WHAT HAPPENED TO REAL SONGS???

2 DAYS AGO ME AND B COX WERE TALKIN ABOUT R&B AND HOW THE ARTIST TODAY ARE SO STREET FROM THE LYRICS TO THE LOOKS. SO IT MADE ME ASK WHAT HAPPENED TO REAL SONGS? WHY ARE THERE MORE R&B ARTIST SAYING THE SAME THING AS THE RAPPERS INSTEAD OF TALKING ABOUT TENDER RONI, HOW DEEP IS YOUR LOVE, PIECE OF MY LOVE , FOREVER MY LADY, CRY FOR YOU, WHAT ABOUT US, LETS GET MARRIED ECT…… I COULD GO ON AND ON. WHEN DID THE R&B ARTIST GET FOOLED TO BELIEVE THAT YALL WANNA HEAR THEM CURSE AT THE CROWD, HOLD THEY DICK THE WHOLE SONG, LOOK LIKE RAPPERS 100 PERCENT AND SING ABOUT SHIT THAT’S UNROMANTIC. DID JODECI DO THIS ? I BELIEVE THAT WAS THE BEGINNING BUT WHAT’S FUCKED UP ABOUT IT IS,  THAT’S NOT WHAT JODECI WAS. JODECI WAS EVERYTHING PACKAGE INTO 1 THAT’S WHY WE LOVE THEM AND STILL LISTEN TO THERE MUSIC TODAY. BUT SOME WHERE IN BETWEEN ALL THE LEATHER PANTS, JACKETS AND TATTOOS NIGGAS MISSED WHAT THEY WAS SAYING; NIGGAS MEANING UPCOMING ARTIST. OUR TALK GOT DEEPER AND I CAME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT ARTIST OF TODAY ARE CONFUSED WITH TOO MUCH TOUGH GUY SHIT, IF YOU LOOK LIKE A THUG THEN YOUR MUSIC SHOULD REFLECT SOMETHING ELSE. IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT THE MOST SUCCESSFUL RAPPERS HAVE DIFFERENT LOOKS THAN THERE MUSIC. 50 CENT, JAY-Z, 2 PAC AND BIGGIE LOOKED NOTHING LIKE THE SHIT THEY SAY. WITH THAT BEING SAID I KNOW ITS ALOT OF UP AND COMING ARTIST THAT READ THIS BLOG SO MY ADVISE TO YOU IF YOU DO R&B IS KEEP THE 2 SEPARATE AND KNOW THAT SEPARATION IS GOOD.

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  1. i cosign with you my dude these niccas are trippin we need that true r&b back please somebody do something!!!!!!!!

  2. I’VE NEEN ASK’N MYSELF THAT VERY SAME QUESTION….AND I CAME UP WITH, EVERYONE WANT A SONG THAT BANG N THE CLUB LIKE THE RAPPERS SO THEY MAKE SONGS THAT SOUND LIKE HIP HOP SINGS. SO IF U SOUND LIKE HIP HOP U HAVE 2 DRESS THE PART ASWELL I GUESS. I REMEMBER GINUWINE DID A SONG WITH FAT JOE AND HE SAID HE WANT HIS MUSIC 2 BUMP N THE CLUBS LIKE FAT JOES SONG…PLUS EVERYONE WANTS 2 B HARD OR THUG.

  3. i totally agree. I’m a woman and i miss true R&B male artists. The kind of music that made u feel like the song was made just for you! people keep saying keep hip hop alive, i’m saying hell keep R&B alive!!!

  4. U have a very good point like Piles i love his music in all but the only thing he talk about is lucking pussy and fucking. The only really R n B singers 2 me is Usher, Trey Songz, Eric Benet, etc. Upcoming artist Johntay have a very good voice would love 2 hear more of him:)

  5. I GUESS ITS CALLED KEEP’N IT REAL……

  6. I’m with you 100% J.D. My son is a singer songwriter and producer…I feel he wont get the chance I know he deserves because these lil ladies want to be called something other than baby. If he tells them in lyrics how he can be a good man or even better how he’s not the man that hurt them, these woman and girls think that’s soft….. then they wonder why a brotha don’t know what ROMANCE is.

    So how about you send me a kite with info on how I can get you some of my sons work..He currently is enrolled at Art Institute of Atlanta for Video/Audio Production.

    My bad I amost forgot, you shouldn’t be cold with that big ole coat you have on…lol

    Shalla Thangs G-Bup!
    Gee

  7. Waajeed & Coultrain …http://www.freshselects.net/waajeedcoultrainnuggets tAKE a lISTEN

  8. I agree totally… R&B today is so much different from the way it used to be…. I grew up in the 90’s and the artist then I believe were the last of a dying breed of true soulful R&B artist….. I wish that I could really sing better so I could let the world know what true R&B is…..

  9. JD, I have felt the same way for the longest. My question is how many artist (rappers and singers) are doing it for love? Listening to the radio sucks. I have came to the conclusion that music has become a hustle and not love. I laugh when I hear rappers even say I am not a rapper. The music business has become money oriented and not love. I understand you go into for the money, but where is the love? Then you add the keeping it real to it, and it has went wrong. In my thought when some one says I am keeping it real or 100, I laugh. There is nothing wrong with being hood, but being hood will not get you taken serious. There is a place for everything, and we must learn how to act accordingly.

  10. I agree 100%.

  11. the labels is what happened dont play dumb and yaw only care what people look like especially females .its like fuck the talent what dem ass n tiddies doin. yaw the labels is wut happened

  12. I agree even their vocals its like that their not even trying how is it rappers sound like their singing

    There should be no comparison I loovve music I wish someone would get inspired annd just sing

    Sing something. Productive and true something that will make ur album a classic.

    They just don’t care anymore and their profits show this

  13. OMG!! I am glad somebody who is MAJOR in the industry finally said this. I was just going through my Ipod and realized that the only male R&B artists’ that is still around making the good stuff is Usher, Trey Songz, Musiq (and he don’t really count because he is Neo Soul) and oh yeah, Ginuwine is back out. JD yall hurry and finish Ushers’ album. I have gone all the way back to 1994 (I think that was the year), just to hear some good sh@$. 🙂

  14. I feel you and at the same time thats who the record labels seem to sign I don’t listen to the radio any more because alot of this mess being played is not worth hearing. I’m young but i listen to the early 90’s music on down female and male r&b artist are taken it to the far left!!!

  15. @ The Phoenix
    fa sho dat mama! ur speaking the truth right now!

  16. yeah, same thing I want to know. I was thinking about that the other day, listening to my mother sing Minne Riperton in the car made me wonder. Like this is a jam to her, from her younger days so when I get her age what song will I be singing while my child is in the car? Seems to me there will be no greater selection of songs about love making, and im so in love etc.. now it seems almost as if either one of two things [one] I will be adopting Marvin Gaye’s, Al Green, Minnie etc.. songs or for my generation a oldie would be Khia- All you lady pop that pussy. or Plies. I mean, Im anxious to see what music will be like when I get older. But R&B is on the backs of Trey Songz, Usher, Ryan Leslie, even Chris Brown if he ever gets his shit together. You brought up a good point.

  17. I feel you POSH that’s why ginuwine fell off for sec he trying to bump in the club dude that aint you. Some of his best hits were slow grinding music. I think that artist these days need to stick with what they know instead of trying to follow others BE YOUR SELF,(this aint twitter lol) and its not 100% their fault you got some record companies that try to mold an artist into what they want them to be. I understand your trying to make money and cater to whats poppin and selling but theres got to be a better way than selling out and doing something totally diff than what u represent.

  18. i feel u JD!… thats why ima make sure when i get my break in writing for artists ima keep that in my head..and write some real shit for real people….. thatz wat i do…i love dem back in the day r&b singerz… im going to help bring that back..real talk..

  19. u are right thats why the oceans crew is here to save r&b

  20. OH MY GOD…THANK YOU…4real…i been sayin this shyt 4 a gud minute now…like wtf happened to music period….but my rnb…my mom won’t even listen to shyt anymore she keeps it on the oldies channel n she never used to care bcuz she wud like sum of the songs…now a days you can’t do that shyt anymore…it’s all repetitive…i mean i luv tpain…but SHYT…theres only so much of the same FUCKIN thing that you can take…its not the autotone either…its the fact that all his songs r starting to sound EXACTLY alike…it was cool 4 a couple years, but now i’m gettin mad…my ass was born in 1991 and i styll got that 90’s rnb stuck in my head…new jack, jodeci, the era, the music, it was all so RIGHT…now it’s all so very WRONG…thank you for addressing this bcuz ppl were only speaking on the rap side of things but i see the change in BOTH…

  21. Wassup JD and B Cox……first in foremost I just want to say that I am officially a lifer. Keep up the great work!…and I love this subject being a HUGE fan of music….I do believe that alot of artist are afraid to do Real R&B becuase they feel that it wont sell…I think it has alot to do with just going with the flow…..Like I remember when gangsta rap came into the forefront with NWA…after that every rapper had to be a gangsta rapper…..and was afraid to be a different style of rapper (big up to Nelly for not following the trend)….I also beleive that it has alot to do with the song writers as well, not all artist write there music, (big up to you and bcox for always doing it real r&b)…..but there are alot of song writers out there who has that mentality going into a writing session too….

