and they daddy aint had!!! i feel sorry for those people who think that they have to give it up on a regualr because obviously they dont deem themselves as special and the people who are taking the sex because thet are settlign for something that is not up to par…but this is just MY opinion

  47. please excuse the typos!!! 🙂

  48. 2 b honest…….sex is important especially in the relationship because of the physical attraction and the emotion behind the sex…….now for sex period…..i have 2 say if we could have that w/o the emotional attachments then u r in the game wit me because u can have sex both wayz…….physical attraction w/ the attachments or jus physical attraction……..either way imma keep on fuckin til the attraction fades away……..4REAL.

  49. Sex is important but not a key component for making a relationship work. In a RELATIONSHIP, it represents a union which goes beyond the physical. It is an act that signifies the coming together of the mind, body and spirit as one.

  50. It plays a major role in the setting of a relationship, but it’s not all to the relationship.. If u r not sexual compatiable with the person it can’t be force.. I set a couple of my guys up and they just didn’t don’t shit right.. Had the chick coming back to me asking me why did I set that up..he’s to rough he just rammed me and he can’t eat pussy so she was mad as hell at me!! But it’s an important element to the relationship!!

  51. JD LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION, ” WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT SEX? CAN YOU HAVE A RELATIONSHIP AND NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR LADY NOT EVEN ONCE? SEX DOESN’T MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP BUT IT IS VERY IMPORTANT I NEED SOME KIND OF SEXUAL CONTACT EVERYDAY

  52. I love sex, so I could not be in a relationship where there is no sex…. I need it

  53. I think sex is important but, at the same time I would want to make sure that it is not the bases of our relationship. Becuase I would like the security of knowing that you wouldn’t turn your back on me if something were to happen to the point where I can’t have sex anymore. Although sex maybe a very important part in people’s relationship. What if your partner gets into accident of some sort. Keep in mind this is suppose to be the person your suppose to spend the rest of your life with, and you two are as happy as can be and now the accident has messed with thier spine or something like that. You mean to tell me that in there time of need of your love and devotion you turn your back on them. Then to me your “REALTIONSHIP” is nothing but exclusive fuck buddies. Because love is suppose to be unconditional, not just whether you can fuck me whenever I want. Your suppose to stand tall for yours no matter what. That’s just me though. But we all know this fucked up world is not the place where people take love seriously.

  54. SEX IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING AFTER TRUST!!!! I dont care if we were arguing 30 min ago HE GOTTA give it to me. Hell, that’s most likely the reason why I was BITCHIN to begin with I NEEDED HIM to bend me over to begin with.

  55. weeellll ummm lol i think sex in a relationship is needed…but also a relationship needs to b more than sex….it has to be waaay more deeeeeper than sex and if its not then its not a relationship its called being fuck buddies..so yea its needed to keep tha relationship alive but onli if tha other parts are there as well

  56. well i move to atl and dam if there a stright guy here please stand up because i can’t tell omg back to sex and relationship well some times we do thing to please the other person but are we as women being please hell know i would like to meet a guy who can hold a relationship and sex with me because i can make him call his mama lol

  57. @CHARLES NELSON im no yes man…im a MAN…i say what i feel…and as a fellow man if u dont like it then thts the case…no need 2 call me a yes man!!

    Yo AnitaLTL yea im a bit better…still dnt kno wth is up tho

  58. SEX SHOULDN’T B DAT IMPORTANT IF U R N LUV WIT SUMONE IT SHOULDN’T MATTER 4 REAL!!!!!!
    BUT IN DA RELATIONSHIP IT IZ A CERTAIN TIME WHERE U WANT 2 HAVE SEX WITH YOUR OTA, N FROM DEN ON N THROUGHOUT DA RELATION, SEX WILL B DER BUT U GOTTA MAKE SHO DAT WHILE DA SEX IZ DER NOW MAKE SHO DAT DA LUV HASN’T LEFT.
    BUT SEX IZN’T DAT IMPORTANT UNTIL U DO GIVE IT UP N DEN C IF U CAN HAVE A 50/50 WIT SEX N LUV.

    P.S N IT DOESN’T HURT IF DEY GUD AT IT N DEN U CRAVE IT.

