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  1. Nah i dont think baby mama is a disrespectful term… there really isnt anything else that you can call it… and chingy is right social networks do be causing problems in relationships…

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  2. The term baby mom is fine as long the respect comes along with it. Because when u have a good one guys need to make sure to acknowledge that and vice versa!

  3. I don’t find Baby Momma disrespectful. Not saying it should be in the dictionary but it’s two words that define what a woman from your past is if yall had a kid together. Baby momma is self explanatory.
    New Female: “Who’s that chick”
    Dude: “That’s my baby momma”
    New Female: “ok”

    it’s just that simple.

    secondly chicks can’t get mad at the term baby momma if they in the club and the weezy song come on and they start smiling and dancing at the line “future baby momma type”

  4. “Wtf? what?” LOL I was lost too when Chingy was tryin to ask that girlfriend question. hahaha

  5. I kinda do find the term of baby mam, baby daddy a little disrespectful. The reason being most times when a person has that title its due to some form of drama, that’s why its called baby mama drama; people don’t say I have son father drama. Doesn’t sound right because if a man or a women is taking care of their children, they are not going to be a called baby daddy or baby mama. I know if I have children and I am taking care of business, she bet not call me a baby daddy. I am more than daddy. Now if you are having hella drama, not paying child support, coming to get your child, or telling your child its ok to be disrectful to the other parents mate, you deserve to be called a baby mama/daddy, or you did some hoe ass shit like deny its your kid or sleep around and don’t know who the daddy is, etc your a baby daddy/mama. If you take care of the child, handle your buisness as a parent then, you can have the title of mother/father of son/daughter

  6. Oh yeah, never ever have chingy ass on again, he lost me also. That nigga is baby daddy. That ol bernie mac in “life” ass nigga. I the pappy. Hahahahahahahaha

  7. DON’T LET CHINGY IN ANYMORE TALK TO ME’s LOL

    WHAT THE HELL WAS HE TALKING ABOUT??! IMMMA REALLY NEED HIM TO STAY ON TOPIC IF HE’S GONNA BE IN THE TALK TO ME CONVERSATIONS.

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  9. Yall doing too much. I hate that baby momma/baby daddy shit. Its like yall got it in, had a child and now yall cant even address the other by name. Yeah, some idiots would be like, you doing too much by letting the next one know the name. Like thats too personal. No whats personal is tellin all yall business. Its nothing to do with if you talking to one of homies, new chick, side chick. Everybody you deal with should know their role. Its all about respect. Thats why you were given a name, not just called, “hey you” or whatever someone felt like addressing you.

    Jay (me): Whats up baby, Ima call you back, Im on the other line
    Sideline: Who you talking to?

    Side bar: Anybody who know you, really shouldnt even question you

    Jay: Talking to Whitney…..
    Sideline:…….
    Jay: Kayla’s mom

    End of discussion. That baby momma shit, is immature and tacky.

  10. I do not think that the term “baby mama” is disrespectful. Hell, when females use the term (me being a female with no kids) baby daddy, it’s just the same as “baby mama”.

    I understood what Chingy was talking about when he said “well instead of me saying I’m talking to my baby mama, I’m talking to my girlfriend. He meant that since he and his baby mama are cool, she is his girlfriend, because they are friends with no romantic ties to each other anymore, she just happens to be the mother of his son.

    It like me saying that I’m going to my girlfriend, Jennifer’s house. I do not have any romantic ties to her (not a lesbian), she is just my friend. GET IT.

    I hope you understand it JD because you looked lost when Chingy said it that way.

  11. I do not like the term. Its like the woman is good enough to have your child, but not good enough to be your wife. Just say the girls name, not this my baby mama. Women should have more respect for themselves to let these dudes f*ck them without protection.

  12. Its the second talk 2me about the term baby mama.as the white guy said it before, until you dont hang around black folks you wont hear this term. so since i watch LTL this is a usual word and I think it describes the situation between mother and father best.

    AND ALSO JD
    I read about the thing with Sandrarose. :-/ Dont let them haters get your energy. i know reading all these things might get hard sometimes, but dont let them get you down. i love seein you working so hard. i love this movement and i am so intereseted for the sales of the dondria album. i am a lifer, but i go more with johnta and actually i didnt wanted to buy Dondrias CD, but now I WILL, to show all them haters that they cant mess with THE GENERAL, get em JD!!!

  13. That nigga chingy was tryna come up with some creative shit & ended up sounded dumb as hellll. Aint nobody say call you baby momma your girlfriend. Don’t even make sense brah.

  14. It seems like when you use the term “Baby Mama” you’ve demoted her to a sperm carrier. To be respectful call her by her name and if more explination is needed then “the mother of my child” is correct. Not to mention Baby Moma sounds GHETTO!!!!! Then again its all in how you use it.

  15. Don’t Let Chingy speak anymore. Dat nigga sound crazy as hell….

    Baby Momma is cool to use, but Daughter/Son’s Mother sounds a little better.