  22. Yo, JD i’m glad u touched on that shit. 1st off B Cox, what’s good? I’m out here in the H. Anyway, shit aint been the same since Jaheim and Tank hit the scene. Granted I like em both as artist, but when them niggas first came out I thought they were rappers, then they started singing. lol I think the real problem is, a lot of the younger artist don’t really remember when R&B was in it’s “hayday” so they’re only going off what they been seeing for the past 7 or 8 years. The solution: DO YOUR HOMEWORK! Go back and listen and watch videos of “the greats”: Silk, Jodeci, 90’s R.Kelly, Jagged Edge etc.
    Peace Out,

    Donnie P

    P.S. I’m trying to intern at So So Def, how can i get down? (please email a brother:[email protected])

  23. There are people and bands out there who still make very innovative and interesting music but they are not on the top of the charts. As far as real music goes there aint nun, thats y i still listen to old school music and Janet.

  24. i think its not being heard because nobodies taking no risk u kno i think theres good R&B music out there but theres just no balance bwtewwn the 2 like u got the thug luv and u got that ginuine honest good loving i guess young people dont want to hear about it because they think it doesnt exeit at this time and age u kno but some people know and if they cant find it currently well just go back to the classics lol

  25. let’s face it, there will NEVER be another Janet! people r too hung up on cars and hoes and shit

  26. I agree whole heartedly! R&B got lost somewhere along the way…Let’s Get Married is a great example of a song with positive lyrics of love but nowadays songs of requited love is not the norm. It’s all about the panties…There is a time and place for everything…Where are the gentleman of R&B??? The ones who know how to talk to and treat a lady??? What’s really sad is that a lot of the kids think this new stuff is the norm…smh

  27. Puffy marketed Jodeci to look like thugs so that guys would cop their album. A guys a guy, so some sensual guy stuff needs to come across to the females in the audience but I like the swagger of Kanye and Jay Z because they are GENTLEMAN. I don’t like thugs. Who’s an R&B thug these days? Not Trey, Day 26 or Robin Thicke they’re gentleman.

  28. I completely agree with you. I think some artists feel that hip hop/rap is more main stream and has a bigger fan base. By adding a little hip hop/rap element to their music, they could generate a larger fan base and increase their record sales. Personally, I love R&B and that’s the only type of music I listen to. Speaking from the listener point of view, sometimes I feel cheated because if I purchase an R&B album I’m not expecting to hear more hip hop; I’m expecting to hear real R&B. It seems like some artists have gotten lazy with their lyrics because some of the songs written have no real meaning to them or a real feel to them. There use to be a time when you could turn on a radio or listen to a cd and the song made you feel a certain way and made you think.

  29. No offense JD but wasn’t your artist, on your label that started and they quoted thierselves as being the r&b thugs? If I’m not mistaking it was Jagged Edge. You have a point though, too many r&b singers and acts aren’t doing like the jodeci’s anymore except for your boys Usher and Anthony.

  30. wasn’t it your group Jagged Edge, who called themselves the r&b thugs?

  31. It feels like Usher “Confessions” was one of the last true blue R&B albums and before that I can’t even tell you
    It seems like the music industry think we listen to rap all damn day. But my question to you Jd, is how are you going
    Shake up how R&b is being repped? You know damn well this industry is full of copycats! Put that ocean stamp on R&B. And I’m not talking about that JE and Ashanti type of song but that Trey Songz ”Last Time”.

  32. good poit WEFAMOUS and didnt jodeci beat women? mary?

  33. the blame shouldn’t be pointed at the artists but rather the executives in charge who refuse to allow any type of individuality in the music biz in this day and age….

  34. @Ty YES!

  35. WEFAMOUS, i don’t recall them saying that, but it may be true…yet the songs they sang were all about LOVE WITH A MORAL consciousness with it! from let’s get married to walked out of heaven! May have been a bad statement by them, but they were and lived truly R&B!

  36. The problem is these new artist don’t do their research and listen to old artist I’m talking Marvin, Luther, Smokey…the list could go on, they don’t know how to be a gentlemen and sing to the ladies, it’s only a handful and they dont get the shine that they should get. As for as group I havent seen one yet that had the ladies I’m talking grown ladies like myself 28 and up.

  37. Man that’s how I been feelin for the past 3 years there is no such thing as a cookie cutter artist you be yourself and bring what you have to the table cause only you can be the best you we don’t need two of the same things…. I’m with you JD ooh yeah and yo book was off the chain peace…

  38. I think alotta new artists, labels, and A&R’s are jus following tha latest trends in shit… the media tell em hip hop sells so they wanna look like rappers… jus look at all tha commercials on tv… they using rappers and hiphop to sell everything!!! atleast Usher never fell into that…

  39. I gave up on music a long time ago. Stanky leg…come on! I agree with Ty that labels are promoting the bullshit because sadly, that’s what sells. The movie Brown Sugar put it all on blast. No one wants to make good music anymore. It’s all about getting rich quick and getting as much ass and STDs as possible. The music and videos all look and sound the same. How many times can one make it rain on half naked women riding in rented cars? Really?

  40. yeah your right jD…
    so how about you and
    the Ocean boys change that!!
    bring that good music back!
    we need it…
    & as you know trends dont
    last forever! but good music does!

  41. i agree we need some real r&b music no sampling. something in the lines of THE O JAYS , MARVIN GAY,TEDDY PENDERGRASS,LTD SOMETHING.I WANNA BE HELD NOT SLAPPED AROUND.THEY DON’T NEED TO SOUND LIKE THESE ARTIST BUT MAKE YOU FEAL LIKE THEY KNOW EXACTLY WHATS GOING ON IN YOU’R HEAD OR HEART.

  42. The artists now are not thinking about being in love are singing about being in love, they just want to talk about how many females they have bashed, money and drugs, which is not consider real music. It’s the heart and the soul that is put in the music that equals passion and with that great music is made.

  43. There are so many points I want to address but I don’t know where to start lol.
    I will try to make a list ok so:

    1. Why can’t people adapt to change? Times are changing and so is music! Instead of trying to RECREATE what was done VALUE what was done and either adapt or listen to the old stuff.

    2. I believe the image and sound has changed because of the mentality of Black people nowadays. With this new found extreme Macho persona black men are supposed to have now you either make sure you make your songs more macho or you look and act super thug to reinforce how macho you are.

    3. I always felt that when white artist do the Real R&B thing such as artist like Justin Timberlake they get so much more praise than an artist like Usher or better yet Rueben Studdard!( CD was a fucking beast that was real R&B what happened to him….exactly)

    Have many more points but I gotta get to practice lol.

  44. If you like R&B check me out..

  45. JD welcome to the Microwave Age.Everything looks done on the outside but you go to stick your fork in and still undone on the inside. What i’m basically saying is no one to wants to take the time develop artist, song writer or producers anymore technology has everyone and anyone believing that he/she is an producer or artist and when it comes to songs nothing really has substance anymore and its sad. This is just my opinion but I believe that years ago the Exec’s and A&R’s who ran a majority of the record labels were former song writers,musicians and producers and they were choosing those incredible songs but you know have people who are picking records who shouldn’t even be working in the music business again just my opinion..

    Peace
    Marley

  46. I agree R&B music hasn’t been all that great in a while. You had some good artist here and there over the years but most of them were slept on because they didn’t personify the hard, hood, gangster trend. I can’t blame the industry without blaming the fans as well. The quality of music is just a reflection of what the fans want. So the blame is 50/50. The fan base of music has changed to the point where they don’t mind hearing shit that sounds just about the same. So why would a record label want to switch up the formula? Don’t fuck with the golden goose right? I miss love songs! The romantic kind of music you can play in the background when it’s time to seduce your man. Most of the time I find myself playing music that is considered old school when it comes to R&B. I mean don’t get me wrong there were some albums that had some cuts that you could get your back blown out to but what’s a few songs when you’re use to a whole album?

  47. Truthfully there’s an evolution that’s going on in R&B that in my opinion is a two-sides coin fueled by record execs and also those who aspire to be singers. On one hand one could say that times are different and so just as rappers draw from their lives so are these upcoming R&B artists. On the flip side however, there are record labels looking to incorporate hip hop into everything they can be it rock, country, etc. so now there are R&B artists being somewhat pushed into incorporating Hip-Hop/Rap into their music (i.e., I Am Not My Hair by India.Arie feat. Akon) for the sake of commercial appeal. Also if up and coming R&B artist recorded material lyrically reminiscent and similar to what Jodeci, Jagged Edge, Joe, Luther Vandross, Keith Sweat and even similar to Usher’s song “Here I Stand”, unfortunately they run the risk of being pigeon-holed as Neo-Soul artists. Sad to say too that when you’ve been stamped as a Neo-Soul artist the dollar for marketing and production etc. are much harder to get. Unfortunately Brandy’s “Human” CD (for example) which content-wise was phenominal was not well received partly among other reasons because it wasn’t a really hip hop-influenced project and more content driven. Somehow it’s now the new task and challenge to make real songs like “We Belong Together” and “Baby Tell Me The Way”–love that song Johnta, LOL–the aim of the up and coming artists looking for material for their projects and too make real money doing it with listeners dollar support. Thus making it possble for Hip Hop to co-exist with real R&B equally. It can be done; we did it in the 70s and 80s with Run DMC, LL Cool J, Beastie Boys and the Kurtis Blow etc. It’s just time to find balance.