  59. i went from a relationship where we had sex all the time 2 1 where all i got was a lil head and a handjob…tht shit was wild…but tht was durin muh un enlightened yrs…where i thought sex wasnt sumthin i could expect and i cant make a relationship decision based on the fact tht i wasnt havin sex…we lasted 8months but we ended abrubtly and i told her if we couldnt have sex then we couldnt b and now we r great friends….i didnt break up bcuz of no sex but i sure wasnt takin tht ride again…afta tht i realized tht sex is a card u have 2 play on the table

  60. Love is the most important thing in a relationship but sex is an important part too.Sex is human nature and if ur not getting it right and not being satisfied it’s gonna cause problems..it’s nothing better to be in love with ur partner AND the sex is off the chain. I think alot of ppl can love someone and if for one reason or another the sex isn’t good it will eventually cause the relationship to fall apart. I don’t condone cheating to get what ur not getting home tho, communication is the key and if u can’t talk it out to get them to make it better or yall r just not sexually compatible,then it’s best to b friends and find someone who ur more compatible with. However,it’s a chance u take because u may not find everything u want in the next person.All u may find is sexual compatibility! But that’s the 80/20 rule and it’s like shooting dice.

  61. Lmao @sheshe

  62. sex is like your best friend wipe it off and put it away you know what your hands can do lol it’s call safe sex the hell with love it makes no since at all …

  63. if the sex isnt good then it isnt important to me….but if it is GREAT then it is important then hell yeah!!!!!……i dont wont any half decent sex..that just a waste of my time and the guys as well….

  64. Sex is important, it’s another level of intimacy with ur partner and a way to feel amazing because of how u are pleasing and fullfilling one another.
    And i can’t help but agree with @cherry…..”makin sweat back dripping hard core sex at times” takes one emotions on a super high and it is good to feel that powerful release!
    I”m done typing…i’m leavin work, gonna live by my words and GET SOME! lol
    Carry on the debate Lifers!

  65. @cherry….u crackin me up…..now go wash ur hands! lol

  66. ViiRGiiN STATUS NOT VERY iiMPORTANT 2 Mii….BY THE WAY iiM 19 YRZ OLD

  67. Sex is pretty important in my relationship…because I REALLY enjoy sex with my man!! Loll!

  68. @heathera baby i stay clean all day and night trust me im good at what i do lol but i like jd and the guys they speak the truth why give your self to some one for 7 years and counting if your not happy and it’s all about sex dam i can BFF my dam self it fills nice but i do need a man to make it rain down on me yes where usher i heard he free lol ……… girl talk

  69. YEA, IT’S ALL ABOUT HOW GOOD THE SEX IS….I LAY PIPE LOL ; )

  70. It is important in a relationship, but it is not going to keep the relationship together. There has to be more than just sex to keep me interested and committed.

  71. It depends on how the relationship started and if the relationship evolved into more than just sex. But fuck yea sex is very important to a relationship especially if one or both persons are a naturally sexual person. I actually have my better half that has a very low sex drive, but i still get whn i want it.

  72. SEX is very important b/c a true relationship, is more about what you don’t have to verbalize to each other. If your partner can give you a look w/o saying anything, but you heard the game plan. Then you two are truly connecting. Sex is the Superbowl game of connecting, unless you need to go in the huddle for the next play nothing has to be said. It shows he knows you, and you know him. Words are optional, but can be useful especially if either of you wants to throw an audible. Sex helps create a strong offense within the relationship, and defense is an option play. Sorry about the football references, but it helps the visual. So stop wondering, and get sexin!

  73. Sex to me makes up 50% to 70% of the relationship. It depends on your connection and how good the sex is. I don’t believe you can stay with someone long and have terrible or lacking sex from the get go. That spark in the sex has to be there or someone else is going to grab your attention more easily. Women put up with a lot of bull shit from guys just because they are hooked on the sex. NO Lie! But if you love someone and the sex starts to lack after some time together you will stay with them because you love them. But the sex has to be good at least in the early part of the relationship. Women care.

  74. Here’s a quote I thought would sum it all up…”Sex is the easy part, it’s giving your heart that’s the hard part!”

  75. @ NICE DES

  76. IT IS IMPORANT IN A WAY TO KEEP THINGS BALANCE, BUT IT’S NOT EVERYTHING U KNOW

  77. sex is not important. sex is not important. sex is not important. It is just a hell.of.a.topping. Communication is what makes a relationship workable. without communication, sex has no chance of holding a relationship together. YEs… Communication is the glue that holds a relationship together and well for sex.. it is just an accessory like 22s on a Mercury. L.o.L. Sex makes it good.good. but communication makes it work… Keep us commenting JD…..

