TALK TO ME!!!!!
I WAS IN MIAMI THIS PAST WEEKEND AND YOU KNOW WHEN YOU WALK AROUND PEOPLE WANNA TAKE PICTURES. I’M COOL NO PROBLEM, BUT EVERY TIME I TOOK A PICTURE WITH A GIRL OR GIRLS THEY ALWAYS HAD SOMETHING SLICK TO SAY LIKE “HIS GIRL GONNA BE MAD YOU ALL OVER HIM LIKE THAT” AND HER FRIEND REPLIES “WHAT SHE DON’T KNOW WON’T HURT HER”. “HOLD ME TIGHTER LIKE YOU KNOW ME”, SO MUCH SLICK SHIT IT BROUGHT ME TO THIS. IF A GUY WAS TO FALL FOR A GIRL THAT SAID SOMETHING LIKE THAT TO HIM, WHAT MAKES HER THINK THE SAME THING IS NOT GONNA HAPPEN TO HER?? #2 QUESTION DO WOMEN EVEN CARE ANYMORE THAT A MAN HAS A GIRL?? TALK TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I think women dont care anymore. it’s like women are attracted to men that have a girl already. There are a select few that realize it, but very few..
JD, Girls are thirsty! They think that saying those things will make them more attractive…like they’re bad girls and can get away with anything. Guys and Girls alike seem to have lost respect for what being in a relationship means.
Naw they don’t care! There is a whole new culture out there that has faulty morals and weak character. The days of men and women caring and respecting another persons commitment are about over. It is sad, but true. With that said, those out there with morals, have to be even more careful because there are some THIRSTY people out there that don’t care about anyone but themselves.
What guy would fall for that type of woman/girl anyway. My mother always told me that the same way you get a man is the same way you could lose him so I would never approach a man in that manner. So I guess my answer to the second part of your question is yes women, some women, still care.
SOME WOMEN DO, LIKE MYSELF, BUT OTHERS DONT! JUST HOW THE GUYS THAT WE DEAL WITH ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS DONT REALLY CARE IF WE HAVE A MAN OR NOT! JUST LASTNIGHT, THIS GUY WAS SO SERIOUS ABOUT ME GIVING ME HIS NUMBER HE DIDNT EVEN ASK MY NAME, AND THE FIRST THINK I ASKED WAS, DO U WANT TO KNOW IF I HAVE A MAN OR NOT, OR U JUST DONT CARE? HE REPLIES, “HONESTLY I REALLY DONT CARE…” WOWZERS.. NOBODY, I MEAN NOBODY, CARES ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS ANYMORE!
Females like that are immature and lack self-respect. You can expect to lose a man in the same manner that you got him if it was on some shadiness. Real women do not behave this way, but females who do not know who they are do. It’s just sad that it is easier to find these immature females than it is real women who have self-respect and respect other people’s relationships.
i’m sure since that’s already her mentality, she shouldn’t have any expectations, but it’s up to her man how he wants to play it out. it’s not in certain wimmens psyche to care if you have a girl or not, they’re still gonna be thirsty. especially since you’re of status. dudes don’t care if you have a man either though, but i guess that’s another story altogether…
some girls realize that, but at the same time, theyll b doin the same thing to sumbody else while they claim theyre wit chu. They dont understand that the same thing is goin to happen to them when they get a boyfriend. But then they get mad when another girl does that to her man. She shouldve realized that SHE CANT B TRUSTED. Therefore, what goes around, comes around. Just my opinion
Respectable women care. I care. Hoes don’t care. Simple. Reminds me of a great saying, “you’ll lose him the same way you got him.”
JD, Girls are thirsty! They think that saying those things will make them more attractive…like they’re bad girls and can get away with anything. Guys and Girls alike seem to have lost respect for what being in a relationship means. I can recall numerous times where I’ve told guys that I am in a relationship and I get the response “I bet he ain’t treating you right” or “I can do all the things your man can’t”. What the hell is that? You don’t know me! Overall I think our society has lost respect for serious relationships, like they mean nothing until there is a ring on your finger. We have Beyonce and the media to thank for that one. And yes, the way you got that man is the same way you’ll lose him.
I have been in similar situations and its safe to say that women nowadays do not care. Even when marriage is involved, the guy is often considered fair game. We can not lay all the blame on women though because most men succumb to the flirtations women show them and that alone makes the statement of “All men are dogs/the same” stand strong.
Most women think they can lock a man down and believe strongly that they can take another woman’s man but that man cant be taken from them. The dynamics have changed, and oddly most women are doing what men would have done in the past. I am not afraid to say it but women are becoming more scary that men in their hunt for pleasure, love and anything in between.