    AND THAT’S MY 2 CENTS
    ER!C

  48. Man I totally agree with JD.

    But People complain about the shallowness of music today. Music ain’t like it was “back in the day”. Well part of the reason is that music is not received the way it was “back in the day”. No matter how “deep” any of us think we are, we still look at music more than we listen to it.
    I’ve grown tired of the misuse of the words “real” and “deep”. To me “real’ is whatever applies to you at that particular moment.

    But I think some artist are just to scared to be themselves and they way music is some folks just act like they don’t care anymore. To many artist come off to me like they just doing this for they money. I cant say theirs too many people that just do this for the love of music. It just pisses me that shit is just starting to sound the same

  49. THE BOTTOM LINE IS THAT THERE ISN’T ANY TRUE ARTIST DEVELOPMENT ANYMORE FOR ONE. ALSO THE LABELS ARE MORE FOCUSED ON MAKING MONEY INSTEAD OF PUTTING OUT A GOOD PRODUCT SO THEY GO WITH WHATS WORKING. THEN THEY TELL THE A&R TO TEAM PRODUCERS AND WRITERS UP TO MAKE RECORDS THAT IS CURRENTLY WORKING FOR THE NEW SIGNEE OR CURRENT ARTIST.

    PRIME EXAMPLE LOOK AT THE 2009 WHO’S LOOKING LIST ALL YOU SEE IS THAT A&R’S OVER PROJECTS ACCEPTING SONGS THAT IS CLOSE TO OTHER ARTIST TO ASSIGN TO THE ARTIST THAT IS LOOKING.

    THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER JODECI GROUP BECAUSE THE PARENT COMPANIES AREN’T SPENDING THE TIME TO DEVELOP A ARTIST TO FIND THE ARTIST WITHIN. ONCE YOU SIGN THAT CONTRACT ITS LIKE YOU BEING WHAT THEY WANT YOU TO BE

  50. I also think its SOME of the music Exec’s and A&R’s fault music aint what it was. The main problem to me is they suck at choosing the singles for their artist albums and the image that they make them become is just not real at all. They should really get some of theses really old dudes out and let some of us young folks come in and show that we know what we talking bout. Cuz the way the are marketing these artist today is crazy.

  51. I agree with JD. And for the up and coming artist the game is wide open. Usher shouldn’t have come out with his marriage, dude has lost a lot of his fan base. Chris Brown is going to college, dude already knows he is finished, they are not even playing his songs on the radio anymore. If a young guy around 17 or 18 comes out on that Bobby Brown Tender Roni tip it’s a rap….

    Yo I know at lot of singers and producers get on this web site. I think this is a great site for networking and for that I want to thank JD… WITH THAT SAID!!! It’s one thing to look at the life but its another to be apart of it. If you are in the Atlanta area and you PRODUCE or are a SONG WRITER let’s hook up. I have a full studio in stone mountain, check us out. http://www.2bold.com or check me out at http://www.myspace.com/darnik. I am always looking for great R&B artist!!

  52. I think there are some artist that do put out good R&B music but just don’t get enough support. Raheem DeVaughn, Robin Thicke, Musiq are some of the male R&B singers that put out good music and should get recognized for it more then they do. The only way to bring R&B music back to it’s roots is to starting buying music by artists that staying true to essecnce of R&B.

  53. Truthfully there’s an evolution that’s going on in R&B that in my opinion is a two-sides coin fueled by record execs and also those who aspire to be singers. On one hand one could say that times are different and so just as rappers draw from their lives so are these upcoming R&B artists. On the flip side however, there are record labels looking to incorporate hip hop into everything they can be it rock, country, etc. so now there are R&B artists being somewhat pushed into incorporating Hip-Hop/Rap into their music (i.e., I Am Not My Hair by India.Arie feat. Akon) for the sake of commercial appeal. Also if up and coming R&B artist recorded material lyrically reminiscent and similar to what Jodeci, Jagged Edge, Joe, Luther Vandross, Keith Sweat and even similar to Usher’s song “Here I Stand”, unfortunately they run the risk of being pigeon-holed as Neo-Soul artists. Sad to say too that when you’ve been stamped as a Neo-Soul artist the dollar for marketing and production etc. are much harder to get. Unfortunately Brandy’s “Human” CD (for example) which content-wise was phenominal was not well received partly among other reasons because it wasn’t a really hip hop-influenced project and more content driven. Somehow it’s now the new task and challenge to make real songs like “We Belong Together” and “Baby Tell Me The Way”–love that song Johnta, LOL–the aim of the up and coming artists looking for material for their projects and too make real money doing it with listeners dollar support. Thus making it possble for Hip Hop to co-exist with real R&B equally. It can be done; we did it in the 70s and 80s with Run DMC, LL Cool J, Beastie Boys and the Kurtis Blow etc. It’s just time to find balance.

    AND THAT’S MY 2 CENTS
    ER!C

  54. Music is reflective of the world in which it was derived from. If you look at black culture today, I mean what are we teaching our children? When R&B first started out, it wasn’t just about sex and love. Ray Charles, James Brown, hell even Michael Jackson, they spoke about real issues ongoing in the world. It was a chance to break down racial barriers, it was a chance to denote messages to people. When Ray Charles and James Brown were around in the late 50’s and 60’s, the United States was still growing. Civil liberties were still barred from blacks, and these current issues were reflected in the songs that they song b/c there was an authenticity within them. They spoke about life’s struggles. I think we as a culture have become fixated on the “fast life” and R&B as well as hip hop has been muddied down with materialism that was rampant back in the early 2000’s when our economy was actually good. In order to change how music is perceived, you have to change the values of the youth who are listening. And hell… the record companies need to evolve now. They’re not in it for creativity, they are in it to make a profit. And artists do not have the chance to grow as they did way back when.

  55. Another problem is that there is no balance in terms of the quality of music that is being played on radio and tv. I mean living out here on the west coast I rarely get to hear music from artists like Dwele, Eryka Badu, Bobby V., Pleasure P, Trey Songz just to name a few….

  56. visit http://www.LeVarThomas.com he writes all of his own music!

  57. Standing ovation and def encore 4 that 1 Mr.Dupree on Twitter the A&R convo was very true as well!

    I’m waitin 4 more of Ush, JLack(producer trackmaster), Brian M.Cox, Johnta, Ginuwine, Trey, Musiq, Avant and artists that truly dig n 2 ur soul with music making u fall deeper in love and with the possibility if u don’t have a special someone. The rhythm and sound that makes love 2 u with sensual, passionate flow. Yes I def agree and I’m craving that sound!

  58. What happened to the game is the lack of individuality Marvin Gaye never sounded like Steve at any point in his career. R&B-n-Hip-Hop (clones) It’s like the effect that New Jack Swing had on the entire music industry 9 outta 10 songs that came out in that period had the same drum track example: Boys II Men “motown phily” and ABC’s “playground”. People use to make music because they loved making real songs like the oceans crew. I also blame the company’s for accepting and instigating this crap from these artist. Perfect example: I’m sure Keyshia Cole’s company tells her all the time can you sound more like Mary J? That’s why people are so fascinated with 80’s music. There was a wide range of individuality in fact artist tried harder not to sound like everyone else. I’m sorry but until I hear a soul singer that touch me like Donnie Hathaway I will not be buying any R&B albums I’d rather buy the cd clone (bootleg) of these music clones.

  59. Shout out to A&R Chris he feels the same way I do!

  60. Good point. But what really is ‘real’ R&B? I grew up listening to Dru Hill, Blasktreet, etc. and I consider music around the 90’s to be ‘my version’ of real R&B.. because it’s nostalgic and it’s relatable to my upbringing. But I can remember people older than me who consider that type of R&B as garbage. The generation before me considered Stevie Wonder, Diana Ross as ‘real’ R&B.

    As far artists ‘dressing up for the part’ and to ‘act the part’. From the blog: “IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT THE MOST SUCCESSFUL RAPPERS HAVE DIFFERENT LOOKS THAN THERE MUSIC.” I’m not really sure what you mean by that? Last time I checked Tupac repped thug life from his music to down to his tats and baggy pants. He’s considered a legend in the Hip Hop community, and he did NOT look different from his music.

    Please clarify??

    RESPECT!

