TALK TO ME!!!!!
WHATS UP LIFERS FIRST LET ME SAY YES I DO READ ALL THE COMMENTS YALL POST. FUNNY SHIT BUT ANYWAY IN READING THE COMMENTS I SAW ALOTTA YALL TALK ABOUT BAD BOYS KNOCKING THAT BACK OUT. SO THAT BROUGHT ME TO THIS. DOES GOOD DICK AS THE LADIES CALL IT MAKE GIRLS STICK AROUND LONGER THAN NORMAL? I ALWAYS WONDERED WHY GIRLS THAT ARE IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS GO BACK TO THE SAME PERSO., I’VE ALSO HEARD GIRLS TALK SHIT ABOUT A GUY BUT STILL BE SNEAKING TO SEE HIM. SO TELL ME, DOES GOOD DICK PLAY A ROLL IN A GIRLS DECISIONS?
TALK TO ME!!!
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sometimes good dick can make a girl stay wit a man…but in an abusive relationship it’s not just good dick it’s a mind game that a man plays with the woman making her feel as though she has no one else cause usualy the man isolates her from her friends and family til she feels like she’s alone and only has him..but thats no excuse for staying in that relationship..i have never been in an abusive relationship but i have had friends and family members in those types of relationships..so yeah maybe good dick is some of the reason for staying but alot of it is mind control!
@alexis Yeah gurl those mind games can kill a persons mind, body, and soul…
I’m going to keep it 100 No GOOD DICK doesn’t do nothing for me you know why because Sex is not Love. My man has to give me Spiritual connection and and stimulate my mind mentally Sex comes last for me. I’m Virgin so I don’t nothing about Good Dick lol.
spelling error my bad.
@MONIE I AGREE WHATS YOUR SIGN GIRL.
Ofcourse a virgin wouldnt kno what “good dick” does @ Tellingthetruth101….but in reading all these post i can c tht “good dick” isnt enuff 2 make women stay in a relationship; howeva, if its sum side dick or jus a good fuk yall sprung on it…i can say i have neva had ne pussy so good tht it had me goin nuts…but i could b missing out
Good dick will make an otherwise sane woman lose all common sense. I would never stay in an abusive situation. But, good dick has made me stay in a realtionship that wasn’t going anywhere or with someone I knew wasn’t good for me. But, he just made me feel so good. Lol. Sad but true.
@biggl48 interesting point there….. men don’t have “good pussy” to go nuts over? really? Men is that true???????
we are going in on the topic 2nite…people bringin the dirty
Bad dick can’t call the house past 11:00 p.m.!
Hell yea why else would we go back to the same ol shit as much as we hate to admit it the dick is what makes us stay if the dick is good you got a girl for life or a good fuck however I will say there is no dick in the world that wll make me stay in an abusive relationship and eventually the bullshit gets old and we let it go some sooner than ever BIEM!!
Good Dick does play a role in some women’s discussion to stay with a man. As someone stated most women equate sex with love. I have a bestie (best friend) who is dating/engaged to this nicca. He lives with her he has no job lays around the house and smokes weed all day,and get this, this fool (the bestie)
pays his child support payments *side eye* right. I ask her all the time, why are you with this no good ass nicca. Her answer ” The Dick Is Good” Shitttt Fuck that. In the words of Sommore(the comedian) “Soon as a nicca fuck you real good you give him the keys to alllll yo shittt”..lol. She says don’t get dicknotized, that when the dick to good and you don’t see the reality of some shit..lol…………. I said all that just to say this…there is nothing wrong with having a dude that’s giving you that good good, that mind blowin, back snappin good dick. What about Good conversation and all the other Good stuff that goes into a Good relationship. Hell make that nicca the bootie call, the jumpoff, the sidenicca, boyfriend# 2 and go find something better, because YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!! just my 2 cents
@MainChick <—but most of yall women neva wanna admit tht yall have fuk buddies or tht ya play niggaz 4 certain aspects…to muh knowledge thts what makes yall call us "no good ass niggaz"..hmmmm..