  16. I don’t ever say “baby mama” shit my kids is grown, so it’s the “mother of my child”
    Dondira should leak a sex tape! now that marketing like a MF.. Im just playing

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  18. First off, JD, don’t put Chingy in a talk to me. “You know what I’m saying?” “Woot woot” I was like STFU!!! haha. Stick to making music Chingy. haha. He was lost too.

    Back to the topic at hand.
    THe term Baby mama and baby daddy pisses me off. Not because its disrespectful, it’s just…fuck it, it’s just ghetto to me. I like the term, son/daughter’s mother/father. It sounds better and it has more prestige it. It is more respectful than baby mama/daddy. “He aint shit, just my baby day!!” “son I can’t stand my baby mama!” You’ll never hear, “I can’t stand my son’s father!” unless you’re white. I feel like Chingy right now, like I’m about to go off subject. Anyway, I don’t like the term baby mama. My child’s mother is better to me.

  19. fuck the baby mama shit…WTF WAS YA BOY CHINGY TALKING ABOUT??? HE DIDNT EVEN REALIZE NIGGAZ WAS CLOWING HIM…I DNT GIVE A FUCK BOUT THE BABY MAMA THING ANYMORE…THAT NIGG CHINGY IS THE TOPIC…THIS VIDEO SHOULD GO ON WORLDSTAR AS TO HOW DUMB RAPPERS BE LOOKING SOMETIMES…THIS NIGGA SAID “WHAT IF U CALL HER MY GIRLFRIEND, BUT WE AINT GOT NO TIES” WHAT? MY NIGGA B WAS LOOKING @ HIM LIKE YO R U SERIOUS…DID YALL PEEP WHEN B COX WAS LIKE “YEA THATS A TOUGH ONE” THAT NIGGA DNT EVEN KNOW WHAT U TALKING ABOUT…JD SAID HE LOST…I MEAN WHAT R U SAYING! N WHAT IS A CHINGY? LMAO AWW MAN…NO HATE ITS ALL LOVE, HE GOT A FEW SONGS I LIKE BUT THIS VIDEO IS CLASSIC. OH N UR BABY’S MOTHER HAS A NAME…JUST CALL HER BY HER NAME! SIMPLE!

  20. YOOOO lifeeeer: that had to be the most honest and real comment ever on here.

  21. Chingy is funny in this video. Wow he is dating a nurse? Good luck to her as much as I couldn’t comprehend what Chingy was saying I hope their communication is a counter argument to my viewing of the LTL video. Anyway, I believe saying “The child’s mother” or “The mother of my child” is more appropriate than saying baby momma/daddy because it is showing respect to the other person regardless of the relationship you and that person once had.

  22. This is hot. lets get snoop dogg on take to me. have a new celeb every time.
    So so Def keep it up

    Peace from Norway

  23. HEY JD!, B.COX AND CHINGY..Dont care about the BABY MAMA saying..as long as theres no DRAMA! lol.

  24. Sorry Jd, But it makes it sound like you the child was concieved from a one night stand when a lot people where in a relationship that didn’t work out. If both of you are doing what your supposed to do for your chlid then you deserve the respect of either thier name or father/mother of my child. You have to deal with this person for the rest of your life be respectful. And if the chick or man wasn’t shit you shouldn’t have opened your legs or pulled down your pants to begin with.

  25. B.Cox & JD’s reaction to “WE ALMOST DEPARTED” is HILL LARRY US….. LOL

  26. Chingy must have been high as hell. B Cox was killing his self laughing everytime chingy spoke.

  27. I did a youtube reply to this, check it out.

    RT this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YEr6mkhITas

  28. Well the term as stated below does suggest some sort of drama or past drama between the two ie baby mama drama” to me the vibe I ge from that term is this is the chick I had sex with out of a immature situation and a child wasproduced. Wehn you use the term Mother of my child it sounds like this is the chick I wnated the relationship to last but things didnt work out and we produced a love child out of that relationship. Another thing is why call someone a “baby mama” when your kid dam near 16 yrs old that aint no baby! My sons/daughters mother seems more appropriate.

  29. LIFERS why yall mad @ chingy he was funny as hell…ROFL! from now on u all should smoke after LTL. LOL. I only had a prob being called baby mama when I was married (cuz i’m the wife). But now i could care less.

    out here (especially yardys) dudes tryna holla call u ‘Be’aby Mada’, so u get use 2 it. lol

  30. My child’s mother will suffice 🙂 and Chingy is a dumb 4real!!! U ain’t the only 1 that didn’t get it JD and B Cox is sooo funny!!

  31. Some women say that term is ghetto

  32. Chingy!

  33. should call then Mistakes lol..
    mama mistake

  34. I don’t like the term “BabyMama”, that shit is ghetto! The term should be “my daughter’s mother, or my son’s mother”.

    Wooty woop woop! LMAO Chingy had me confused like shiiiit! O_o
    He should just let dude run his twitter page ALL the time. He should just “deported” from his twitter page! LMAO Lemme stop he aight.

    *snickers and points*

  35. @_blk I loooove that song!

