TALK TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!

WHATS UP LIFERS HAPPY FRIDAY. LAST NIGHT AT THE J’ADORE PARTY A GUY WALKED UP TO ME AND SAID JD I FUCKS WITH YOU, YOUR MY IDOL NO HOMO. NOW WE TOUCHED ON THIS A LIL ON LTL ONCE BUT MAYBE I’M GETTING OLD. WHY DID HE FEEL THE NEED TO SAY NO HOMO? SO THAT’S TODAY’S TOPIC. WHY ARE THESE NIGGAS SAYING NO HOMO SO MUCH I DON’T GET IT. I’M STARTING TO FEEL LIKE ALOTTA THESE GUYS THAT’S SAYING IT ARE IN THE CLOSET AND THEY TRY TO THROW THAT OUT TO KEEP US OFF THERE TRAIL. CAUSE ITS BEING SAID NOW LIKE U CAN JUST SLIP INTO BEING BISEXUAL. SO THE FIRST QUESTION FOR YALL IS HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS TERM OR SAYING?
WHATS THE PURPOSE OF SAYING IT AND WHAT ARE THEY TRYING TO ACCOMPLISH ?

TALK TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  1. JD I NEVER understood using no homo…Now a days it seems like two men can talk to each other without them feeling the need to say “no homo”…they just say that shit after everything…”nigga i’m going to the store…no homo”…what the fuck does that have to do with being homosexual???….I feel like you feel JD….these dudes saying that shit are really homo and trying to hide that shit…In my opinion, a real man doesn’t have to say “no homo”….if you are secure with who you are then there is no need to say that dumb shit

  2. Hmmm, i think in the last few years being open about ones sexuallity has been more accepted and people are not staying “in the closet”. More Bisexual people out there i think, people are experimenting more! Alot of people openly letting the world know. I think that if a man says that to a man, he just wants the other to know its respect & luv but not sexually. Men say that more to each other than women say to women. Women are much more free and out in the open about sexuality than men also. I think men don’t want to be thought of as weak or not manly so they want it to be known so no one is uncomfortable. Girls say I love you to other girls they barely know, just part of our girl talk.

  3. Well as a professional “Homo”.. ill bite… LOL!

    So ok its llike thys. Im not really sure where that saying comes from, but i thnk its a lil iggnorant.
    its just like saying ” thats gay”. WTF is that all about?! what if every gay/lesbian said “thats Hetero”
    everytime sumthin happen like child abondnment or spousal abuse. I mean really. Usualy when a male goes outta his way to make that comment, its becuz of their insecurities and issues. Yes my gaydar is dipped in platinum and very well fine tuned; but i dnt see the logic behind it either. A compliment is just that A COMPLIMENT. In all honesty my point is made. You asked what made him say that and then placed him as DL or Closeted. He walked right in2 that one Eyes Wide Shut. Oh well. Men dnt know how to be men now a days or how to even Man up for that matter. there are so many ways thys could do, but ima just leave it be and let it ride. Hope i anserd sumwhat…

  4. Well, with me being (HOMO) I think its a terminology of saying, Even though I don’t swing that way, I fucks with you, its just another word to add to the dictionary, I don’t think the person is Bi nor, in the closet…Great post

  5. that’s a good question..
    I have to say that I live in Portugal and you don’t see anyone saying that in here…
    When I first saw people saying that was on Twitter and i asked a guy why he was saying “No Homo” and he said “we say that when someone says something gay, that could make the other people think that you’re gay”
    I was like “really?! Do you really feel the need to say that ?!” Because in here we don’t day nothing like that.. because maybe we just don’t assume that the person intention is to make a homosexual comment.. lol i don’t know In my opinion is just a guy trying to make a point that he is really a man…

  6. OK….I ADMIT…I USE NO HOMO SUMTHIN…CUZ SUM STUFF THAT U SAY CAN SOUND REALLY DISGUSTING BETWEEEN DUDES…..BUT NIGGAS USING IT TOOOOOOOOOO MUCH IS KINDA GAYYY…..IF U USING IT EVERY OTHER PHRASE U MIGHT BE TRYINA THROW PPL OFF….BUT HEY—–IF WE IN SUBWAY….ALL THE FELLLAS—AND A NIGGA GET THE SUB WITH THE “”BIG BALLS”—- NIGGAS GONE BUST OUT LAUGHIN CUZ THAT SHITT IS FUNNY….LOL— BUT YEAH

