TALK TO ME!!!
HAPPY MONDAY LIFERS!!!!! FIRST LET ME SAY I CHANGED THE SUBJECT MATTER ON FRIDAY FOR TALK TO ME LIKE SOME OF YOU ASKED AND IT WAS THE LOWEST IN COMMENTS. WHY DO YOU THINK THAT IS? ANYWAY LETS GET TO THE MAIN QUESTION OF THE DAY WHICH IS FOR THE LADIES. HOW MANY OF YOU LIKE TO WATCH PORN WHILE HAVING SEX? FOR THOSE OF YOU THAT THINK ITS CRAZY READ THIS…
In a 2007 study, women who watched porn got turned on as quickly as men did. Using thermal imaging technology, researchers at McGill University in Montreal found that while watching porn, men became fully aroused in 664.6 seconds (11 minutes), compared to women, who took 743 seconds (12 minutes).
I dont really watch porn all like that but i would be willing to watch it before me and my man got down just for that initial awkwardness.
Hello JD,
I tried watching porn with my mate but it did nothing for me. I thought it was corny but I am willing to say it might have been the grade of the film meaning low budget or something. I have not seen one it years because of the time I did but I believe in a relationships somethings come up and watching a porn film has not these days………..
Thanks for asking
Patrice
PORN IS MEANT TO BE USED AS PART ENTERTAINMENT AND EDUCATION…THE EDUCATION IS FOR THOSE WHO LACK CONFIDENCE IN THE BEDROOM OR SEX LIVES…PERSONALLY FOR ME, I THINK WOMEN CAN LEARN A GREAT DEAL IN REGARDS TO ORAL PLEASURE PRINCIPLES…WATCH SOME PINKY, JADA FIRE, CARMEN HAYES, or OBSESSION and YOUR HEAD GAME WILL BE STUPID…VICE VERSA FOR MEN…DUDES FUCK UP THE SEX BECAUSE THEY HAVEN’T LEARN HOW TO GET THAT FIRST TWO NUTS OFF THEN GIVE HER HER CLIMAX…WHEWWWWW!!! POP GOES THE WEEZLE!!!!
STICK AND STAY!!!
LIFERS UP!!!
(smacking my lips) oh boy, not again with the sex stuff. Like I really don’t know why people watch porn. They probably do it because they bored and they have no one to fuck with, that’s pretty much the case you know. Like everyone masterbates when they watch porn, I don’t know anything about girls watching porn while they sexing, that’s just bull shit right there. That shit won’t even turn me on, what turns me on is a romantic sex, with candles all around, and 90′s r&b slow jams.
@4LIFEENT215. PORN IS NOT EDUCATION, BUT I AGREE, IT DOES MAKE A RELATIONSHIP STRONGER. I WOULD SAY HBO SHOWS LIKE THE ONES THAT BE COMING ON LATE AT NIGHT IS WHAT I CALLED EDUCATION BECAUSE IT’S NOT EXTREME UNLESS THEIR AINT NO 3 SOME, OTHER THAN THAT, PORN IS EXTREMELY DIRTY IN EVERY WAY.
1st i gotta start off by thankin JD…man sumhow erytime i come in here i c women admitting 2 things they hold most sacred…shit i been diggin at 4 years,…lmao!!
But porn 4 me in those early years was education…i called the “educational videos”…afta i started doin erything i saw it became odselete…i only watch now 2 see the phattest ass on sum pretty chic tht im mad is doin the damn porn neway…lmao!!
wit a chic i have watched it and it gave them inspiratipn partly i think is cuz its sex…and if u like sex ur turned on when u see it point blank…cuz its SEX!! and the otha reason is like @313AKA said…i think yall women want tht ruff crazy porn shit jus as much as we do…but yall 1st word when a nigga say he wanna do it is “WHAT U THINK IM ! OF THEM PORNO HOES” LAME lmao!!
i also neva watched it durin sex…like how could u…if u really ca fuk u cant watch nething durin sex and she shouldnt b able 2 make a complete sentence better yet watch sum shit…i done had sex wit cartoons in the background, news, history channel…lmao…but only thing stopped me 1 day, we were fukn on BET and as we all kno at 4am tht church show comes on…ummm yeah fukd me all up…so i changed the channel and comenced blessin her…lmao!!
oh yeah twitt a nigga @ biggl48LTL
I watch porn all the time when pleasuring myself, never felt the need to watch it with someone else. My 2 cents. hehe
@Nakita Benjamin<— ur wrong education is in erything…even this blog can b educational 2 sum1 who walks away with knowledge gained and experience
Ok ppl if you watch it to get in the mood and if you feeling that great who gets up and turns it OFF instead of hoppn on your man…its probably still playing i’m sure it didnt take you the whole dvd to get turned on..lol
I have watched it b4 with my man and its nothing wrong it…You can learn new tricks and dips and i’m all for keeping things fresh!! Its really not a big deal…and for everyone saying no they dont watch it thats a lie bkuz if your fav celeb was on there your eyes would be glued!!..Hell if you watch the T.O. show thats soft porn right there…with him taking off his shirt like that and exercising …..*flashback* sorry lifers…lol but anyway you get my point….i dont watch it all the time but if my man had it on i’m not jumping down his throat about it to turn it off.