  36. on the baby mama subject…..its real simple, its all on HOW you say da shit. Especially if its caught completely outta context

  37. The term “Baby Mama” isn’t disrespectful, it’s how people receive it that makes it bad. When you say “Baby Mama” people automatically think “hood rat”and ghetto. That’s what makes it bad, people’s perception of the word. Like, “Baby Daddy” people automatically think he does nothing for his kids and is a dead beat.

  38. The terms “Baby Mama” and “Baby Daddy” are ghetto and disrespectful. Do you remember back in the day when the song came out “That’s just my baby mama”? You can’t tell me that’s not disrespectful. Also, JD your daughter is 10 she is far from a baby now so it would seem that you would be saying my daughter’s mother or using her name. By now everyone that deals with you know who she is.

  39. 1st of all, somebody get Chingy some English 101. That good Kush got Chingy unfocused. Baby mama is just a street term that shouldnt be looked at as good or bad, if its used and you dont approve let it roll off your back and keep it moving.

  40. I think the term baby mama is very derogatory. Becoming a baby mama is the least thing I would like to become. I rather be your wife, ex wife or girlfriend.

  41. Just say it’s the “mother of your child” or like someone else said call her by her name.

  42. NEVER EVEA EVEA (smoky’s voice) PUT CHINGY ON TALK TO ME, HE WAS SO FAR IN LEFT FIELD. HE JUST WANTED TO BE ON CAMERA OR YALL KNEW HE WAS GOING TO DO THIS.

  43. @sandy I agree with you. My self, I say “Childs Mother” or call her by her name.

  44. CHINGY A REAL STL NIGGA! 314 all day n nite! baby mama isnt disrespect, daughters mother is disclaiming…

  45. Lol you call her a “Donor” LOL

  46. I can’t stand when people say “Baby mama or Baby Daddy” It makes me sick like STFU. Me being female, and not having children. If I had any I would hate to be called a ‘Baby mama” it just sounds very ugly to me it’s disrespectful. You can say my child mother or childrens mother something like that. I can’t stand when a woman says “my baby daddy” oh my gosh that just fires me up that’s so fucking ugly. I have 3 older brothers who all got kids two of them got children by women their not with but then they got wives who they also got kids with (They refer to their wives as the “Mother of their child or kids”) But, then refer to the other women as their baby mama’s before when I head them say Baby mama I got in their ass and they stop calling them “Baby mama” cause thats just. I”M GOING TO KEEP IT REAL IT GETS UNDER MY SKIN CAUSE THOSE TERMS TO ME ARE GHETTO AS HELL!!

    Chingy: AWWW MAN I had a blank stare like What the fuck is this nigga talking about I like him but damn!!!! I agrree when he said “85% of relationships get fucked up cause of twitter and facebook LMAO it may be more the 85% I’ve seen so far about 5 long term relationships get fucked up over facebook and twitter. Now me I had a twitter but when I found out my co-workers and people above me ( I work in the Federal gov and it’s not worth losing my job over no damn twitter) started to get twitter accounts and when I saw all the drama on there I said it’s time to roll I’m all about privacy and I don’t like people all up in my shit deleted that damn account so fast people get fired everyday over them websites.

  47. Chingy had me in tears with that “woota woop woop” that was funny as hell LMAO

  48. chingy was talking about another female frm the get go ! so wat he said was making sence it might have been off the subject a lil bit but yea i feel wat he was saying…. LTL 4 life !

  49. Chingy cute….lol woota woop woop…(haha) I dont think it disrespectful…Baby Mama is BABY MAMA….lol

    People breakup all the time from Facebook and Twitter….LOL 🙂 Keep it Real…woota woop woop…

  50. no this term baby mama is not disrespectful to me as long as the man you share this child with is respectful of you for giving birth to your child/children and shows up and helps take care of his kids it all good to me you cant call anything else because your not in a realationship any more your just on good terms because of the kids you both have raise . and yes soicial media websites are causing a stir in relationships and have been for a while the internet in general csan be a challenge for relationships with gambling sites, porn sites., facebook, twitter, etc it can be go cause you can connect to others you haven’t seen for a while but it can also cause you to run your self into trouble its like that old saying too much of anything is never really good.

  51. LMAO at Chingy for saying we almost departed on that issue! W0WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!

    The term baby momma is what it is, I dont think its derogatory its’s ok for what it means, the mother of your baby. I agree it should be in the dictionary.

    Baby Momma – mother of your child/ren
    Baby Daddy – Father of my child!

    Lol!

  52. WOW!! That was toooooo funny but on the baby mama issue i think it should be like this : IF someone asks who you talking to or wonders who someone is just say “oh well that’s angie , paris momma” because your child has a name and so does the mother she didnt relinquish that right to HER name when she became the mother of YOUR child plus baby momma sound tres ghetto!! but i do agree that saying ” that’s my child mother is way less endearing than baby momma

    Now on a more important note was it me or did chingy sound just like kevin hart when he does the routine on how thugs talk!!!! really chingy whoopty whoop whoop? really? omg that made my day i never reply but i had to and b.cox flexin ass lying like he knew what chingy was talkin about at least jd kept it real and was like WHAT???

  53. The only people who are offended by the term baby mama, are baby mamas. The only reason they are offended is because they wanted to be more…plain and simple.

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