@ Mi’chelle thats not always tru. I have had experiences lately where the roles have been reveersed. However most guys try their hand at sex with in the first week because most women don’t make men work for it anymore…..I mean I had women ask was I gay because I didnt try nd sleep with them right off tht back nd tht let me kno what type of niggaz they been dealing with and the fact tht their standards arent tht high. So it really jus depends on the dude u come across.

I would have to see how our relationship would progress first but ultimately it would be how she interacts with her own family nd friends. I really need to see specific traits that lets me kno you will be around for some time nd u even worth meeting my family.

No the person is not shallow however you may end up passing on a great person because of your type.

I would wait cause a gd woman is hard to come by however i feel as tho we are grown why do we need a time line. As long as its not the 1st night it shouldn’t matter. I mean honestly think of it like his way of its bad your going to be mad u waited all tht time. Then you have the question does your relationship end cause thesex is bad? I don’t kno anybody especially a woman who would stay wit a dude who sex is bullshit. Hell thts why some women cheat

@ Moca nd Mi’chelle this really depends on the man your dating or in a relationship wit. A real man who has learned himself in and out and knows what kind of woman he is seeking will be very open to a commitment once he feels that he has found that type of woman. Now we know that we will never get every thing we’re lookin for but as long as your good out weighs your bad it’s not a problem. Women who meet men that have commitment issues have to realize its the fact tht they haven’t fully discovered themselves yet or for that matter know what type of woman they want.

I know that college isn’t for everybody however I would prefer atleast a bachelors degree.

Taraji P. Henson looks nd Personality, Michelle Obama’s Intellect and Gabrielle Union’s Confidence nd love of sports.

Note all beautiful Black Women

I think alot of things have been lost in translation in today’s society. For example it use to be said that a man is suppose to be the head of the house hold when it comes to work and taking care of home. However I think where things may have gotten misconstrued is in the area of working and I say that because it use to be a woman wanted a man who had a decent job and benefits. Now there is so much infasist on a mans finances that women miss out on a good dude. We have grown into a society where we idolize what we see and hear those in the entertainment business speak about. Another reason especially with the African American culture is there are more women with better educations who are making substantially more so they expect a man to make what they make or double nd thats unrealistic. Unfortunately many women believe that finances can secure ones stability in a relationship but thats wrong thinking. Yes money is nice but what some women fail to railize is they bring nothing else to the table outside of money and pussy and it takes more than to keep a real man happy in a relationship because it can all be lost today or tomorrow.

I’m actually strting to focus more on my career now. as well as finishing school nd who knows maybe some time frm now I’ll come across a woman who appreciates a dude

thnks…nd alrdy done I deleted all old emails nd numbers the moment we had the falling out. Not to b cocky I’m jus feelin like she’s goin b like the many others I had dated before her when they all realize tht i was a damn good man nd they eventually want me back. Or a good fuck. But tht one difference I actually care nd love her. Nd ur right the email was an excuse because she was scared of the feelings she was having. But i wanna tell her so bad she’s goin to end up like her mother 47 alone nd still living with her mother