  78. in my relationship sex is not that important if a man is good to you then he is orh keeping as long as i am happy then the sex dont matter because you can always train a man do the things you like in bed i noe i have had to train a few

  79. relationship is like a book you can pick it up and put it back on the shelf it can be very boring at times and it can be rewarding most of the time but if you base your hole life around that person your not only going to be sick in side out meaning your life as you know it is over you can’t build your hole life around that one person you have to have peace mind and most of all freedom when you first get into a relationship it’s call freedom knever let he or she take that away if you do thats where a bff comes into to play to take you back to the one place you call home it’s call freedom…

  80. Um Sex is not really impotant but it put’s the icing on the cake. I think a relationship for me is very important and communication you always have to communicate. That is number 2 on my list you have to tell me how your feeling and I will do the same. Sex is good but it just cant always be about that or else it will not last. As we all should know you cant do anything or get anything done without communicating with one another.

  81. Not at all. Maybe I’m just of a different breed or something, but I don’t really need it. I do require some kind of affection (kissing, making out, etc.) but not necessarily sex. I really just enjoy being in someone’s company who I am in love with. To me, sex is like extra cheese on a pizza. You already have the basic meal but it’s just more fun sometimes having more to eat (pun intended). Still, you’d be good and satisfied if the pizza place didn’t offer it. So yeah it’s fun and nice. But not necessary to get the main goal of being in a relationship accomplished. There are other ways to be “connect and recharge.”
    And from what I’ve seen with many of my friends who put too much emphasis on sex, they aren’t happy without it. I mean, if that’s what you need to be in a relationship with someone that’s a real problem.

  82. WASSUP OCEANS! I’M FROM CAMEROON,AFRICA.FIRST OF I LIKE TO SAY JD YOU MY INSPIRATION FOR MANY YEARS NOW AND I FEEL YOUR PASSION.JUST KEEP ON DOING YOUR SHIT.WELL,I DONT THINK SEX IS THAT IMPORTANT BUT ITS CLEAR DAT WITOUT IT DA RELATIONSHIP WONT BE CMPLETE

  83. In the words of Melanie Fiona “Give it to me right or don’t give it to me at all”. Sex is important in a relationship. Any good relationship is filled with lots of sex lol.

  84. @MISHA C. That makes both of us I guess were the true winners lol.

  85. if he gotta baby dick he can’t hit. one time this guy pulled out what they call a baby dick (LIKE FOR REAL PEOPLE NO LIE I NEVER A MANS SHIT COULD BE THIS SMALL BUT REALLY BABY DICKS ARE WHAT THEY CALL THEM SMALL LIKE THIS LIKE 2 INCHES)that dick was like 2 inches like REALLY NO LIE i couldn’t believe it i HADN’T HAD A LOT OF DICK BUT DAMN I HAD NEVER SEEN NO SHIT LIKE THAT, I look confused when he whip it out n it only reach the bottom of his zipper, my forehead was wrinkle i didn’t know what or why it was so little, i just said what is that!!! i was pissed! needless 2 say i didn’t want 2 feel that shit! please then i told all my girls they laughed @ me n cleared it up n told me some men really have baby dick. sex is important man NO MORE BABY DICKS LMAFO

  86. Sex is only as important as you make it.. lol… you can be fine without with.. but DAMMMIT when you need it… whoever you call betta be ready.. LMFAO!

    As of lately… ive been in bed by 9 and haven’t really bothered with it.. Seein as how im married.. if i want it.. its only a *wink-wink* away! 🙂

  87. Sex is important but it is not a key factor, you have to have something in order to help u connect with your partner in order to have a higher level of intimacy. Sex shouldn’t be that important in your relationship that it makes or breaks it.