  7. WHAT’S UP JD, OKAY I APPRECIATE YOU BRINGING UP THE TOPIC OF “NO HOMO.” NOW, IF MY MEMORY SERVE ME CORRECT HARLEM, NY (DIPSET) STARTED THAT PHRASE BACK IN ’03-04 IT WAS A BIT COOL THEN THOUGH. WHEN IT BECAME A “TREND” IT STARTED TO SUCK, SIMILAR TO AUTOTUNE BUT WHAT FUCKS ME UP IS WHEN PEOPLE OLDER THAN ME SAY IT AND I’M 21. I FEEL THAT IF YOU’RE COMFORTABLE ABOUT YOUR ORIENTATION THEN YOU DON’T NEED TO CLARIFY THE “NO HOMO” PHRASE BECAUSE TO ME THAT LETS ME “FURTHER KNOW.” HELL, EVEN FEMALES SAYING IT NOWADAYS AS WELL. ITS COOL FOR A FEMALE TO COMPLIMENT ANOTHER FEMALE FOR WHATEVER REASON BUT WHEN YOU’RE A MAN ITS DIFFERENT ALL YOU HAVE TO SAY IS “I’M A FAN OF YOUR MUSIC MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT” AND KEEP IT MOVING. NOW THAT SAID, JD I’M A FAN OF YOUR MUSIC MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT.

  8. i think the “saying” is hilarious!!
    and its mainly guys who say it…

    i dont think there trying to accomplish anything by
    it…if that person thinks saying “i fucks w/ you” is
    gayish…then why did he even use it??lol

    nd calling your self Bi is jus classifying
    your self on what type of Gay person you are… hahaha

  9. I don’t say I know what they intend by it but if a person feels they’re saying something that could be misconstrued then rephrase it. Let a person determine what they think by your actions. I think as long as he wasn’t jocking you I mean like literally trying to get up in your mix then you may be safe from this homophobic person which could possibly be afraid of who he really is.

  10. I feel the term is being over used just like other words like SWAG and i think its corny when a grown ass man has to say’ no homo’ after everything he says,If you are straight and comfortable with your sexualilty why say it, it kind of make me think that a nigga is homo are hes thinking about homo shit when hes say that.i guest the purpose of saying it is to not feel gay after you say something suspect but i really think niggas say it when their not sure about their sexuality.

  11. You know I neva understood that shit either.,.,probably becuz i don’t give a damn whether you “homo” or not!! A compliment is a compliment just take it and or give it and keep it movin’!! And men are not the only ones that say it.,you have some women/girls that say it as well!! If I give someone a compliment or express some type of gratitude.,i don’t feel the need to say “no-homo”.,for what? I KNOW IM NOT GAY and if your stupid ass takes a compliment that I give you as flirting you need your ass whooped!! Stop playin’ yaself.,.,LMFAO!! Its sad that ppl in this world have made something as simple as giving a compliment or just plain ole expressing your feelings negitive.,Since when do you have to state your sexual preference while giving a compliment?.,etc.,LMAO.,.,who the fuck made that up?.,LOL “Girl your hair is cute, NO HOMO”.,I cant see myself doin’ that.,bitch fuck you.,if you think im flirtin’ w/ u.,LOL.,think what you want to.,.,I KNOW WHO I AM!!

  12. But you know JD you just draw tingly feelings out of a lot of people and I am ALL WOMAN! I FUCKS WIT CHU TOO MAN! Hahaha! Gone and laugh sexy you know you got that SWAG!!! Tell um “Nigga I got that SWAG I ain’t no muthaf***en fag!!!