SEX ISN’T EVERYTHING; SHIT. WHAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP STAY FOR EVERY IS FRIENDSHIP. HAVING A SOULMATE IS ABEAUTIFUL THING WITHOUT HAVING SEX TO BE THE MAIN THING IN THE RELATIONSHIP ALL THE TIME. YOU KNOW HOW SEX WOULD REALLY FEEL GOOD, IS WHEN YOU NOT FORCING YOUR SELF TO HAVE SEX WITH THE PERSON BECAUSE YOU WANT TO. SEX WILL ONLY FEEL GOOD WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY FALLING HEAD OVER HEALS FOR EACHOTHER AND THAT THEY ALREADY BUILD A CONNECTION WITH EACHOTHER, BUT THEY NEVER TOOK IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL. NOW DAYS PEOPLE RATHER HOCK UP, AND START A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT AWAY OR HOCK UP, AND HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND. IT’S BAD TO DO IT THAT WAY BECAUSE OF LACK OF CHEMISTRY BETWEEN THE TWO PEOPLE, SO THE SEX ISN’T GONNA BE REMEMBERABLE, AND YES, THE PERSON IS GONNA BE LOOK UP ON AS A SLUT, AND IT’S MOSTLY THE GIRL WHO’S ALWAYS PERFERED AS A SLUT. I KNOW IT BECAUSE ALL MY FRIENDS HAVE BEEN THERE AND THEY HAVE BEEN DISS ON MANY TIMES, AND HUMILIATED MANY TIMES. BUILDING A CONNECTION IS THE KEY. SEX ISN’T NOTHING WITHOUT HAVING SOME KIND OF FEELINGS TOWARDS THE PERSON, LIKE BUTTERFLIES IN YOUR STOMACH OR BUGS IN YOUR PUSSY. I CAN’T NEVER HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE IF I’M NOT IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON GOD DAMNIT.
SEX ISN’T EVERYTHING; SHIT. WHAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP STAY FOR EVER IS FRIENDSHIP. HAVING A SOULMATE IS ABEAUTIFUL THING WITHOUT HAVING SEX TO BE THE MAIN THING IN THE RELATIONSHIP ALL THE TIME. YOU KNOW HOW SEX WOULD REALLY FEEL GOOD, IS WHEN YOU NOT FORCING YOUR SELF TO HAVE SEX WITH THE PERSON BECAUSE YOU WANT TO. SEX WILL ONLY FEEL GOOD WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE ACTUALLY FALLING HEAD OVER HEALS FOR EACHOTHER AND THAT THEY ALREADY BUILD A CONNECTION WITH EACHOTHER, BUT THEY NEVER TOOK IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL. NOW DAYS PEOPLE RATHER HOCK UP, AND START A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT AWAY OR HOCK UP, AND HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND. IT’S BAD TO DO IT THAT WAY BECAUSE OF LACK OF CHEMISTRY BETWEEN THE TWO PEOPLE, SO THE SEX ISN’T GONNA BE REMEMBERABLE, AND YES, THE PERSON IS GONNA BE LOOK UP ON AS A SLUT, AND IT’S MOSTLY THE GIRL WHO’S ALWAYS PERFERED AS A SLUT. I KNOW IT BECAUSE ALL MY FRIENDS HAVE BEEN THERE AND THEY HAVE BEEN DISS ON MANY TIMES, AND HUMILIATED MANY TIMES. BUILDING A CONNECTION IS THE KEY. SEX ISN’T NOTHING WITHOUT HAVING SOME KIND OF FEELINGS TOWARDS THE PERSON, LIKE BUTTERFLIES IN YOUR STOMACH OR BUGS IN YOUR PUSSY. I CAN’T NEVER HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE IF I’M NOT IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON GOD DAMNIT.