  88. BANG BANG BANG BANG MACARONI!!!! BEAT THE PU$$Y UP LOL!! Naw sex and a relationship goes hand and hand at the beginning of a relationship the most and up until yall older and don’t hump 2much more!!! I’m in my 20’s and married and I LOVE SEX still! I’ve been with my wife for 8 years and humping since then.(give or take the first 6 months it took 4 her to give it up)!! But it is like a gift and curse at the same time!! SEX IS LIKE EVE EATING THE APPLE IN THE GARDEN! AS WELL AS IT MAKES UP A PERCENTAGE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IT ALSO SUBTRACTS FROM IT 2….I MEAN U CAN SPACE OUT SEX MUCH LONGER WEN US MEN IS BEATING IT UP RIGHT YA DIG!!! NO SEX..MAKE LOVE..JUST OT IN THE CLUB..SRRY USHHH…LOL…BUT PLEASE YOUR SPOUSE IN EVERY WAY LADS N GENTS NOT JUST I SMACKING IT UP!! I DO WERK IN THE BEDRM SO MY SHII BE TIRED TO WANT IT 2 MUCH LOL!!..MAYBE NOT IDK :-/..?

  89. VERY IMPORTANT! That is the quickest way to lose a nigga!

    Congrats to SHAKIR STEWART AKA SHAKE for being inducted this weekend for the Georgia music hall of fame. R.I.P cuzo.

  90. @kelvin he will be miss

  91. with out sex there no relationship

  92. Ofcourse sex is very important! Its one of the key components in a relationship!..It can be a problem maker and problem solver..hehe but nevertheless YOU HAVE TO have it!….try not having it and see how far your relationship will go unless both the partners dont want to have it…ughhh but where they do that at?!!..lol

    It can get old to some so thats why you have to keep it fresh and not make your entire relationship based off sex!! Ya’ll Sex can be cool but if both ya’ll broke ya’ll dont stand a chance!..lol Money is the quickest way to get an arguement going..2 broke ppl are NOT happy!

  93. Sex is needed!!!! i mean who doesnt want to feel that satisfaction of being with that special someone who can please u in the right way!!!especially sexually thats if they are also pleasing you in other ways in the relationship… now i dont want the relationship to be just about sex because then the relationship is doomed especially if there is only one partner with that feeling…..but everybody loves sex…lol

  94. JD. Relationship is very important! preson he and she love eah other don’t stop end the relationship the preson both make work both still in love.

  95. people might say that its not but when it comes down to it when you get that person in the bed and yall both bust one there is one question you ask yourself and that is do i want to have sex with this person again or if your in a commited relationship you ask could i do this for the rest of my life…if the answer is no then sex plays a big part in relatinsips…..if its yes…..you lyin cuz i dont know any one who will settle for horrible sex or no sex at all…me personlly if you can satisfy me in bed…..i dont really think we have a future unless you got unbelievable head game hahahahahahaha

  96. Women don’t realize that sex is at the top of a man’s list in a relationship. They forget how they fucked you when you first started the relationship. At first they fuck you hard and good because they want you to stay. Then when they realize (or think) you are not leaving them, they start to slack.

    If the sex is not right in a relationship, then nothing is not right! The sooner women see that the better off they will be

  97. It is very important and people lying if they say otherwise. FULL STOP

  98. Hello JD,

    Both are important and I know that I can not have the relationship without the sex correction good sex. I let a relationship go because of the sex not being good and the unwillingness for him to make change and please me………..

    Thank you for asking
    Patrice

  99. VERY IMPORTANT!..PEOPLE GOTTA THINK THAT’S WHAT SEALS THA DEAL WHILE DATING..LOOKS GOTTA BE ON POINT AS WELL AS HIS/HER PERSONALITY..NO ONE FUCKS WITH A PERSON AND SAYS”WELL AT LEAST HE LOOKS GOOD” IT’S ALL ABOUT HOW HE WORKS THA DICK!! NOT SAYIN THA DICK GOTTA BE MORE THAN A MOUTHFUL BUT THA SEX GAME BETTA BE STUPID GOOD..I WOULD HATE TO BE THAT WOMAN WITH THA MAN WHO HAS EVERYTHANG TOGETHA OUTSIDE OF THA BEDROOM BUT WHEN IT’S TIME TO DICK ME DOWN HIS SHIT CAN’T HIT THA SPOTS OR EVEN MAKE ME CLIMB THA FUCKIN BED(YAWN) I’D RATHER FINGER FUCK MYSELF BEFORE I’D EVA ALLOW SUCH A THANG TO HAPPEN LIKE THAT..THEM ARE WHAT I CALL “THROW AWAY NICCAS”