  13. idk where the saying came from but im hella guilty for saying it myself. i very much comfortable and others that im around are very aware of my sexuality, and mos def i love men theirs no question about. but i guess being around certain ppl and living in certain areas you pick it up and it becomes an habit, not thats it a good one. on a lighter note usually when i or anyore esle around me use the word no homo we most of the time using it as a joke, my friends and i can joke around eachother like that and not feel like were gay or bisexual.no homo is a nigga term of speakin and something we need to grow out of (Escaping Niggativity- Brother Akil)

  14. I think it is ridiculous to say “no homo” after giving someone, even of the same sex, a compliment. It is a compliment. It is not like youhe was saying ‘Damn! JD you sure are looking good tonight” and licking his lips while he said it. lol How the heck does homosexuality even fit into the picture? For goodness sakes!

  15. Ive never used the term cause i dont feel i have to. Im secure enough in my manhood to give another dude his props and not feel like its being taken or given in a “gay” way or sumthin.

  16. Saying “no homo” must have been started by someone on the DL because I can see no other reason for saying it. If you’re secure with your sexuality why do you need to keep reaffirming. It’s some childish bullshit if you ask me. Are you going to go through your whole life saying “no homo”. Dudes need to grow up already. That goes for that “pause” shit too.

  17. the saying i’m sure sprouted from some wack rapper…yet everyone started using it.some think its cool to use just like folks like to say swag in everyother sentence, just like “haters”. anyway its a way wack people can say something and think they sound “cool”. i like this “talk to me” joint dj, it reminds me that the world still has some people that think!!

  18. Pardon me my man.

    Micheal Jackson / King of Chop ? you’ve got to hear it before some white label start buzzin in my ear.
    But I would rather do this shit officially so Im looking to get this situation endorsed.

    This is the realest shit you got from a stranger today fam hopefully you’ll move on it.

  19. them niggas keep sayin No Homo cause they have gay thoughts all the time and they are DECEPTICONS they like men and try to hide it but No Homo is the gayest shit ever

  20. That shit just doesn’t make any sense. If you wanna compliment someone then be a man or woman about it. To me dude was trying to be extra hard but instead became a punk ass bitch about complimenting you. LOL If ya gonna walk around grabbing your balls and dick all the time then stop saying “no homo”. Folks always dogged Mikey about GRABBING his shit but 90% of the rappers and everyday men walk around HOLDING their shit but aren’t considered “homo”. Men in general need to figure out their true manhood and act accordingly or just STFU about “no homo”.

  21. I THINK NIGGAS IS SAYIN IT JUST TO SAY IT. UR ONLY SUPPOSED TO SAY “NO HOMO” IF U SAY SOMETHING KINDA SUSPICIOUS. LIKE “OOO HE GOT SOME SEXY ABS”…NO HOMO…BUT I DONT THINK IT SHOULD BE USED AT ALL. ITS OKAY FOR MEN TO RECOGNIZE OTHER MEN FOR ACCOMPLISHMENTS OR EVEN IF THEY THINK ANOTHER MAN IS A GOOD DRESSER OR WHATEVER IT IS. WE NEED TO PICK EACH OTHER UP NOT CALL IT GAY.

  22. 1. Its used too often. 2. Either its a cover up 4 the person who is gay. Or a persons triyng to act hip by using terminology that relatively new.

  23. Niggaz heard Lil Wayne say that shit and they think that shit cool. Thatz them twitter az niggaz…alwayz following!

  24. I never understood why niggas say no homo…I always feel as if they are not comfortable with there sexuality that they feel as if they look up to another nigga, then they must be gay or something.

  25. Ppl who say no homo aren’t secure with themselves,that sums it all up

  26. LMFAO @Drop Squad!!

  27. 1. Its used too often. 2. Either its a cover up 4 the person who is gay. Or a persons triyng to act

  28. ! dont understand it…. no matter how many ways u say it (pause/no homo/ no rainbow/no rupual) it does not make your statement less questionable…

  29. 1. Its used too often. 2. Either its a cover up 4 the person who is gay. Or a persons triyng to act hip by using terminology thats relatively new.

  30. You getting old. Thats what the kids are sayin! Don’t be so sensitive, I guess most young men are not comfortable with another man appreciation with out thinkin the recipient will look at them side way aka dick ridin. Mature men can take a compliment, and understand where it’s coming from…
    Then again I’m a woman, and men and women think differently but thats my view on it. Ya Dig!?