  61. I was thinking that hte other day…I am tired of being told how aggressively I’m gonna get fucked against a wall…I would love for someone to tell me that they just want me to be their “Sweet Lady”. Dudes these days think that all a woman wants is to be handled. Even though womens personality traits are becoming stronger we still like to be handled femininly (have no idea if that a word or not,lol) I write and I don’t like to go hard in every song…There’s still some pillowtalk that needs to be had…There will be alot more satisfied women if the R&B took things back and just focused on the RHYTHM and BLUES factor and not dabbling in HIP HOP just to get noticed and have “cross over” appeal…Everybody wants to do everything…The music industry has ADHD right now…It won’t “be still”…as soon as you hear a smoothe groove here comes a rapper trashing the song…It’s like people don’t want to be satisfied in their own category. They want to take all the shine and lose the quality in their music in the process…

  62. R&B MISSING some Keith Sweat, Jodeci,,LSG,R.Kelly,Silk,H-town,Shai, Jagged Edge needs to come bak with some more hits. shyt i was born in 89 and i remeber the good ol days with the good R&B. the 90’s was the shyt!

  63. i think real rnb is still out there you just have to look for it musiq lyfe USHER lol and many more rnb is still around some what i think music is going to go back to what it use to be soon it has to

  64. PS. I think there’s still some good quality R&B/Hip-Hop artists out there. A song doesn’t have to be in the top 40’s or even have a music video to qualify as good quality music.

    Check out some upcoming, or underground artists. The message isn’t gone- they’re still out there.

  65. I just wanted to say that the young people don’t know what real music and romance is. The don’t see people in positive relationships. There is no hand holding and claiming their women, their relationships is so hidden to have to assume who they are dating and get all messed up. The R&B singers look up to rappers instead of their counterparts. Also the labels also dictate how they look and they begin to play the role.

  66. I’m a songwriter and was just having a conversation with my girl about what has happened to R&B singers and why they are acting so hard nowadays. She kept brought up Jodeci and how successful they were…I was telling her the same thing you said and it was very refreshing to hear that ya’ll are thinking/talking about this.

  67. I don’t think that there is a shortage of real songs or R&B singers, but moreso that the general public doesn’t seem to care about it unless it’s coming from specific people (Beyonce, A. Keys, Ne-yo, and a few more.) Im an 80s baby, so I remember Sade, Keith Sweat, Jodeci, Guy, En Vouge. It seemed like people wanted to hear music that touched the soul. Music that made you laugh, cry, reminicse. Now people are more interested in everything but the music. As an aspiring producer/songwriter soon moving to Atlanta (shameless plug LOL), I think about where I need to take a song commercially which can sometimes put a damper on the creative process. It’s on some shit like do I make some real creative music or something that would sound hot on a ringtone? The game is in shambles right now, so alot of people are looking for a quik fix and not classic or even great long lasting music. So focus is not on artists who don’t have a quick hit. Just my thoughts…

  68. JD i completely understand where ur coming from with this, but cant u say that for a while yo boi Songz was the same way…….. i mean dont get me wrong, the niggas shit stay in rotation in my truck, but some of his underground shit is just like the shit that ur talking about.

  69. Preach, JD!!!!

  70. I think dudes are Homophobes and think if they don’t look gangsta dudes we will think they are soft.

    I miss me some lets get married remix. I am so going to have JE at my wedding god willing.

    Holla.

  71. I totally agree. Nico 90’s baby is right. There are a few “REAL” R & B singers out there, it just seems they can’t get the airtime they deserve.

  72. I completely agree with what you are saying JD. Even though I am young, I long for the days of the early 90’s when you had artists like D’angelo, SWV, Xscape, Jodeci, and etc. It was R&B with an edge. It had soul and heartfelt lyrics but it was paired with a tight beat to appeal to the streets. That is why I respect artists like Anthony Hamilton, Fantasia, Jazmine Sullivan, and the queen MJB because they are amazing singers that remind you of what real R&B is. Please work with more artists that are willing to keep this type of music alive and thriving. I love each and everyone of you Ocean Boys and keep up the good work.

  73. What’s up JD,

    I think that music died around 1999…lol! The truth of the matter is, is that we are not in control of what we hear on the radio anymore. A lot of the music we hear today is forced on us. You know it’s bad when R. Kelly isn’t “singing” anymore. People aren’t themselves anymore, and the lack of orinality does not exist in the industry. If it does, the artist is put on the shelf, or marketing lacks. Let’s be real, there are a million singers and songwriters that can bring back the true feel of R&B. For example, Johnta Austin…he has the feel of an old/new school “tell the truth” type of guy…but what happens? It takes forever for one to get an album (Been waiting since Dope Fiend). There are plenty underground music makers, but because the industry only wants bubble gum “last for a minute” singers and not longevity…the customers get crap. It’s almost like the automobile industry….what happen to the trucks and cars that last? They are not in production. Although there’s proof that these type of cars can still run….they insist on making crappy vehicles that last for 100,000 miles….i can go on and on, but until the music stops, and starts over….the universal peace keeper we call music, will cease to exist. By the way, im a singer and songwriter…and my whole dream was to be in the industry, but until im convinced that we can bring good music back…i guess i have no choice but to stay independent.

  74. ii totallyy aqree ; iim 14 andd ii qrew upp in dahh 90s andd im still listeninqq 2 dahh 90s. lolss ii listenn 2 somee now sinqerrss andd rapperss buht not alott .iits true thouu Most of the time ii turn on the radio and turn it riqht off ; finally someone from the industry feelss the wayy most ppl do !

  75. JD you just said it all. I couldnt agree with you more. Where is real rhythm and blues, thats what r&b is? Maybe we need to start saying the whole name to understand the meaning instead of just calling it r&b. I think r&b artist have gotten caught up in the title “hip hop r&b” and done took the “hip hop” part of it too far into the image. When was the last time we got some straight up pure rhythm and blues guys who not just melodically rapping on every song like its a damn hook on a Ja Rule single (No offense to Ja Rule). There are babies to be made, folk barely can find a damn wedding song now lol…Lyrics, content, image..gone.

  76. I get and understand this, we need to produce more lenny Williams and baby makers LOL. Let’s put the Nate dogs away. Guys have forgot or wasn’t taught that women love to be sung to sexily. Prince was killing the game,stevie wonder was killing the game and be was blind can’t even see a woman, but didn’t have to see women would drop drawers quickier for him than a master p singing ass clown. Ha

  77. i completely agree with you jd n b.cox! its not cool to hear an “R&B” record with as much cuss words as a RAP record, it messes with the image of R&B. Maybe its b/c sum of the rappers may not have done as well in the rap industry, n they feel hey y not try this R&B thing out for a chance. n they try to mix up both R&B and rap together on a song, just to keep that whole rap image but yet still have that R&B feel. its kinda like asking a guy if they like listening to R&B, most dudes r gonna say they dont. just b/c they may think there image might diminish.

  78. Well JD…that must mean that labels aren’t tryin to pick up the right type of artist to represent that genre of music…I’m R&B to the fullest…the real R&B that allows a 22 yr old to make girls his age and women 20 yrs older to have the same romantic feeling inside…REAL R&B artists trying to come up in the game are being overlooked because apparently that’s not what labels want…I’ve had 4 meetings with top labels in the past 2 weeks trying to get R&B singers and writers…they want me one minute, but then want me to change into EXACTLY what ur talking about…so it’s really ironic that ur talkin about this…I’m not discouraged that I haven’t been picked up yet or anything because I have a few more meetings left…but they all seem to be hesitant for some reason cuz i’m not gunna grab my johnson…

  79. I agree 100%. I think that the music world today relates more to the younger crowd who likes to hear that cursing and F**king songs. When we as the older crowd likes usher, brian mcknight, and so on.. There are a lot of good talent out there who has releases lik JOE for instance. But he don’t get the air play. You never see him on the grammys.. ..

  80. I agree 100% there are A LOT of R&B artist that are trying too hard to be rappers, but I think its because rappers are making a lot of ballads and they sell, so the r&b artists are looking at that like well shit if a rapper can go hard on a ballad why can’t I have that same success by sounding hard throughout my whole album. Idk though there are still some good r&b artists out there they are just rare to come by, or it seems like artists are becoming one hit wonders, they release a good single and then next thing you know you never hear from them again or the next thing they drop is mediocre.

  81. Jd, you are absolutely right. R&B is on a life support just like Hip-Hop. You can’t really blame it just one things, it’s alot of factors to blame. The Record Company executives, the artists and yes even us the fans. We are all to blame for how R&B is now but instead of complaining about it it’s time for the artists to stop FOLLOWING OTHERS AND STOP TRYING TO GO THE HIP-HOP ROUTE AND JUST SING R&B LOVE SONGS THAT EVERYONE CAN RELATE TO!

  82. I hate singers trying to be rappers unless they do throw in a rap like Trey Songz. Singers aren’t getting paid to be singers. Brandy’ “Human” was a great vocal and lyrical achievement but we rather be silly with a Beyonce album lacking soul and depth. Brandy,Monica ,Tamia, Shanice, etc awesome vocalists that connected. Now we want to see everyone dance. Like that’s what a Nely record is for to me. When I buy a singer’s album I wanna hear sanging. Bobby B danced too, Aaliyah danced but she sung about somethin she had soul in her voice as well. Tevin sang..only young male singers followin suit is Mario and Trey and they’re underrated.Mario’s “Go” was classic r&B to me and it went overlooked. But the “gimme that” artist was a success. It’s the fans fault. No way in the world “I am Sasha Fierce” deserved to sell more then Jazmine Sullivan or Brandy’s album..but it did. And fans will go “yeah it’s not the best but I like it.” What..stop settling for rushed mediocrity.