  100. Sex is very important within a relationship. Obviously, its not everything, but its important. Especially in a long-term committed relationship its the BEST!! Thats when love enters and the limits start to make their exit. Then you start doing shit that’s illegal in 14 states…ok what was i..?? Oh yeah, I feel sex is important no matter the form…he doesn’t have to be physically on top of me to “make love” to me.You can say spirituallity, communication, trust, honesty, love should be priority…that’s true. But those characteristics or factors that you appreciate and love about your relationship and your partner…makes you want to have that connection with them. I can go without it but in a relationship i believe there should be sex. Regular sex, oral sex, tantric sex, phone sex, text sex, cyber sex, write sexual letters or emails, etc. Give me something…start me off with something i’ll finish. Like i said you don’t have to be here with me physically to satisfy me. Basically,I see sex or “making love”as another way to express my feelings within my relationship. There are too many different forms of sex not to have it.

  101. Aye yo…. Smash and Dash… Dip and Dodge… Hit it and Quit it… simple as that

  102. The God Returns sex is great but good sex usually depends on the connection between you and your partner deep connection=good sex/ no connection usually= bad sex.

  103. SEX IS SOOOOOOOO FUCKIN IMPORTANT!!!!!!! NO! LIKE LISTEN!!! LIKE FORREAL! SEX IS SOOOO IMPORTANT!! IT MAKES A MAN SO MUCH MORE SEXIER WHEN HE CAN PLEASE YOU TO THE POINT OF NO CONTROL! I DONT THINK I COULD STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP IF THE SEX IS WEAK! I NEED MY COOCH TO SLOB LIKE UR MOUTH AFTER A SHOT OF NOVACAINE NOT DRY UP LIKE THE GOT DAMN MOJAVE DESERT! *STR8FACE*

  104. LMAO @ NIKKI SANTORO

  105. (ROLLING MY EYES, AND LAUGHING OUT LOUD) NOT AGAIN WITH THIS SUBJECT J.D. IT’S LIKE A SONG, YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT TO WRITE ABOUT, BUT TO WRITE ABOUT THINGS YOU KNOW AND WHAT YOU DO EVERYDAY. THIS PRETTY MUCH EXPLAINS HOW LYRICS ALWAYS HAVE THE SAME SUBJECTS. LOL! SORRY IF I SOUNDING RUDE OR ANYTHING, BUT YOU KNOW, THIS WHAT I DO.

  106. J.D. SINCE THIS IS TALK TO ME!!!!! THAN LETS TALK TO YOU LIKE COMMUNICATE WITH YOU, THAT WOULD BE COOL. I WANT YOU TO INTERACT WITH YOUR FANS U KNOW.

  107. ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS ” VERY FUCKING IMPORTANT ” GOD BLESS U GOOD NIGHT !! LMAO !!

  108. FOR THE LAST TIME, I WILL SAY THAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS EXTREMELY COMPLICATED, ONLY BECAUSE I HAVE A DIFFERENT OUT LOOK IN LIFE THAN THE PERSON, SO FOR THAT REASON, WE’RE NOT COMPATIBLE OK. I’M FUCKING SOBER NOW, I CHANGE BIG TIME. PEOPLE NEED SOUL SEARCHING BAD, LIKE REALLY BAD I’M TELLING YOU. BUT ANYWAYS, RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUILT ON HONESTY, RESPECT, TRUST AND LOYALTY, INTEGRITY, AFFECTION, DEVOTION, PASSION AND ECT. A RELATIONSHIP BUILT ON LIES IS A FAKE RELATIONSHIP OK. I DO NOT TOLERATE IMMATURE MAN, AND MANY TIMES I’VE BEEN WITH IMMATURE MAN THAT I CAN’T NEVER GET THREW THEIR MIND TOO. MAN THAT WON’T COMMITE TO YOU IS NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP POINT BLANK. IF A GUY RATHER BE WITH HIS FRIENDS, OR RATHER BE AT THE CLUB LATE AT NIGHT, OR RATHER HAVE GIRLS ON HIM ALL THE TIME, THAN HE’S NOT WILLING TO SACRIFICE IN A RELATIONSHIP. A GUY HAS TO BE WILLING TO STOP HIS PARTYING WAYS TO SEE THAT LIFE ISN’T NOTHING WITHOUT SOMEONE THAT CARES FOR YOUR WELL BEING. TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, YOU HAVE TO MAKE IT WORK, IF IT DOESN’T WORK, GO FUCKING MOVE ON AND BE SINGLE FOR A CHANGE GOD DAMNIT. I REALLY NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE ANYTIME SOON. MY LOVE RIGHT NOW IS MY CAREER. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE WORRY ABOUT A GUY WHO WILL NOT MATURE INTO A REAL ASS MAN.