  31. Its simply a TREND! Once Twitter got popular and the “pause police” started calling people out, they got paranoid. I should not be saying no homo if I tell another female I like her hair, or whatever! Hopefully it will die out like other slang words.

  32. I feel that if u say something gay enough to have to say “no homo” after it… Ur a homo

  33. And besides…saying it doesn’t take the gayness out of the statement

  34. Uh Nikki, if a guy says anything about another dudes abs being sexy, “no homo” is not going to get him off the hook… I don’t think anything can, lol.

  35. What’s crackin big homie, i’m not a psychologist or anything of that sort but it seems like males do it try to prove their masculinity. What they don’t know is that it’s ok to give a man a compliment just as long as they know their limits and keep it man to man. An example would be him telling you that you’re his idol, in his mind he’s probably thinking he sounds like an obsessed fan and that you and everyone else were going to judge him; consequently, he shouts out NO HOMO like he has tourette syndrome. LOL Your presence belittled him and he was trying to protect his man hood…Gotta love fans

  36. I think that guy was a true fan and wanted to be liked by YOU!! I believe he was nervous!!! LiL Wayne said it before so now people think its cool to use that “NO HOMO”……News Flash there is nothing wrong with being Gay!!!! There is something wrong with not thinking outside the box and being like everyone else!!! That guy had a bad case of Monkey see monkey do!!!! Nothing sexual about telling someone that you look up to them.

  37. Yo JD , Do me a favor and scroll back to the comment posted by PrinceFunnky @ 4:18 Now this dude confess to saying he uses the term when talking to his homies because they talk about stuff that can be questionable. Come On Son (LOL) When I am around my guy friends thier is nothing I got to say to myself , Man he could of took that the wrong way. You need to make his comment the next topic. Come on Son Peace to the Lifers

  38. If what the person said is sexually connutative….THEN…they feel the need to add the ‘NO HOMO’ at the end of w/e they said, so it doesn’t get taken the wrong way.

    Either that or dude is really gay and just wanna see your reaction to what he said :D…see if interested.

  39. Lol! I say it all the time as a joke kuz i dont get it either. Now dont get a nigga wrong u can say something and it jus dont come out rite but if a nigga gotta keep tellin me he aint gay, imma wonder about homie. As the nigga International Ty says…”that aint it!!!”!

  40. Lmao @ you can slip into being bisexual. That was funny to me.

    Anyway…the dudes that are saying that are a bunch of immature idiots who just follow everything everyone else does. If I’m not mistaken it was DipSet that started that bullshit, and I’m still convinced they’re in the closet. Its a dumb saying. If you’re such a man then you should be secure enough with your sexuality and be mature enough to say shit without saying no homo.
    Half of the time when people say something nobody thought it was ‘gay’ [which is another topic all together] until they say ‘no homo’.

  41. uuggghh! I absolutely hate that! I always ask the same thing. Like what are you trying to justify? No one said you were homo, but you feel the need to say “no homo”….I feel its insecurities, maybe your ass is homo LMAO

  42. I think the reason why he said no homo, in that particular instance is because when U say I fucks wit u, dudes and chicks usually say that between one another or something in general. For example: I guy would ask a girl he’s feeling can U fuck wit me? or I would say I fucks wit the new Js! It’s just talk! It could be what u sayin 2. Niggas tryin to act like they striaght but they really downlow as fuck! Watch ya back!! lmfao

  43. What Nikki said has me thinking…if a guy says something like, oh, he’s cute, everyone would think he was gay, but girl says someone is pretty most people dont’ question her sexuality.

  44. because they live in Atlanta and everyone is scared to be labeled HOMO…but when a dude says no homo 10.5 times out of 10 he is takin it in the ass and liking it! Thats why i moved. lol

  45. @Kandi.,LMFAO.,.,Can you act right for one day girl!!!.,.,DAMN!!! LMFAO

  46. I think the Term came from up north Ny,Nj area….Im from Nj and we use it up there like another word in our daily vocabulary. No a days everything seems to be “Gay”. Somebody could be listening to a song thats off the hook or tough and some joker would say ” OH THIS SHIT IS HARD AS HELL” Then they would have to say “NO HOMO”. Jokers basically is trained to say this shit on the daily. If you ask me Yea it shouldnt be like that but I think it depends on the Situation or What environment your in.