good dick is hard to find lol
HELL YEAH, DICK PLAYS AN ESSENTIAL ROLE. WHY U THINK JANET’S BEEN STUCK WIT YO ASS FOR SO LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!! HAHAHA LMOA THEN ROTF. BUT YEAH JUST LIKE JEANETTE SAY GOOD DICK IS HARD TO FIND. HELL IF YOU REALLY WANT TO SEE IF ITS TRUE ASK JANET AND IF SHE TRYS TO CHANGE THE SUBJECT SHE LYING THATS HOW YOU KNOW. WELL , IDK IF JANET EVER TOLD YOU GOT DICK, MAYBE. IDK
@biggl48
lol… you are right most women wont admit that we have fuck buddies (why u ask) because than we are looked upon as being whores, sluts or worst by you no good ass niggaz…lol…lol..lol. Psss how u become so knowledgeable in no good niggaz…..hmmmm ( r u somebodies jumpoff lol)
Mr Ltlline…Let me explain something to you … A woman should have respect for herself to listen to her husband/brother/father-strong male figure and it doesn’t have much to do w/the “D” word…as it does with a woman being respectable and making something of herself and her “man”!!! Okay…so most women who claim to be “miss independant, lack proper respect for men , and do not realize that a sexual life should be completly private and can be amongst many men, depending on many things…anyhow…i have a ? for you…”DOES GOOD …YOU KNOW THE “P” WORD,,, KEEP YOU GOING BACK OR IS IT SOMETHIN….ELSE AND THERE YOU HAVE IT YOUR ANSWER!! LTL-LINE… YOU ARE AWESOME! –Always Rhapsody… to the ladies, respect yourself, don’t let that stray from respecting men…we are made from them after all!!! A good woman is usally resources from an incredible man!
Hello JD,
I have to say it does in some cases but what I have noticed with me is when I feel I am done the sex that I thought was so good is not so good anymore.
Thank you for asking
Patrice
LOL @biggl48 I’ve had fuck buddies but only when I’m not in a relationship. Gotta stay “in shape”. LOL
Yoo-Anita. Ma, I’m lost on where you went with that. I just got back to it.
@ MainChick<—well id b lyin if i told u i was perfect…i was the "bad boy" in highschool and college…i did my fair share of dirt…im grown now…but i still have friends…but like kat Williams said "u keep attracting aint shit niggaz…u must got aint shit pussy" lol!!
@Olu biggl48 said that most females are afraid to admit to having fuck buddies or play guys for certain shit and then turn around and call’m no good nigs LOL So I just admitting to having buddies but only inbetween relationships so I can stay “in shape”. LOL
HELL YEAH GIRLS STICK AROUND 4 SOME GOOD DICK….AND THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT… ..and this may sound so ignorant but…GOOD DICK CAN ALSO BE A TYPE OF HEALING..LOL AND ITS LIKE WEN YOUR WITH SOME1 AND THEY MAKE YOUR FEEL GOOD lol YOU KIND OF 4GET ALL THE NEGATIVE SHIT THATS GOIN ON lol… so i think that some dick can be a reason why girls choose to stick around !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree with MainChick. Some women lose their minds for good dick and it’s a sad sight to see. They will throw damn near everything over board for it. Friends, family even their children. I can’t stand dingbats like that.
I couldn’t do it, if a guy has a whole lot of drama and only good dick to offer he can keep it moving. It’s hard to sleep with someone I can’t stand. Eventually you don’t even get turned on anymore no matter how good it is. At least that’s how it is for me but I hold grudges and I never forget.
YOO-Anita. LMAO! You are a trip. At least you are honest about it. Guys are the same way. Like pussy is pussy, but a girl who can have good sex is something else. I don’t believe in good pussy, I believe in good sex!
dont be jealous, you know every one “want ride”
YOO-Anita. I was talking about what you said about the white guy.
Coming from a guys perspective i say yes..There has been a lot of times in my younger days where i use to do the most dumbest shit , like sleep with the girls cousin or sleep with a friend of hers..And i always use to just fuck my way back in , cause the girls i have done this to had a very nice bag ( a lot of money ). And i use to get what i want, when i want..BUT YEAH IT DOES (in some cases, not all )
Perfect example – the two movies BABY BOY and BELLY.. IN BABY BOY he fucked the shit out of her and made her clean up the crib and make Tacos when he is the one that fucked up…LOL !! And in BELLY all i have to say is ” Keish,Keish listening I DON’T KNOW NO FUCKING KIEANNA”… LOL !!