  83. I’M JUST GLAD I RECORDED OLD EPISODES OF BET’S MIDNIGHT LOVE. THAT’S LIKE A TIME CAPSULE ON VHS!!!

  84. Its a cultural thing with people its not just music.Everyone nowadays wants to be considered real or hard when most of them have no idea what it means.
    Real=TRUTHFUL,
    Not all this tony tuff guy madness.I personally know upcoming rapping and signing hopefuls that never seen any part of the streets but fill their music with nothing but street material.
    The industry has to make the wake up call and stop putting money behind every tom dick and o dog that has a so call hot record.
    Real gangstas are trying to run from that life while fake gangstas are running towards it.

  85. THE ONLY MUSIC ON MY IPOD IS R&B FROM THE 70,80,&90 AND MY SISTER JANET!!!!!

  86. I see what you saying JD, but I think music has definitely changed from the past..the audience prefers the faster swagga R&B cause its just cool like that…It shows that style is not only restricted to Hip-Hop artists…I guess it shows the versatility of the genre in a way. I still believe the slow jams are quite strong on many R&B albums, it’s just that they don’t release them as singles as often..because they don’t chart as well as that stylish Hip-Hop-like R&B…you get me? It’s the fans preference that made this type of R&B dominate the industry…I believe if more slow jams chart-top..then R&B will shift in that direction. It can be done, but it needs a big artist to do it….Usher can do it, he is the best…time to call him the Savior of R&B.

  87. Nuff Said…..

  88. JD,

    I think it leads back to lazy A&R people at the labels who don’t know always know how to put the package together for the label and executives unwilling to listen. The labels have had copy cat syndrom badly for the past decade. They see a formula for making hit records and with the rise of hip hop they focus on projecting that image to the public. The bottom line keeps looking good so they keep pushing the same edge. I can turn on the radio any time and hear Do the Stanky Leg but have to search to find Anthony Hamiliton or Jill Scott. I hope that on Usher’s new album there are some great love songs because he has a status in the industry that can help turn that corner back to real R&B. Music goes in cycles and the image now is to project toughness even if you are as soft as a fruity pebble. Real thugs don’t commit crimes and then sing about it on the radio. Real artist know that you cannot make money if you are locked up in jail.

    This is just the thought of dedicated music lover and listener who doesn’t listen to the radio anymore because honestly how much can I listen to rims, booty and beat yo ass tracks.

  89. yes so true, so tired of the Rap/Hip-hop influenced R&B, I understand to have it featured from time to time, but having it constantly is taking away from R&B.

    Usher, R.Kelly, The Dream, they keeping R&B alive in the male category….

    Mariah, Janet, Alicia… keeping R&B alive in the female category…

    but there are far more artist that are blending hip-hop/rap with R&B that the its like 98% Hip hop and only a splash of 2% R&B…

    I’m 21, but I feel so old cuz i listen to music mostly from 80s and 90s and always complain about how much I wish music would go back to being the way it was then or at least wish the artists keep R&B R&B, and Rap Rap..

    maybe they’ll read our comments and take it into consideration…..maybe :-/

  90. “It’s Time” we are getting back to the realness!! I feel it JD let’s Go!!!! Look at it like this we are your students and you have to teach us the past in order to preserve the future! I think you have it now. This is what your music industry family needs from you! We need you to speak on the music industry! Now is the perfect time. Just Let it Out JD! I love when you talk about the industry!! Im a fein for the knowledge.

    D.MAL
    The World Famous

  91. ‘preciate the truth in that blog…damn. Dave Chappelle talked about when keeping it reals goes bad…how about, keeping it thug gone bad. And pull your damn pants up niahs….that shit is played. By the way, have anyone heard that the home of the strip club, ATL, is having a U.S. strip-off competition. Only in the A. Now that’s funny!

  92. agree 100%….we need to bring back that 90s music and 90s sound back….. bring back the usher from 94-03…. haha…. ….great topic been thinking about this for a while

  93. what up jd i thnk ur right i do only think it just the artist i think it also the has to do with the people in the suits and ties how are calling the shots.Image wise r&b has become so bland 2 me. wat ever happen 2 people singing about being in love., when did people start think that r&b was so SOFT? I think there are glimmers of hope n r&b with the jazmine sullivan. dwele ,raphael saadiq ,angie stone, alicia keys jill scott, raheem devaughn. ledesi n many others who still sing great r n b without confirmin 2 lables etc! R n b and should stay in its own lane! thats wat made it unique n so cherished! Jus like some people say hip hop is so called dead i think the similar can be said about r n b to an extinct!

  94. I agree 100%. I been at this game for a minute and what sickens me to my stomach is music that lacks depth. We put image over real music, now I am not saying image is not important but what happen to REAL singers and rappers who spoke from the heart and was truly living what they talked about…Keep it coming JD!!!

    Check out “You Caught Me” PLEASE at myspace, you will hear the originality…Feedback is good from a professional as such…Your head will rock to Sly and I…

    LR

  95. The issue lies more with the record companies those saying yea or nay when it comes to some of these songs released. The bar has definitely been lowered.

    Off topic, even rappers should not be pacing the stage with their hand(s) on their crotch all the while yanking and squeezing. I don’t understand why it is even considered ok for rappers.

  96. JDDDDD MANNNNN…i cant tell u how long i’ve been bumpin u wayyy back since i was like what….7?? HAHA! anyway this is on a serious note, i feel ya persona and where ya comin from on this, u use to have da brat signed and she did big thangz..until her fallout, so ever since then MY opinion is there hasn’t been a female mc to just go and represent for so so def like she did. I’M it. If you put hard in WORK, which is what any dedication to rap and/or r&b is, in return you get hard FAME, MONEY, and LISTENERS. I have PLENTY of listeners down here in 817 DFW, up to Htown, I”m not like these other dudes AND females trying to “blow up” off the dance craze shit fam. If I don’t get the chance to talk with you here, best believe you WILL be hearing my name, my words, and my motivation in person when I take a trip to SO SO Def. I’m ready. And if you believe in doing big things, you will KNOW I’m ready, ask DFW about me, we all waiting on my big break. Much LOVE to my long respected producer, MR. JDupri himself.

    J

  97. dats is so true ..we need jagged edge genuwine ect dru hill boyz 11 men ect no love making music no more

  98. i heard that JD,,, man we gotta keep r&b how its been done from the issac hayes to the day 26 baby!!! i feel you big homie

  99. JD I agree with you and B.Cox the divide between Hip Hop & R&B is damn near invisible…like you said everyone wants to be so hard and love is so much deeper than that it has depth, layers, it can be soft & sweet or dark & painful that’s why there are so many songs about it because it evokes so many different feelings and emotions…we need the artist & writer’s of today to be different & unique take R&B to another level …take risk! Just like MJ, Prince, Sade, Marvin Gaye, Jodeci, Mary J, Maxwell, & Bobby Brown did in their day…they need to do like Janet and take CONTROL! We do have a few diamonds in the rough such as Alicia Keys, Jill Scott, Anthony Hamilton, Musiq Soulchild, Chrisette Michele, Usher, Beyonce, & John Legend but we need more! JD keep doing want you do, your such an INSPIRATION! Keep LTL!

  100. umm JD..are congratulations in order?

  101. I think that there are artists that have “Real” R&B songs, but that’s not what the market seems to be checkin for so it doesn’t get much play.It seems like nowadays if an artist doesn’t put out a club banger 1st and foremost then they practically go unheard, and with that said they probably feel that they have to look more street (because lookin like a gentleman doesn’t fit that vibe).
    How many Love Songs do u hear up in the club??????????? U look at everybody in the R&B & Hip-Hop genre’s and notice that if their shit ain’t gettin heavy club play, then they aren’t movin shit….that’s why real R&B ain’t sellin.

  102. I agree 110%. As a true R&B fan I find myself listening mostly to 90’s R&B (which I think was by far one of the best decades ever for R&B). I was driving on a road trip from Houston to Atlanta last week and as I was listening to the radio, I found myself thinking why aren’t there any slow songs on the radio anymore? What happened to the love ballads? Or hell even the babymaking music? Everything is club music now. I like to dance to, but I really miss the days when R&B wasn’t hip hop.

    Oh well, sticking it the old music in my Ipod until someone decides to bring it back.