    Like this joker approaching you in the club is a complete stranger you aint never seen this joker a day in your life, and you was probably in Atlanta where jokers obviously have a homosexaul presence. He wanted to Big you up but not be gay about point blank. Again like i said it depends on what environment your in but jokers have gone “NO HOMO” Crazy hahaha….

    P.S. Yall Some Funny ass Jokers….Johnta ” I Just came from watching the Ray J show that Joker done Gave Up!!! Hahahaha

    Jersey in the Building

  47. what i do? im just speaking from what i know. lol

  48. they gay plain nd sample!!!!!!!!!

  49. lol @ Kandi

    It is all a matter of being secure in your manhood and/or masculinity. Men equate terms of endearment toward another male as being soft. If you care that much about what people think about what you say, then maybe you need to watch what you say.

  50. OMG.I been waiting for somebody to touch on this subject. Thant No Homo crap started when Wayne and Nicki Minaj said it on a track and ppl took it way to literaly and made a phrase out of it. I mean for a minute it was ok but come on now its been a year since the song came out so I wish people would give it up. I been telling people that if they keep saying “NO HOMO” I ma think they suspect. I mean why feel the need to say it if u know yo sexuality, long as you know then y try to prove it to someone else. The more u try to prove it the more people will suspect you to be opposite of what u say.
    Sorry I’m going OFF but that No HOMO crap urkes the shit outta me. I totally agreee with you I dont understand people. Most people specially here in Detroit say it like 200 times a day after and before each “homo” statement. There is no need to say it to me its uncalled for and offense to some people of the gay community. Damn that Wayne and Nicki look what yall started

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  51. LMFAO @kandi You’re too much gurl!!! LOL

  52. I hear people saying “No Homo” all the time now & I don’t understand why? I think personally if you’re secure in with sexually you never need to say it! I personally don’t care if a person is gay or not. I just take a compliment and keep it moving. This “No Homo stuff has gotten out of control! So has this Pause stuff and the Pause police on Twitter is crazy! They be going on everybody you can’t hardly say anything more. BTW who is the pause police anyway? Does any body Know? What gives them the right 2 pause people anyway? Even though sometimes the shit is funny it still crazy!

    Lady Lifer Baby Reppin you in Longbeach CA! ♥

  53. SOME OF THESE GUY DON’T UNDERSTAND THAT IT COOL TO EXPRESS HOW THEY FEEL TO ANOTHER MAN YOUNG OR OLD WIT OUT FEELING LESS THAN A MAN. eXPRESSING THE FACT THAT AM NO A HOMO IS CLEAR TO THE PERSON YOU ARE SPEAKING TO UNLESS YOU ARE AS YOU STATED Jd. I HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU Jd HE MAY BE GAY OR BI STILL IN THE CLOSET. OR HE MAY BE ONE OF THOSE YOUNG GUYS WHO HAVEN’T GROWN UP. I THINK YOU SHOULD DO A LIVINGH THE LIFE Jd SHOW THESE GUYS IT OK TO EXPRESS HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOU COME ACROSS SOMEONE YOU LOOK UP TO.

    USHER’S RA LUV AKA RAHEAM TYRONE LAMONT SIMONE ADDISON

  54. I feel like the word no homo is stupid but nessecary in some situations. do people say it way to much yea they are taking it to far saying it when it doesnt need to be and its offensive to some people. i think the purpose of saying it is to let people know you are not bi or gay but if you always say it people are going to start thinkin maybe you are a homo.
    BIEM!!!!
    >TrUe LaDy LiFeR<

  55. LMAO Jd I WAS LISTENING TO USHER’S BAD GIRL ON YOUTUBE WHILE I WAS READING THE COMMENTS I READ BY CINCYCLOWN513 OH YES USHER HAS SWAGGA NO HOMO CRAZY. Jd please teach them that it ok. the no homo dude watch your living life show them please