But like i said IT ONLY WORKS IN SOME CASES.. But u cant wear it out.. And what i mean bye that keep fucking up and expect it to work all the time.At times u just have to stop the bullshit and just be real..CHI-TOWN IN THE BUILDING..PEACE !!
@ AnitaLTL<—AKA "baby batter" i kno u would tell the truth…
LMFAO @Olu dude was black…LMFAO He cooled my nerves about white guys being short. Haven’t hit whitey though…prolly won’t. shhhhh
@biggl48 Hell yeah!!! I ain’t skurred!!! This thread reminds me of this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IX380vS_Mzs LMFAO Looove this song!!!
Damn this question seem like its personally for me. Ive been with my girl 6 years on n off. She started beating on me n I’ve learned to fight back but i shouldnt even have to go thru all of that in the 1st place. But Yea the sex is good n I love her thats y i dont want to leave her. On top of thats it hard when u have her in ur ear telling u u cant leave. But yea she makes sure she sexes me good so i dont wanna get it from another bitch. N yup the move Baby Boy says it all.
But ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS is not whats up. I lost 2 very close friends of mine 3 days apart n they didnt even know each other but they got killed for the same reason. Kee-ah-sha was beat to death than shot twice in the head on top of that he tried to kill her 2 times be4 this all bacause he didnt want any1 else to have her. She was only 21. Fabia was 24 and her ex boyfriend killed her in front of a club all because he thought she was givving his puusy up than he shot his self.
@biggl48
We don’t like to admit to having fuck buddies and using niggas in part because of what Mainchick said.
The other part is, u guys like to run around thinking your slick and pulling the wool over our eyes but 2 can play that game. We’re slicker about it like Tyler Perry said in “Goes To Jail”…………..ya’ll like to sit there and think that just cuz ya give good dick and damn near suck us dry that we won’t creep if you do/ if you just don’t act right and that’s simply not the case.
LMFAO and this too!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owXVkDdBG4o&NR=1
YOO-Anita. I got it now. I had to re-read it. You are wild. So after that night you never talked to him? Did you tell him?
YOO-Anita. What’s your facebook page?
@Bootyinyoface<– but women neva call women aint shit…yall always have excuses on y yall did it…and yall only try b like niggaz..CRAP!!! If yall wit the perfect dude…good job nice guy but bad dick…yall kno yall wanna call lil leroy frm rnd the way who pipe u up real nice
@biggl48
Damn right there’s always an excuse LOL & sometimes it’s just cuz I felt like it.
Bad dick guy wouldn’t be my damn boyfriend anyway. We touched on this a couple of “Talk To Me”‘s ago. Call it shallow or whatever u like but there is no room for bad or short dick at all, u gotta be workin with somethin in that department otherwise u are just my friend……u could be my perfect FRIEND and lil leroy wit the good pipe can be my man.
Oh, & don’t get it twisted us women have names for other women, ain’t shit isn’t 1 of them but those names are normally reserved for those that do nothing but try to snatch up “taken” men.
this is off topic, but here goes: i’ve been looking for this re-mix to JE’s “I Gotta Be”….it has a girl rapping on it and it has a tight percussion track. I can’t find it anywhere. Do you have any idea on where I can find it? and no, I wouldn’t object if you personally hooked me up
if someone knows they can bring you back into the fold by just laying it down every few days (or hours) then that person can damn near get away with anything and keep playing you like a flute because they already know how to get you to stay with them or how to shut you up if they are tired of hearing your mouth.
a person who doesn’t do shyt, don’t have shyt and ain’t about shyt but knows their head/tongue/pipe/anal game is on point can always find a place to live and a hot meal (usually with the same person they playing like a flute) because they know how to manipulate the other person into giving them what they want. and since just about every person they’ve piped/tongued/heady moe’d down has confirmed it by telling them how great the sex is, they already know that they are on to something pretty marketable.
but if you’re blessed to be in a healthy relationship with someone who just happens to make you “carve karma sutra diagrams with the head board” then rock out til it falls out.
@chunkie
that was brave of you to state your situation but also important for people to know that it happens on both sides of the coin. some people have no idea that females/males beat on their partners and emotional/verbal abuse is just as painful and crippling. and the “baby boy” sex after wards is a reality for lots of people but only you can determine what you will allow yourself to handle. but i’m sure you already understand that cuz you have the examples.