  103. whatup jd. i didnt bother reading all the comments, shitd take too long. so i dont know if someone has already said what im gonna say. but i hope your ead my comment. cause good r’n’b is still out there. but its just not mainstream. its not all over itunes for ppl to buy, all over youtube. if you want real good r’n’b go djweetart.com. peep that shit. shes australian just like me. and she knows good music. hell you can get trey songz i need a girl song. and peep those ghostt boys, the songs selfish and foolish are the best ive heard in a long time. PEACE

  104. JD! Hold my mule, I’m about to shout! U cud not have hit that nail on tha head. I’m 25 (soon ro be 26 n april) and hate a lot of the music that’s out 2day. Its just stoopid and a freakn mess. Like seriously. I men yeah I have my days when I turn on my lil kim, JE, llcoolj etc. But that crap that’s out now is just that. Crap! Ill take janet, the emotions and luther any day…

  105. I agree with you. I love to listen to what is call throwback music, music I grew up listening too .On my myspace page I like to put my throwbacks (Jodeci, Mint Condition, Shai, H-Town, SWV, Xscape, Changing Faces and my oldies Smokie Robinson, The O’Jays, Blue Magic, Linda Jones, Mr. Luther Vandross, Teddddddddddy, The Stylistics,The Dells-lol “Stay in my corner ” etc, eventhough most of the oldies song was loooooooong but I understand why because it gave them the chance to rubba dube, express themselves, and hold each other close.). They dont even really slow dance anymore (“Hey Mr DJ Why dont you slow this party down…..slowjam”) and thats when you really can touch a person that you wanna touch without being disrespectful (like the oldfolks call it dry f???? with class lol).Please bring those type of music back.

  106. P.S. Romance the mind first before you bump and grind

  107. Thanks for posting JD. I am glad for your honesty. All I can say I know good music when I hear it. There are a lot of songs that have great beats, but the lyrics killed it, and I mean badly.

    It’s not just these genres, rock is not the same as well. Some of the bands sound alike. I love rock ballads. Does any remember Queen’s Bohemian Rhapsody? I don’t think you find rock bands who do ballads.

    Don’t forget After 7’s ‘Till U do me right’ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jLZt_PnocAY

  108. they definitely need to get on the level of songs like “All My Life” that song is beautiful ~JP…LIFER

  109. JD, you definitely picked a topic close to my heart. Have you heard Babyface’s new song about love songs? Anyhoo, I don’t even listen to the radio anymore. You can’t tell me you want to stab, cut, hit, nor pound on me and expect to make it rain. I bruise easily and those terms inflict pain yet too many women especially young ones cream their thongs when some thugged out rapper or singer says them. They’re too distracted by the tattoos and muscles. I like them too but how you speak/sing to me is even sexier. We’ve lowered our standards as women and as a people in general trying to keep it hood, keep it “real”. And it’s young women that keep these hard ass songs in heavy rotation. Listen to who’s blowing up the request line. Young Women. There wouldn’t be videos like Tip Drill (sorry JD) if WOMEN decided to keep their damn clothes on and use their asses to sit on and not for ATM deposits. Once Strip club culture and porn became more mainstream in music and videos, love was forgotten. Bend over ‘ho show me whatcha working with and we did.

    Secondly, we’ve allowed everyone to define for us what real R & B music is and we created it! There really isn’t Neo Soul its just Neo Artist aka new artist. Back in the day, Jodeci had just enough thug appeal to make us damn near forget about Boys II Men. But lyrically them church boys from Charlotte, NC, were on point with expressing true love…Those Al B. Sure produced tracks, Forever My Lady, Cry For You, Come and Talk To Me are classics…And then their wedding song, All My Life, was a major hit. Fast forward to Maxwell, Jaheim’s “Just in Case”, Robin Thicke, and Prince always knew the deal. Seduction, sex, and love all played together in his music. Now dudes don’t treasure the gift of a woman’s body.

    But somehow with so much going on culturally the music changed. Rap traded its soul for bling, , R&B became infused with Hip Hop lyrics that often didn’t complement the song, and the theme of love got lost in the shuffle unless a young female artist was whining about losing it. So it’s not just the labels, the DJs, the radio programmers, it’s ALL of us.

    Where the culture goes, the music will follow. Check our history. So where is the love? Go back and pull out your Robert Flack and Donny Hathaway ’45 and you might find the answer.

    Follow me twitter.com/hollywoodlvwork

  110. how about Jd never type in all caps again… that shit was like playing concentration.

    but i agree. wholeheartedly. yeah pretty much u said it all. it is what it is.

  111. JD, I agree with you 1000%.

    and

    LMAO!! @ mimi’s comment

  112. ill have to agree with u jd and ur right on the mark Ellenoir1.

  113. I think a lot of what is happening in rap is somehow affecting rnb…because like JD was saying about the new rap generation not being able to see the kings of hip hop doing they thing…most up and coming people don’t pay homage to the generations that made it possible for them newcomers to get on in the first place…..bottom line the old saying is true…..u can’t know where u going, if you don’t know where you bin..

  114. First, the music biz is jus that….business. The artist that are out now and that are trying to be heard are not signed to their own label for the most part so in a way its not completely their fault bc other people are in charge of their careers so to speak. Also, most artist don’t write their own songs and even if they did its ultimately up to the record company what’s released or put on the cd (unless the artists are legendary or atleast have a few good selling albums. And second, I feel that its a new era/generation and the generation now have been raised different. Male rnb artists don’t have real “men” as role models are therefore don’t really no how to express feelings bc to them being a man is about being hard and fuckin a different chick everynight. So, until song writers, record labels, and artists realize that the same shit is on the radio daily then all we have are the classics!

  115. The male R&B game has been in a lyrical recession for quite some time now.
    u dead right JD . …tattoos, sneakers, jeans…… u see more rappers wearing suits than R&b singers.
    i think this may have stemmed from when the singer feat. rapper songs took over. its all about sales and capturing that wannabe type audience.
    i mean we got kids out here probably fucking to pretty ricky. i say its insecure boy meets insecure girl. the more u disrespect her the more she’s gonna love u and the cooler u look to other guys and girls w/ low self esteem. they have nothing else to offer or admire. and they love that shit. so cha ching. i mean its one thing too sing about wanting to making love to some girl that makes u forget ur name and fucking the dog shit outta some pretty/insecure /half drunk chic with a big ass that u met in the club. so after all the unwanted calls, busted windows, slashed tires and trips to the free clinic… the good music will take over again. but when?. i mean like back in the day when everbody out was putting out good shit. they spending too mich time singing to dem hoes ’cause there easy. dats dat wannabe shit not the grown man shit. guys don’t pour their hearts out anymore. even jodeci did that.u know first its gonna be the beat then the lyrics will get u but also his voice has to captivate me. yeah i need a new R&B man.
    i need that …
    Can we
    climb the mountain/top screamin’ ecstasy
    We so high up on this love/we reach the peak
    We ain’t never coming down/ baby
    keep makin that sound …
    thats what i’m talking about baby!

  116. lol @ mimi

  117. I think alot of too has to do with how our society feels about sex. We have become a sex saturated society, from commercials to billboards to songs to tv. And so it reflects in our music. Like love doens’t matter anymore. That it is just about what feels good and how quick you can get it. Like a drug. So the romance is gone, and the commitment is gone, and the finesse is gone. And when you speak on love and romance it makes people also remember that with that comes the potential of being hurt and so with everything else that we are dealing with as people we shy away from anything that might cause more pain, work, or energy…I.E. Love, Romance, Commitment, etc. And we take the easy route…your sexy, your fine, let’s have sex.
    Jodeci and that generation of singers talked about sex…BUT it was often protrayed in a monogamus light. Forever my lady, Anniversary by Toni, Tony, Tone, Boys to Men, etc.
    And slowly rap creeped in and RB was pushed back, because Rap was saying something we hadn’t heard, but with that came alot of misguided views on sex and love because most of those cats didn’t have an example of how a man should love on a woman and vice versa. ANd it became SEX, SEX, Violence, and MONEY, and Sex, and MOney, you get the picture.
    This is why R&B singers like Anthony Hamilton, Raheem DeVaughn, J. Holiday, Eric Benet and Johnta are important. They sing about more than just the sex of the relationship, but the love of it, the commitment of it, the working through it part….Can’t Let Go by Anthony Hamilton, Woman and Mo Better by Raheem Devaughn, Pimp in Me and I Know Lovel by J. Holiday, Joy by Johnta…all of these songs mention the sexual part but in the context of the love and romance of the relationship.
    Here’s the problem though…MOst of these songs don’t get spin s on the radio and the ones that do are only on the so called mature adult stations. So this generation never gets to hear them UNLESS Momma or Auntie or Daddy are playing them….
    How do we change that JD?

    JUst my $.25…LOL!

    PS WHAT THE HECK HAPPEN TO MAXWELL? Somebody go find him!