    SO J.D., WHAT NEXT TOPIC YOU GONNA BRING UP NEXT, “WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION”???

  109. SO J.D., WHAT NEXT TOPIC YOU GONNA BRING UP NEXT, “WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE SEX POSITION”??? MY BAD. I FORGOT TO PUT SEX BEFORE THE WORD POSITION SINCE SEX IS THE MAIN SUBJECT HERE. DO’OH!

  110. Sex keeps it hot! If the sex is dull, boring, or quick… I’m out! He wants to be satisfied, so I demand satisfaction myself! All bullshit aside…

  111. WITHOUT SEX….IS THAT EVEN A RELATIONSHIP???

  112. Sex is typically a part of a relationship but it is not that important. If you can consider a relationship boring or non-existent because you don’t have sex then you have no depth. You can have sex with someone and at the end of the day when they open their mouth to speak; you want to stab them in their eye whites. You have to be bringing more to the table then sex like intellect, conversation, character, etc. Besides, if you have time to be fucking all day everyday then I’m going to need you to get a better job.

  113. I am married, so it is very important to our marriage that sex is happening regularly and in good quality. You start to feel a bit of tesion with your mate whenever the sex slacks up.

  114. It’s a deal breaker, real talk. If the sex is bad, the relationship is heading down the toilet quickly. Anyone who says that sex isn’t important are lying.

  115. LMFAOCDFU @Nikki Santoro

    @Nakita Benjamin You sound a lil pissed. LOL

  116. A realationship is more of a mental game than a physical. A good relationship can be achieved without sex.

  117. Without sex your relationship is platonic, which means you are my friend. THE END. If the sex is bad you get put in the friend zone. OMG I had this dude one time sweat on me and it went in my eye. I told him to get his ass out. I don’t know whats worse sweat in the eye or cum in my hair.

  118. Sex plays a very important role in a relationship but it is not the most important thing. Especially when you have a family. Finding quality time to spend together is at the top of my list and if the night is topped off with sex then that is the icing on the cake. I do think that it is important to find time to be intimate with your partner. My husband and I still have great sex but definitely not as often as we use to. When we are able to be together uninhibited it just adds to what is an already great relationship.

  119. Sex is great Sex is great Sex is great. is it important in a relationship not so much until you start having it then I get the urge to get it more unless it isn’t good then we going to have to work on somethings i dont’ mind teaching the 1st time or 2 but after that then some things might need to change!

  120. Sex is the least important thing in a relationship! An individuals character is the most important thing. Sex can be learned but its very hard to change a persons character! Minor character flaws can be fixed but some issues are just too deep and its better to just find someone else. Life is about learning and growing so if a man is not so great in bed than how about attending a sex workshop together maybe you will both learn something and your relationship will grow stronger!

  121. I thinks sex is important if it’s really a relationship. I also think to many women think that just because a man have sex with her they’re in a relationship. That’s is why most women will say that sex is important. Sex is just a fuck unless your in a committed relationship and fucking is not important.

  122. LMAO @ NIKKI SANTORO TOO…I LOVE THAT!! lol I’m going to be thinking about that comment on my next dental visit

  123. It’s important, but it’s not the most important aspect of a relationship. People stay in bad relationships for a variety of different reasons, but sex is actually the one reason that people can get over. The sex might be really good, but if everything else is wack….the relationship is going to end, even if the sex continues.

    When you really love someone, you sacrifice at times. It could be sex, money, etc.
    I think an interesting question would be…if they aren’t holding up their end of the finances, would you stay? How important are finances to the relationship.

    Can men make less money than their woman, but still feel secure?

  124. Sex isn’t everything to me or in a relationship…it’s actually meaningless. I fall for somebody before we have sex. So our physical relationship is accented by our mental relationship and how well we know eachother inside and out.