@ not a robot!
“bad dick can’t call the house past 11:00pm!”
that is the funniest shyt i’ve heard in a long ass time.
@Bootyinyoface<—well yall call us "aint shit" so i call yall "aint shit"lmao!!!…and even if lil leroy aint got shit goin 4 him..ud b wit him ova the otha dude 4 a good fuk…
@biggl48
LMAO!!!
If lil leroy ain’t got shit goin for him but the good dick then he wouldn’t be my damn boyfriend either but I’d still fuck him. I’ve been the sugar mama before and that shit is whack.
Not every man with a good dick is good boyfriend material but you have to have the good dick to at least be considered…..just the way it is, some things can’t be overlooked.
bff
@Bootyinyoface<— i ca dig tht…i dnt think ne grown woman would stick arnd 4 the "good dick"…but it sures gets clothes, bills paid, and meals cooked lol!! i must admit!!
The sad thing is a lot of “Triflin” men use that “Good Dick” as a way to manipulate low self esteem women into doin shit like paying their rent for them and buyin them new cars and givin dudes money on their paydays…I grew up witnessing this a lot even in my own family and some dudes will Dick you into Bankruptcy if you’re not carefull. Sometimes only Jesus can get you out of that situation if good sense wont.
In the beginning, it’s enough to make me wanna stay around but not enough to keep me around. I wasn’t taught, so I always thought sex solidified the relationship. I had life fucked up. When I got “good dick” I thought he was the one for me. However, what helped me get my head right was, just as well as he has “good dick” I have “good pussy”. That understanding aids me in choosing the proper “JOY STICK”, one also equipped with controls to stimulate my intellect and my intangible nectar.
Hopefully, a woman can learn from a “bad boy” experience and move on. Many of these type of men have some discipline and search deeply for trust whether it appears that way or not. I don’t necessarily sense a “bad boy” when I meet someone I’ve always dated men at least 7 to 10 years my senior so I didn’t think he was a boy at all but as it turns out…however, I always had strength enough to gather my spoils and move to higher ground.
Regardless of the content you have great topics. Helps me identify things and continue to define my character. Peace!!!
Good dick plays a big part but to an extent. I had this cuddy buddy right with some bomb ass d!@k I told myself I wasn’t gonna get serious but the more we had sex the more I began to feel this guy I didn’t want to get serious cuz he was a player but I ended up falln hard. We over now but if he would of been bad in bed he would of been a one night stand lol so my point it…. Sex is what can keep a girl hangn around…. If the relationship would of been abusive I wouldn’t of stuck around fuck that ain’t no man puttn his hands on me without it bein foreplay…. Peace out!!!!
I know as a man I been on both sides of the coin. I done hooked a chick in and I been hooked (bad!!!) It happens but I’m only gonna deal with so much bullshit especially if the only good thing is the pussy. Females, and males to a lesser extent, be putting the blinders on cause of some sex. They be looking past shit that was obvious from the moment you met that person. I’m sorry, but ain’t too many straight surprises in any relationship. Females trip me out too with that going behind the back shit because if a man did it to y’all you’d be salty. but when y’all do it, it’s cool. You would think more “grown ass women” would state what they want and make it clear. but y’all know how y’all chicks love games and drama…
GOOD D*CK IS A HELL OF DRUG!! POW!
IF YOU OVER 30 AND YOU PAYING “GOOD D*CK” BILLS, FEEDING HIM, CLOTHING HIM, ETC…WATCH BABY BOY AND SEEK COUNSELING!! ALL YOU NEED FOR “GOOD D*CK” IS “GOOD P*SSY”…NOT YOUR PAYCHECK…HOLLA!
WONDER HOW MANY ESSAYS WILL BE WROTE TODAY? LMAO
OLU!! WHERE U AT?? LOL
JD, not to get to serious,but someone staying in an abusive relationship is something all together different. I am certified in DV counseling. On to the question at hand. I have to be honest, in my experience good dick is no readily available, sorry fellas but I gotta keep it real! So it can be a factor, but I guarantee I’ve got a plan in motion to get rid of the rat bastard that is not treatin me right in other ways.