@Nakita Benjamin<— im sure we kno tht…the question was do u watch porn? does it turn u on? we are answering the question…im sure most of us atleast knows tht sex isnt erything in a relationship but this is the topic
YOU KNOW THE WERD THING ABOUT GIRLS IS THAT GIRLS WANT TO RUSH INTO RELATIONSHIPS IN ONLY ONE DAY. I’M LIKE “GIRL SLOW DOWN, I JUST WANT TO GET TO KNOW GOD DAMN.” THEY LIKE PUSHING IT TO THE HIGHEST LEVEL MAN. THEY WANNA LIKE FUCK YOU SO SOON. I DON’T KNOW ABOUT YA GIRLS ON HERE, BUT MAN, THERES A LOT OF CRAZY GIRLS OUT THERE LOOKING FOR LOVE SO BAD.
YOU KNOW THE WERD THING ABOUT GIRLS IS THAT GIRLS WANT TO RUSH INTO RELATIONSHIPS IN ONLY ONE DAY. I’M LIKE “GIRL SLOW DOWN, I JUST WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU GOD DAMN.” THEY LIKE PUSHING IT TO THE HIGHEST LEVEL MAN. THEY WANNA LIKE FUCK YOU SO SOON. I DON’T KNOW ABOUT YA GIRLS ON HERE, BUT MAN, THERES A LOT OF CRAZY GIRLS OUT THERE LOOKING FOR LOVE SO BAD.
MY BAD. I WANNA GET THAT OUT THERE BECAUSE IT’S WHAT’S THE BOTHERING ME. IT’S A BIG TURN OFF WHEN GIRLS DO THAT SO SOON.
Porn DURNING sex….NO! I like to make my own moans and screams of pleasure and be in the moment with my man. I will watch it before sex wit my man and make the intensity of the sex we have much higher. It has showed us new positions that i can’t complain about. I think those that are knockin porn, have never jumped in feet first and tried it……RELAX it’s JUST SEX!
i watch porn lol cah im a freak lol some guys cnt even tounge fuk u rite so you gotta do what you to satisfy yourself.
I NOTICED IT WAS LESS COMMENTS LAST WEEK 2 JD BUT I THINK IT WAS BECAUSE PEOPLE DONT LIKE TO TALK ABOUT THINGS LIKE 9/11. TO YOUR QUESTION I HAVE NEVER WATCHED A PORN WHILE FUCKING BUT I HAVE WATCHED A PORN BEFORE AND IT DIDNT DO NOTHING FOR ME I MEAN YEA GOT A LIL BOTHERED BUT NOT LIKE O SHIT IMMA CUM NO BUT WAT IT DID DO IS EDUCATE ME A LIL MORE I TRYED OUT A FEW THINGS I SEEN.
oh yeah and i didnt comment last week cuz i was directly affected by the towers…i had no personal story of triumph or perserverance…i didnt wanna leave a generic comment like “im sorry” or nething like tht
i have no problem with watching porn while having sex cuz well trust me it might be goin on no the TV but my boyfriend and i are too caught up to even look at the TV. LOL, but it does set the mood for a real hardcore night or day since we both get horny very quickly and often. DID YOU AND JANET WATCH PORN DURING SEX CUZ I KNO YA’LL ARE FREAKY?
LoVe my Province Montreal, QC. Good post JD.
I’m into porn and other things(moving on)..I watch porn with my hubby before, during, and after sex..shit sometimes i watch just to try new shit.. ha!
I do watch porn but not during sex I know what to do and when to do it I think everyone who watches likes it and it is a big turn on for some and and teaches you new moves basically it just spices thing’s up some more
I watch porn BEFORE sex.. so by the time my husband is in bed.. im ready to get it started.. HAHAHA!! As far as watchin porn during sex….Ive never done it… Although I’ve made a couple of movies.. so does that count?!?! LMAO!!.. Its weird tho because I dont get turned on by women and a man. Its the women on women that does it for me…
I don’t watch it at all. No purpose for me
well I love porn especially the nasty shit like the hardcore orgies i don’t know why but just watchin all women porn doesn’t turn me on i love to watch gangbangs where they calling the girl bitch and whore lol omg i love that shit…speaking of porn…I would love to be a pornstar for a day and take on Wesley pipes, brian pumper and Mr. Marcus lol
well i’ve never watched it during sex before but i have watched porn and gotten turned on by it…its only natural to see 2 people having sex and think hmmm i should be doing that right now LOL it would be something interesting to try and see if me and my man could imitate whats on the screen!
I watch porn sometimes just to pick up on some new ideas, but I don’t know if I could watch it during sex.
my husband watch porn i could care less it dosen’t turn me on…….
i don’t know about all of that, but somebody said that women like the women-on-women action to we just don’t admit. I, AND IM SURE OTHER STRICTLY DICKLY WOMEN HATE THAT SHIT, SO DON’T SLIP UP AND TURN UR GIRL OFF BY THINKING SHEZ ABOUT TO WATCH SOME LESBO SHIT.