  118. Good music is still out there. The labels just need to look for it. Google “LeVar Thomas”

  119. I am a young dude, 25 to be exact, but I have an old soul. I come from an era where people love gangsta R&B artists (if that’s what you wanna call them) but no one appreciates real singing or real soul music anymore. JD I think you and B Cox hit the nail on the head, when listening to R&B music, we don’t want to hear the same subject matter that the rappers are talking about. Artists like Anthony Hamilton, Raheem DeVaughn, Johnta, and a few others are essential because they keep the whole perspective of what R&B is supposed to be about. Its about story telling but story telling that allows for the listener to feel it in their souls. I guess I piggy back this off of another comment that you made JD, in order for R&B singers to be relevant to me, they have to know of the artists that paved the way, like the Sam Cookes, the Al Greens, and even further back, the Etta James, the Ella Fitzgeralds, the Sammy Davis Jr. They have to understand what they did so that they can build on that and move forward. Everyone wants to be in the game to get the dollar, and that’s good, but the essence of R&B has to be remembered. Just my two cents. Take Care

  120. Tagore57 and ellenoir1 preach!!! lmao@nanaberri saying more rappers are wearing suits than R&B singers! I was thinking about this last night on the way home and for the most part, I stopped buying music a while ago except for a few new artists here and there…I just wasn’t inspired by a lot of the new stuff on the radio. Like many of you mentioned, they don’t play the good stuff on the radio and depending on where you live, some artists get no love on the radio at all. It’s very sad but after reading many of your comments, I was inspired to purchase some music last night…there are still a few good ones out there but you can’t look to radio or the mainstream media to hear any of the good stuff…

  121. YEA I AGREE 100 PERCENT, THERE WAS A POINT WHEN R.KELLY WAS GOING DOWN DAT CKUFD UP ROAD TOO BUT DAT DUDE KNOWS HOW TO BOUNCE BACK TO THAT REAL R N B, GOT RESPECT FOR HIM ..the only rnb group whom i think is still holding it down is JAGGED EDGE them niggaz luk nothing like da shit they say… man how i miss 1990’s r n b i’m talkn SWV “WEAK” AALIYAH “BACK AND FORTH” MJB “REAL LOVE” TLC “CREEP” SHIT HOW THE MIGHTY HAVE FALLEN!!!!! oh yea and JOE still got it on lock down. J.D THANX FOR POSTING THIS CAUSE I REALLY THOT SOME PRODUCERS DON’T EVEN DISCUSS SUCH THINGS ANYMORE

  122. Okay I’m gonna try to put this in a way that i don’t think anyone else has yet. And If you have I’m sorry maybe i shoulda read all of the post instead of just a few… But it’s like this… There are some songs out that we as artist, producers, consumers, (or whatever else you wanna call yourself) can rock to such as Sammie’s New Song “BodyRock” or Jarvis’ new song “She Da Best” or even Lloyds new one “I can’t Wait” but there are few to no singers making music that gonna out stand their current album and that’s problem. What I think is missing is a sense of Longevity we as artist are only thinking about the here and now and not if people are gonna go back to that song and be like “Oh wow that’s my Jam” and know every word.
    Like if you go back to Marvin Gaye when he sings “Let’s Get It On” he’s singing about a love between 2 people and not just having sex which is what most songs are talking about today. Like one of the other comments Anthony Hamilton, Raheem Devaughn, Musiq Soulchild, Ginuwine, Eric Benet, all think of song that have something to say some of the new artist (not necessarily any of the one’s i’m talking about above) only have a couple things to say “hey your cute”, “Hey let have sex” and that’s all well and good but you gotta have something that is gonna outstand your career…
    Let’s Go back to Gerald Levert, Marvin Gaye, Luther Vandross, these three artist are unfortunatley dead and gone but i bet you can play one of there songs and it will explain or help explain what you are going through today and they were written, performed, already gotten royalties from, possibly still getting royalties from and it describes what you are going through today. When Anthony Hamilton sings “I can’t Let you Go” it’s saying I need to have you in my life, no matter what’s going on… If i lose my money, house, cars, friends… I still gotta have you… When Musiq Soulchild sings “Love Of My Life” he sings about losing cars, body parts and still living but if he loses the love of his life he can’t live that’s deep that’s the kind of love that most people strive for but never find…
    So you ask “What Happend To Real Songs” My answer is that the artist lost that idea of being around for a long time and having fans that know every word to their songs even after they get out of music or unfortunatly die… But that’s just my 2 cents…

  123. Oh and sorry if i sounded like i was on a couple different pages…

  124. JD, Maybe you could try and organize a show that would be a forum true R&B artists to be heard. Like a Gentleman’s tour? You know for the ladies…An event where folks can dress up and go out for an evening of romance with various artists. I’m sure it’s easier said than done…just an idea. It doesn’t have to be in a huge venue either. Something small and intimate would be nice. What do you think?

  125. Here is the bottom line. Male R&B artist have to give an illusion to the female public that they can be theirs. That is why Usher messed up coming out with his marriage. Those girls that looked at him as their boyfriend or future husband no longer see him like that. Chris Brown messed with his core audience, how many guys you know are rushing out to get a Chris Brown Album.

    For the young people, they need a who new face for R&B, but if JD slept on Ludacris and so many other talented people in Atlanta do you think he will be the one to find the new one? He might, if someone has their BDS report looking good!! I can’t wait to see what So So Def does with Deondra. All them other artist that JD signed to Def Jam are looking crazy right now!! SPOCK

    Shout out to Bonecrusher, I was at V-103 with him yesterday… He keeps is real!!

  126. I agree with you. I love to listen to what is call throwback music, music I grew up listening too .(Jodeci, Mint Condition, Shai, H-Town, SWV, Xscape, Changing Faces and my oldies Smokie Robinson, The O’Jays, Blue Magic, Linda Jones, Mr. Luther Vandross, Teddddddddddy, The Stylistics,The Dells-lol “Stay in my corner ” etc, eventhough most of the oldies song was loooooooong but it gave them the chance to rubba dube, express themselves, and hold each other close.). ( Romance the mind first before you bump and grind).Slow dancing dont really occur in the clubs or at general parties anymore(“Hey Mr DJ Why dont you slow this party down…..slowdance”) and thats when you really can touch a person that you wanna touch without being disrespectful (like the oldfolks call it dry f???? with class lol). However there are some music thats out now that are good like the ol days but it does not get alot of exposure, and alot of politics with that consisting of the labels, the artist themselves and the public. Therefore please try to bring back the oldies and throwback type of music, back.

  127. I agree. There is no romance, chivalry, courting, and love in music anymore. There’s no more “baby-making” music. Most artists don’t pour their hearts out. It’s all about the one night stands, cheating, clubbing, alcohol, blinging, and stripping. I don’t even listen to the radio any more. We make our own music in the lab and I listen to that. Hip Hop isn’t the only thing dead, MUSIC IS DEAD!!! It’s rare now a days to find good music. After a while you get tired of listening to the same song over and over. I’M OVER IT!
    Sorry…
    ~Chynna~

  128. Yeah, I loved the R&B from the 90’s… R&B today, sounds the same… But I know and hope for better music to come, because there are lots of “unknown” artist out there. Like a paint brush is to a canvas, so are words to a song. They work hand in hand. Artist need to find a way to grab their audience, and use what they go through everyday, as a story. Enough of the blah blah blah’s that we hear on the radio everyday. Bring back the real music! I’m talking about the kind of music you listen to all day and everyday… and never gets old because there is a story in that song that just touches your soul. If only people would just *be themselves* and not adjust to what everyone else likes (which is crap), then maybe songs will have meaning and more people will relate to it. I mean, how many times do I hear songs about cars, money, and the other blah blah blah’s aka same topics? Even the R&B music sounds the same today, but I wont go there. I know there is an artist out there somewhere, that can breathe life back into R&B. I don’t think R&B is dead today, I think the words in a lot of songs have no meaning (its just a nice beat, with no story). Words can be powerful, but until we find someone who isn’t afraid to be who they are, then music will be like a blank tape that sounds the same every time you play it. In other words, music will die, and we will have to listen to BLAH BLAH BLAH’s until someone comes and brings back “the good stuff” in R&B music.

  129. The real love longs…. In order for us to have some real love longs peoples view on love must change. It’s viewed very differently now and that’s mainly because it seems that ROMANCE has died. To me the romance is the essence of a real love song. Dudes don’t know what it is to romance their lady anymore. It’s all about trying to get it in then what!!! What happened to knocking her off her feet making her feel like a woman. ROMANCE…. theres none. I’m not trying to knock your boy….JOHNTA. Look how you dudes talk about women. If a chick have a couple of drinks ON YOUR DIME. You expect what!!! Come on you really know what’s up… When brothas start feelin that love and start romancing their women then the real love ballads will start to come because it would be effortless to write. Right now all they could write about is the skeeze they picked at the club or bar last night and took to the tellie.

    Brothas I’m not downing you because my sistas make it too easy. You guys can only do to us what we allow. So when my sistas stop being so open, relax , and get to know a brotha then maybe we can get to see that other side of a brotha. Then maybe that element of courting, dating, romancing would find its way back to our ears.