I dont think that some women dont even care anymore it seems like self respect and respect for other women has gon oout the window its all fun and games until it happens to them If you are girlfriend number 2 and was bumped up to number 1 you can believe that he is gonna find someone to replace that girlfriend nuber 2 spot
some women dont care because another women did it to them which is so stupid.
and as a man, u would b dumb to fall for a girl like that!!!!
Hey dur!!
Well, I think the questions should have come in the reverse orde….
#2 QUESTION DO WOMEN EVEN CARE ANYMORE THAT A MAN HAS A GIRL??
Most woman don’t care because they dont’ have a man….they think if they can attract the attention of a man who has a girl…….then they must be SPECIAL!!!!!!!
WHAT MAKES HER THINK THE SAME THING IS NOT GONNA HAPPEN TO HER??
Again…..because the attention she was getting for the moment seemed to have shocked her out of reality…….. She thought she was TOOOOOO SPECIAL to have the same thing happen to her!!!!
Now the real question a woman like that should ask first is……….
Do you really think he knows I’m a dumb ass or will I get 2 weeks before he figures it out.
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It matters to me, JD. It becomes unnecessary drama.Then, there’s the self-respect part of it. Granted @ one point or another, everybody goes thru a “fuck it” stage & goes for the “gusto” lol
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Some chicks are just scandalous!That’s why its so many no good niggas cause these girls allow it. You should of walked away from that girl! I can’t stand chicks like that
Nah they don’t these women are worse then most men are now days.
I think some girls do and some girls don’t it depends on how they were brought up. Girls that were spoiled all their lives think they can whatever they want and even if someone else as that person. They consider that a challenge and try to pursue that person even more.
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That’s funny. So much wrong with a girl like that, it’s difficult to respond.
Saying some slick shyt like that shows her moral capacity. I don’t think she would think it would happen to her but hopefully she would recognize it if it did.
#2 LADIES care that men are in relationships but some females think ‘life’ is a game and not a journey.
PEACE
Oh snaps, this is gonna be good. Im gonna hold my comment for a sec. Ok Maybe not. I dont play that when it comes to mine. Im TOO selfish to play 2nd to anyone. I do know that there are alot of chicks out there that dont care. I aint going. I dont like to share and Im not cause I dont have to.
They dont have respect for themselves, low self-esteem, and no respect for others. I have a friend that lives by the “guys do it all the time” creed. But she’s the raising the 4 kids by herself, dads nowhere to be founds. I just cant get down like that. Thats just me though.
Women care-insecure female are disrespectful like that. That kind of behavior gets B!tches slapped up! For real ;0)
Newsflash……all this has been goin on since day one ask ya momma grandmama or greatgrandmother.this is not new .if anyone sees anything or anyone that they have dreamed about they gonna go hard about it. I’m sure you did the same with janet……who the fuck cares . Nobody kid . Its a cold world
Hell no. Every since this indpendent movement it’s been a solo effort with both sexes. Men and women do the same thing even though women are more open about saying they want a good man. Do they mean it we won’t know cause a woman is the greatest playa around lol
These days women don’t care and it’s sad and they always put men down for their ways women are just as scandalous as the men they talk about!
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As long as u have money & sum kinda status they can care less if u have a girl r not.
Women just don’t care anymore; neither do men. That’s why marriage ain’t even worth it anymore. I couldn’t tell you HOW many times I’ve heard this conversation;
Female Friend Number One; ‘He is fine, I should try to fuck’
Female Friend Number Two; ‘But he has a girlfriend’
Female Friend Number One; ‘That don’t mean nothing!’
Then Female Friend Number One & Two go pounce on his ass, get found out by the girlfriend, & then fit hits the shan & it’s all over. I have seen that happen waaaay too many times in MY little life. That’s why I just don’t trust people like that. I keep eeeeeeeverything between me & my two best friends; whose names happen to be MYSELF & I. Lol
I am Charismatic; & I approve keeping a closed mouth. Lol
No one can make the statement that women just don’t care anymore b/c that includes ALL women in my mind. I would say that at least 1/2 of us don’t care. But I do. In every situation I’m in, I always try to put myself in the mindset of the other person to see how I would feel.
So putting myself in the mind of a man’s girlfriend/wife, if I were her I wouldn’t want it done to me. Therefore it’s simple, if a guy approaches me and I see a wedding ring or I find out he’s in a relationship, I will drop him. No explaining has to be done on his end to try to plead his case …..”but see, me and her are about to break up” or if he’s married “we’ve been having problems for years and nothings going to fix that. we’re separated or we’re going through a divorce”…….Fellas, please stay the hell away from me with that b.s. I’m not the one to care or fall for it!
Hey JD,
Chicks like that are always willing to give brain but I don’t think that it includes thinking at all.
A true display of desperation and a clear example of insecurities= selfish destructive behavior.