  125. I have been around for awhile and have experienced many relationships. In my mind, I always believed that sex solidified a relationship, it was the bond that holds the relationship together. However, I’ve learned I want a REAL relationship. I believe in making love to my man all day…to his mind, his heart, to his ears, when I cook…his nose, when he touches me, and I damn sure want to be appealing when he lays his eyes on me. With that said it takes more than sex to keep me in a relationship. I am a well rounded woman and I am looking for the same type of man. He has to be able to entertain me in more than the bedroom.

    I’ve had men good in bed and not very socialable, good in bed and good in everybody’s bed, good in bed and lousy at holding a conversation, good in bed and don’t wanna work, good in bed and got a crack habit. I want a man who will laugh with me, sing and dance with me, wants to hear from me when I call him to met me at home for lunch. Sex used to sustain me, now I…A man has to touch me in so many different ways to get my goodies, because I’ve learned that I am just that, GOOD!

    I’ve learned that I’m EVERY WOMAN and I have many personalities and they all need to be satisfied. I’m a jokester, I like to entertain, I am a nurturer, I’m confident, intelligent, aggressive, assertive, radiant, vivacious, creative, resilient and I know if a man sees every woman in me he will definitely want more than sex. Right now I’m 43, and living the single life of an 18 year old. No children, on my own and discovering myself…living my life like I’m brand new.

    Think it crazy, but I have allowed myself a recess. To get to know me so that I don’t hook up with no more of these half baked muthafuckas walking this earth. I am damn good in bed because every last muthafucka I’ve had in life is knocking at my door right now, especially since they know I’m single, but it’s not happening, tired of spare tires and I don’t want any fucking retreads. SO I LIVING THE SINGLE SINGLE SINGLE…LIFE!!! Right now that means for me NO FUCKING! MEN CAN’T HANDLE A GOOD FUCK AND A WOMAN THAT TREATS THEM RIGHT THEY THINK THEY HAVE A FOOL OR SOMEBODY TO FUCK OVER! THEY HAVE COME TO MY DOOR I’VE LEFT THEM IN HOWEVER, THEY LEAVE WITH A STIFF DICK IN THEIR HANDS BECAUSE THEY HAD AN OPPORTUNITY BUT DON’T GET A SECOND CHANCE.

  126. I often wonder how many times celebs have to do reality checks. Do you ever wonder if ppl are just with you for the money, fame or whatever? You have all those groupies around, if you wanted a real relationship can you choose the right one? Always on the go it really must be hard to maintain a serious relationship it seems you would have to have a well rounded woman one that you are willing to understand and one willing to understand you. I’m sure if either of you are not satisfied the least little absence can cause friction. Man it must be really hard to trust where you are. Especially with what Usher just went thru. How stupid can a woman be, hell the man married you, dammit she had everything. AIN’T NO WAY IN HELL HE WOULD BE READY TO KICK ME OUT OF ANYTHING! ESPECIALLY THE BEDROOM I WOULD HAVE MADE USE OF THE WHOLE FUCKING ROOM TO KEEP A GOOD MAN! AND IF I THOUGHT FOR ONE MOMENT HE WAS LOOKING ELSEWHERE, I WOULD PUT IT ON HIM SO TOUGH, LOVE, COOKING, SEX, STROKING HIS EGO AND HIS DICK, HE WOULD BE LOOKING FOR ME WITH A FLASHLIGHT IN THE DAYTIME!

  127. blah!

  128. Sex was so important to a rookie cop in Memphis he lost him damn job. Dude was so hot for sex he had sex with a prostitute, allowed her to break the law and started a fling! Now this 24 year rookie cop is without a job all because what was suppose to be a simple arrest and simple transport turned into him screwing a prostitute. How stupid can someone be, no his picture is in the news for everyone to see. Ladies beware he sleeps with streetwalkers. No word if he’s married but im sure there’s some woman in his life. All for sex, lol. As hard as times are el stupido gets fired for getting in with a lady of the night, LOL. DUMB, dumb and more dumb. Keep it up men. This is no time to be losing a job over stupidty

  129. Sex is sooooo over-rated! I can be a nun! LOL!!!

  130. Sex really isn’t important to me. I really would rather not have sext with the guy i’m dating until we’ve really gotten to know each other. I’ve been with a couple of guys that made me feel soo soo good but I just wasn’t into them but they didn’t understand that.

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