    **Missy B**

  130. Ladies would LUV some romanctic R&B ,JD I think some artist and men feel that showing sensitivity is a sign of weakness its like protray hard at all times but women luv romancell

  131. I agree with you JD. Right now the R&B music is a lot like hip hop. I agree with what someone said above. They want a song that’s gonna bump in the club so they turn to do what the hip hop heads are doing. Which is so not cool. I want to hear some “Let me love you down”, “Tender Roni”, “Every Little Step”, “If it Isn’t love”, “Cry for You”, and “Promise”. Not no “Beat, Beat”, and whatever else some of the artist are coming out with today. That’s why Johnny Sinatra (Johnta), and The Lite (Usher) need to come and save the day. There are artist out there that still have good R&B music, but they just don’t get the recognition like the other artist. Like Raheem Devaughn, 00711(Trey Songz), The Lite (Usher), Ryan Leslie, John Legend, and NEYO just to name a few. I think that Diddy is trying to take Day 26 in the right direction, and I think they will be successful because of it. Good music will come back to us one day.

  132. I blame it on the industry (not the alcohol) lol…but in all actuality theres a cookie cutter effect in the industry now to the point that its not about talent. Its like R&B acts have to have that tripple threat and if they dont their music wont get played…Now with the content of the music, I feel that goes deeper than this conversation. That kinda correlates to something far to left like why kids fight and their parents back them up. Parents arent being parents, neighborhoods arent raising kids, its weird. But I think all that kinda stuff eventually trinkles into music and the bullshit we hear.

    _PHX_

  133. well im reading what everyones saying and i feel the same way about it-where is the real r&b only difference is im a artist and i do r&b but when i do it, it actually sounds like real soul and has a message behind it, im not trying to front for anyone, or portray a fake image and make music just so you can dance, i make music so that when you listen to it, you look over at that one you love and tell them how much you love them and kiss them right there on the spot,all music i write is based on real life situations, but every good artist has to sometimes fabricate the lyrics to touch the hearts of listening artist, its not all about sex, can we just lay here and hold each other.thats what im about.

  134. @ Tagore57: Maxwell is putting out 3 albums for the next three years and I think he is going on tour. He’s still around.

    Here is his myspace page: http://www.myspace.com/maxwell

    http://www.musze.com/

  135. Jermaine, I think the biggest misconception artists and labels today are making is to think that all the public want is street records with electric shit flying around, and when the public doesn’t support that kind of music the labels are so quick to blame it on downloads e.t.c.

    Look, I was listening to Usher’s “Burn”, “You Got It Bad” & “Confessions” the other day it struck me how “simple” those records are.
    They are just straight to the point, they are not trying to be something they’re not.
    It’s like you guys used 5-7 instruments on each track, and that’s enough, it leaves space for Usher to get the message across without electric shit flying around and disturbing the harmony.

    What I want to say is that it doesn’t matter if you today drop a record that sounds like it’s 10 years old, the importance of a GREAT track weights more than it must sound “current”. (Loudness war is killing that shit also Jermaine)

    Artists today are afraid of being themselves, so they try to be product, not a person with a soul.

  136. R&B is a main ingredient to our culture. It has it’s own language and image. It can touch your mind and soul. It explains things when a person can’t think of the words to say. I am a YouTube junckie and was going back to Guy, Jodeci, and Keith Sweat, did it bring back memories for me. When R&B speaks to me it can make me happy, soothe my pain, make me want to be in love, or even put me in the mood!! Music that use to make a woman feel good to be loved by a man and a man by a woman. We have artist out here that we as the R&B community need to hold on to and embrace. We also need producers that want to continue to bring us this kind of music…point taken B. Cox has a song called “All I want is you” that I found on YouTube that I can’t stop playing! R&B is here but everyone just want embrace it!!! I am still holding on!!!!

  137. I co-sign. I’ve been saying this for days, to people, around this blog, etc etc.

    Seriously. Anything to make that quick paper I guess.

    Remember Sweet Lady by Tyrese, or Angel of Mine by Brandy… All those songs you listed! Jagged EDGE: They can really speak the truth about a lot of relationships through a song, that people who go through can’t put on paper…, Genuwine: I think he can back, but no one really checked for his song, omg. I agree though JD!!!

    Even Johnta’s stuff sounds more r&b than anything out there. Ne-Yo, he brought some r&b to the table, but most of his stuff is mixed with pop, but atlease he wears a suit to perform and doesn’t have pants hanging off his assssssssss.

    R&B has changed for the worse. When willl it ever come back?

  138. Also, have you guys heard Craig David”s version of Nice And Slow?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNmJLFwt-28

    Listen to it.

    People do not sing with the same passion anymore, with all the affects, and just straight passion for music. It’s all money. But atlease Craig David is still real.

    Record labels definately pimp some of these artist. If this new wave of r&b was never introduced, and we were forced to love baby making REAL music, then we wouldn’t have to rely on auto tune and pop/rnb, rock/rnb, rap/rnb.

    But people this generation 2000s and up dont know what REAL r&b is, whatever the definition for real music is anyway..

  139. And another thought, people don’t even sing passionate LIVE anymore during promotion. It’s more like a JOB to them, something they do for the money, and that kinda stuff really doesn’t draw an audience..

    Take a look at some of the performances from back then. And seriously, Craig David kills it liveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Go YOUTUBE his old stuff folks. Musiq Soulchild, man…

  140. passionately** sorry for the spam. No one is checking for good vocals either.

    PS: Maybe there needs to be a I NEED A GIRL PT 3 Feauturing allllllllllllll the old rnb artist that everyone here has mentioned. They all need to be on the same song together, make it a hit, then they need to start releasing their own stuff after their well established hit!

    Maybe another Usher ft Monica Slow Jam, some Tamia OFficially Missing You, talking about this really pissess me off because I love r&b.

  141. The biggest problem is, A&Rs, DJs, etc. tell R&B artists that in order to get a street buzz, they MUST have a song bangin’ in the clubs, and in order to get a R&B record played in Atlanta, it has to be a “party” record (it MUST have a hip hop feel to it). Trust me, I have a record label, Reign Check Ent. and we hear this ALL the time. The R&B group signed to my label is Next2U, the group has CLASSIC R&B records like “Lover’s Lane” but the DJs will only spin Next2U’s hip hop songs like “The Baddest” or “Dip It Low”—–if you listen to Next2U’s music, you’ll hear what I am talking about (myspace.com/reigncheckent) It seems as if R&B artists are in a losing battle!!!!

  142. watch out for james fauntleroy. he is the biggest writer in the industry. he is a lyriqal beast – a MONSTER !!!!! He is the definition of doin cool R&b – Ginuwine is the shit, too. His album would be so great. and dont forgot day26 !!!! they are on a high level at moment! Okay the song u did with them is crap but their single & songs like “get away girl” & “the truth” are crazy!!

    go back 2 real rnb.

  143. Yes, I agree, you’re part of the problem, aren’t you? You have not made “real” music in years….

  144. First I would like to thank you and the OCEANS for bringing the genuine class back of a man in a suit. I love that all of you have taken the suit and embedded your own personalities. Johnta you kill me with the gloves, JD and the Ditta’s, Usher a classic well fitted Dawn Haynes gentlemen and TY the tuxedo shirt makes you sexy and quirky. With all of that being said I wish I had a “SLOW SONG” I remember the days when the last 20 minutes the deejay would spin “Let’s Chill”, “Just Me and You”, “Cry for You”, or anything KEITH SWEAT :). I think we lost the slow song somewhere in between 91-99 we had classic songs and artists Aaliyah (RIP), XSCAPE, JODECI, RKELLY, KEITH SWEAT, MINT CONDITION, HI FIVE, Total, FAITH EVANS (classic slow song album. MJB, SILK (OMG SILK), JOE and BLACKSTREET (many more too!). I think when we ladies started getting compared to “Jeeps” and accepting “Feeling on your BOOTY” as a romance instead of invasion we started losing our way. I must admit I own R-Kelly’s records and they remind me of jr. high and high school but these songs stopped telling us “Let’s wait a while” and “funny how time flies” (Love me some JJ) take some time and really listen to the lyrics. I think the last great Rand B group of the 90’s was BLACKSTREET proof is in their debut album. JD I do hope that the Ocean’s 6 will bring back the slow jam …. Cause I’m ready to get loved not GROPPED!!!
    Love and Light,
    Shawanna “JETTE” D!
    (XO to Johnta and those sexy eyes 🙂 )

  145. JD!

    I really believe that in this age and time the general music buyers aren’t into true R&B singers. In the 90’s and before the listening audience was much different. Today it seems to be all about a gimmick. Not to knock anybody that is doing the damn thing but where is the true craft? Alot of people ask where are the true singers…they ARE out there but people aren’t looking for them. True singers aren’t getting signed cause record companies don’t know how to market them!! And when a company actually brings out a TRUE singer with good material there is NO promotion and they are barely heard from again. So my question to you JD is HOW can this be changed?

  146. We as listeners, artists, producers etc… We are the problem and the answer. We know and trust our instincts, the issue is that radio has become a corporation owned by a certain entity in which we as listeners are force fed music that we don’t initially like but because of repetition we find ourselves giving in to temporary jingles. The change in music will come when we except that change should happen now. Right Now! Every one who commented on this page has an intimate concern about today’s music. We collectively have an oppurtunity to support true music wether R&B or Pop. Lets stop complaining and support a unified effort to save the music! Real Music!

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