As a matter of fact, I wrote this after living in Atl for 4 years:
MAN SHARING
Any woman who thinks she is in love, is not willing to man share.
If she permits this behavior, then she probably don’t even care.
For You or herself, willing to jeapordize her health,
Feels worthless, without anybody else.
Just to say that she belongs to some man,
she will block his blessings, never extending a helpful hand.
From his fears he may feel the need to escape,
to a fake love that’s only second rate.
Better to go where his presence is felt,
and truely understood.
Where he can spend time with a real woman, and come away
feeling, pretty damned good.
For jealousy and love are two opposite sides of the same coin.
One emotion can cause the other to become null and void.
If he decides to let the secret other stick around,
revenge is what she really wants.
A real woman will not waste her time
just to keep up a front.
PrettyBrownEyes 6/19/01
P.S. I hope that this sounded biased enough for all those man sharing jump-offs, I say, “Smootches to the black side of my back side.”
JERMAINE!! They arent women they are immature little girls..If a man fell for a woman like that its a bad thing, cuz the trust factor wont be there..Think about it if they will try to get u and dont care about stepping on ur ladies toes..than how much can u trust them..They are in it for what they can get..status etc and will be on to the next option if they feel its better for them..On the other hand they wont trust u either cuz they figure if u cheated on your lady with them that u will do it to them…and they may be right! I am a FIRM believer in the fact that the way u get someone is the same way u lose them..You want quality Jd not a chickenhead..these chicks are not WIFEY! lol..I mean hey lets b real if ur single and u want to c them for some fun,do that and keep it moving, thats not the chick u want to make ur lady! and i’m a lady saying this!..Its not cool for women to step on each others toes..Karma is really a bitch..and in todays world a lot of women just dont care..Maybe its because they have been played by guys and they are trying to do the playing..But if u r anything like me Jd i want quality..i wouldnt want no dude like that to be my man!
O yeah and back to Question 1 ..thats what gets on my nerves with women and i am one..They dont never see or hear a situation for how it really is…They think because they are cute or because they think they have skills that somehow a man that is cheating with them is not gonna do the same to them when in reality its almost guaranteed to happen..that is a recipe for disaster..!
Nah. Another question is, if a guy falls for a girl like that, what makes him think that she wont do the same thing to him. STUPID. and hell nah women dont care anymore. This 2010 JD!!!! lolol! But thats something that i would never do (on purpose). If you have a girlfriend then you dont have a chance with me. I cant stand thirsty bitches. They’re always tryna take another woman’s peice. Holla @ me when ur available!
JD, woman dont care if man are married they are still sleeping with them i.e Gabby Union, Alicia Keys etc., If your married to someone what makes you think that your dating someone is so special these days makes me think that marriage is a joke!
Unfortunately, we live a society where there’s no longer any boundaries and you got a lot women walking around with no real self-worth. these chics may say, “he got a girl, but shiiiit-thats JD”. What’s crazy is that it aint even that your a star, they’d be like that with any guy if they found him appealing. To them, there are no boundaries- no one’s man is off-limits… Not they sisters, friends… You name it.
not at all JD i have plenty of females try to get at me and knowing i have a gf just adds to the thrill of it all. of course i don’t fall for that BS i keep it moving cuz at the end of the day all women are insecure and they just wanna feel special that’s why they go after men with girls.
Some women still care.
Others don’t because the feel thats what you men want. Yall want to have your cake and eat it too.
And they are right.
Majority of men like to get their thing wet. One woman isn’t enough for them. So this is these women’s way of letting yall know you can hit it with no strings attached.
You guys fall for it and make them your sidepiece it all goes well until she starts catching feelings. And decides to put your ass on blast. And fucks up your whole life.
Men will never learn though because they prefer to use that head in their pants instead of the one with the brain.LOL.
its alot of chicks that dont give a fuck. they just tryin to get in where they fit in. all of a sudden being the side piece is where its at. I’ll be late for ALL THAT SHIT. I mean look at the following examples…Supahead (yes some chicks idolize her…go figure) Gabby Union and D-Wade (they can deny all they want but he was hittin that before he got divorced), AKeys and Swizz (she looks like a homewrecker to alot of folks regardless of how they try and clean it up.) And well look at Wayne and his gaggle of babymommas. Hoes just tryin to get in whereever. NO thanks.
The question should be do men care that they have women when they go sticking there dicks in any and everything.
These women are trying to give you guys want they think you want. If men expressed their disapproval with these actions maybe these women would get a clue. But men aren’t because they enjoy these types of things.
What did you say when these women where saying these things? Did you do what these woman asked of you? I willing to bet you were just standing there grining from ear to ear.
Women don’t care if a man is in a relationship but why should they? It is the responsibility of the people in the relationship to cherish what they have an not to let anyone come in mess that up.