I say it’s a distraction because I usually watch with the remote in my hand ready to fast forward, rewind and slow the good parts. I can’t be bothered with the corny dialogue and music. If you don’t like porn you must be watching the wrong ones but to each his/her own. Ok, I think I’ve said to much, lol…
Thanks for the B-day wishes Anita and Kandi
like watching porn alot but I would cut the porn off and get the party started…..and if I’m watching porn while sexing than the dude aint doing it right..CDFU… not into girl on girl either
Your welcome Minnie. What did you buy or treat yourself to today?
Looking back, I could’ve used a porn flick as a distraction with a couple of dudes that dayum near put me to sleep. LOL Its not good thing if a chic is yawning in your ear fellas. LMFAO
i love porn. during sex and when alone. the sounds they make help me along. it’s the sounds more than the visual.
Porn is okay. if that is what you like. I personally do not like porn, but if my man wants to watch to get that extra arousal. I am definetely watching. My thing is if it helps u or your mate get aroused. By all means let them do what they do and sit back and watch with them.. If no arousal, you will at least learn a few new tricks.
Porn is ok, but not during sex thts just to much going on in my opinion…..I seem to enjoy it more when I’m alone, but sometimes it seems like the women are being hurt…not really enjoying being pounded out! Lol!!
JD, you should ask the women “What type of porn they like to watch?” For example, do they like the professional ish or the amateur ish? What type of genre? Porn with a story line or straight to the fucking?
I hate amateur porn cause im always scared im gonna see someone I know…or hell even me! lol
“You’re up til 3 in the mornin’ watching that triple x porn” – Janet
I’m a day late but not a dollar short! Porn… When i was younger like highschool i had jus started admitting to myself i was gay so i used porn as a way to teach myself how to satify my gf! But now i’ll watch them from time to time to get shawty in the mood but past that I don’t.
@Kandi That is so ture and alot of the time they be looking like they don’t know what they doin and u hear all the extra talking in the back trying to tell her what to do LOL
@Nakita Benjami I agree with everything you said.
WATCHING PORN BEFORE SEX, PUTS YOU IN THE MIND OF WHAT YOU’RE ABOUT TO EXPERIENCE. BUT WATCHING PORN DURING SEX, GIVES YOU IDEAS ON HOW TO ENHANCE WHAT YOU’RE EXPERIENCING. GENERALLY, WATCHING PORN, TAKES YOU ON A JOURNEY THROUGH VISUAL PLEASURES TO BE DISCOVERED. SOME TRY TO TAKE THINGS THAT THEY SEE OR LEARN FROM PORN-STARS, BUT ADD THEIR OWN TWIST TO IT. I KNOW I DO!!! IT MAKES YOUR SEX LIFE A HELL OF ALOT BETTER FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER, BY DOING THINGS YOU WOULDN’T HAVE EVER IMAGINED. FROM BEING INTRODUCED TO DIFFERENT POSITIONS, INTIMATE SETTINGS, AND FOR SOME EVEN TOYS…! ENJOY MAKING YOUR LIFE OF SEXUAL BLISS WONDERFUL LADIES…AND GENTLEMEN OUT THERE TAKING NOTES.
yeah i watch it b4 NOT DURING, oral scenes turn me on and sometimes i get turned on by the moaning
I don’t like it during sex. I used to watch it for tips when I was more inexperienced. I have not watched in many, many years. I don’t need to anymore. I think I have also mentioned in previous posts that it makes me sad to see some of the lower budget ones–the women seem drugged and just plain stupid. Anyway, who can’t help but get turned on. It appeals to your most carnal desires.
what human man gets hard in 11 minutes. damn i ain’t know that as far as women i ain’t suprised Every women is an undercover freak, yeah im talkin to the catholic nuns to lol
i watch porn before but i cant watch while during sex some porns i just can handle that shit just doesn’t sit well wit my stomach
at this moment in my life i don’t watch porn during sex im not very comfortable with that. maybe when i’m older and become more sexual i will if that’s what i’m in to at the time and if me and my boyfriend at the talk about lots before. right now i just think its rude unless both you and the dude are feeling it
I WATCH PORN ALL THE TIME BY MYSELF! DURING SEX ITS DOPE BUT ITS BETTER WHEN U DO IT EVERY ONCE IN AWHILE NOT ALL THE TIME SEX IS DOPE WHEN U JUST FOCUS IN ON UR MAN NOT HAVING OTHER DISTRACTIONS
I read an article that janet watched porno with gay action and she said it turned her on. JD tell jan she will not be disappointed with me!
p.s.
HOW THE HELL YOU FUCK THAT UP!!!