If a woman knows you are in a relationship it is good for them because they get more control. Example…. Janet Jackson getting on national TV talking about she and JD ain’t together… Yeah right, JD ain’t letting that go…not with that tato!! LOL OK so after JD produced 2 or 3 albums that didn’t work for Janet let’s get some distance publicly between them….Janet’s camp would say…..Now on global we know that’s still JD’s girl so what does that mean? That mean if JD’s was stupid enough to get another girl that girl would have control over him, because she knows all she has to do is go public and let Janet find out….. Tiger Woods was breaking bread a long time before we heard the story.
That’s these chicks’ way of letting you know that they are willing to give it up to you while trying to be slick. Some just want a fling and others may want to date a dude they say slick stuff to, but they fail to realize that if they get a man like that, he is only in it for sex and she will not be taken seriously 9.75 times out of 10.
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I am so glad that u posted this topic of disscusion, 1st and formost I think its lame if some1 wants a celeb 2 “act like they know them” and 2ndly very dissrepectful & tastless 2 act that way also especially if that celeb or person is involved in a relationship. I have said & done sum dumb shhh 2 though. I think that a lot of woman still have those morals & values instilled in them however society has taken a diff turn in this dept. So instead of doing the right thing – we conform 2 fullfill our own selfish needs along with removing the fear of being alone. So with that being said, U also have 2 take in account that u do have that celeb status so most women may be intimidated by ur status & think that because “U r living the life” they assume u are living the life where these things don’t matter 2 u. However intitiating these types of disscusions allows us as ur fans 2 see where u stand on these types of issues. Hence maybe after finding out how u feel about it – they might show a lil more respect especially if they are a True Fan. & also I am so confused whether u r with a lady or not? Isn’t their sum type of responsability that the male should hold as a womans mate 2 acknowledge the fact that u are with some1 and that u feel as though those types of comments are offensive 2 ur relationship?? Not only on a national level but also when face 2 face? Jus my opinion. Love ya much Mrs. Betty C
theres no respect anymore. u can be with your girl and some them are bold enogh to do it right in front of them. the thing is that woman don’t have class anymore. they are nothing like when my grandma was growing up. there nobody around to teach them how to be a lady an respect other people. don’t care have the man treat them as long as they get what they want. if a man hook up with a woman who does that he don’t want to be with them to wife them,he only wat to be with them to hit and keep it movig. women we have to grow up and become better.
I’m not gonna make the blanket assertion that ALL women don’t care about that shit anymore!, but there is an increasing # of us that seem to not care.
I don’t even think that when they do stupid shit like that that they are thinking of anything long term or any kind of relationship status beyond fuckin… so I doubt that it even enters their minds that the same way u got him is the way you’ll keep him.
Funny thing is, I had this dude tryin hella hard 2 get at me & was actually gettin mad that I wasn’t like that. He has a pregnant gf & some side chicks too…..I told him I don’t do attached men & he wanted to act like he didn’t know what the hell I was talkin about…..NIGGA don’t act dumb *sighs* I don’t knowingly share dick & I’m not some damn sideline ho either, stick 2 the silly little girls cuz I’m a WOMAN. So he’s like “Nobody gotta know!!!”.
I’m like, seriously, I’ll KNOW & that’s all that matters. Then the nigga had the nerve to tell me that I’m just being stuck up & on a high horse LOL!!! WHATEVER!!! If it gotta b all that so B IT!!!!! So then I’m like;Call it what u want….there is nothing wrong with having respect for yourself enough to not do shit like that. I’m not gonna lie & say that I’ve never disregarded a guy’s relationship status,but there comes a point when u GROW UP & realize that stupid shit like chasing after some1 else’s man or messing with some1 that u know is involved is NOT cute,cool or acceptable. It is actually just a big waste of time *SMDH*
nope yo i am from BK and theres alot of females who dont care if a dude is taken i guess it is what it is do
Some females just don’t have any self respect and truly don’t care. Same with the guys that go along with it and/or put up with.
LMFAO @ “hold me tighter like you know me”…wooooow! girls are so damn scandalous now days it doesnt make any sense smh, but thats just crazy! but i know me personally, i dont mess around with dudes who have girlfriends…thats just way out of line! i wouldnt want it to happen to me and im not going to bring that on myself.
First of all, if he falls fo a trick like dat he aint no real man , and has no real love for his girl. And if he falls for dat he WEAK-MINDED, becuase if she says that to you how many man has she said that too before, yo ass gone fuck around and catch something and an yo dick falls off. Secondly any women who trying to get at a man who already has a womam, and she is aware of that then she ain’t no real woman, dats A TRIFLIN ASS NASTY BITCH, AND IF ANY WOMAN GETS MAD AT THIS THEN IT MUST BE TRUE FOR DA ASS.