    USHER’S RA LUV

  56. YEA JD YOU MIGHT BE GETTING OLD BRO; IT’S NOT JUST MALES THAT SAY “NO HOMO” I’VE SEEN FEMALES SAY THE PHASE ALSO & THE PART ABOUT SOMEONE BEING GAY JUST SAYING THIS TO CONFUSE YOU IS JUST FALSE….IT’S JUST A NEW TREND C’MON JD YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT “OLD MAN” J/K LMAO

  57. It’s not that it just he didn’t want to feel like a dickeater?

    YOUR MY IDOL TOO!

  58. No need to say a lot about this…. It’s a stupid insecurity! I think it means something more to males than females. I say “pause” and “no homo” out of sarcasm because I think it’s fucking hilarious-even then it’s only around my brothers. I wouldn’t dream of using it out in the open. I’ve heard that shit said in professional settings and it is quite disturbing.

    Ex. Say for instance, I’m at Victoria’s Secret or wherever and I see a nice bra and panties set that I think would look cute on my homegirl. I can buy it and give it to her with no questions asked and she’ll wear it like nothing…. Well a guy can’t buy his homeboy no boxers and be like “Here dog, I thought you’d look cute in these.” Now, even though I don’t think anyone (in this case, guys) should use the expression at all, THAT’S some shit you would say “no homo” to.

    Ex 2. Now when you see shit like niggas saying, “JD has hella swag.” or “Trey Songz music goes hard.” or “Cox, beats be banging.” then you see ‘no homo,” that shit is just ridiculous.

    Well, said more than I intended to. Hope that helps.

    Nisha
    XOxo

  59. Dudes that are just insecure, too into what other people think. However, I find it interesting that Lil Wayne stay saying that with his kissing Baby on the lips self. Maybe he should’ve said “no homo” after doing that. But then, that Lauren London situation throws me off……………….I can’t call it homie.

  60. This is what it is… JD if you and I were getting in a game of Madden 2010 and I said to you I am about to get in your a$$; no homo… You would know I am using that as a figure of speech. Instead of me saying figuratively speaking. The phrase is “No Homo” not “Figuratively Speaking” by the way lifers send a friend request to http://www.myspace.com/mokanemusic Thanks people.

  61. JD some of my friends say it all the time but I don’t. Half say it because it’s new terminology and the other may be in a situation and have a valid right to say it. They are in a conversation and someone says something weird, but instead of saying “that’s weird” they say “that’s gay.” To them gay=weird, and they use a different word as if they are making a phrase shorter and usually just accomplish being offensive. To avoid sounding “gay,” then just don’t voice your thought.

  62. Saying “no homo” provides no purpose except to make those who are insecure with their sexuality. I guess people have gotten into this state of mind that you don’t know who is gay, so you don’t want to be taken out of context when you say something. But unless the person you are speaking with gets offended or questions what you mean, what is the point of following everything you say with “no homo”. It’s annoying as hell to hear “no homo” or “pause” every time somebody says something they think can be taken in a sexual manner.

  63. I think the new Hip Hop Culture are afraid to show emotions. I think homa culture has taken over Hip Hop, look at all the young kids walking around with the pants down below there ass. who they showing there ass off to? The problem is they dont even know that’s that’s Gay. but showing emotions is not.

  64. I think you guys are taking the term a little too serious. Me and my friends had been using “no homo” for a few years now, and we use it sort of in the same way people say no pun intended. It’s just a funny add on when you inadvertently use double-entendre. Maybe people have taken it too far these days, but I don’t think it was intended to be used or taken so literally.

  65. the term/saying used ‘no homo’ is just a saying you say to show what you really mean so that you don’t relate what you say too sexually cause you never know if the person you’re talking to will get the wrong idea or not…

    its kinda like saying ‘that’s what she said’ or ‘that’s what he said’ by saying ‘no homo’ meaning that you don’t want them in that way or don’t mean it in a way they would think you would intend, lol.

    the shit is ridiculous, but it’s just to say that you’re not attracted to them in any sort of way. i say it at times, but NOT ALL THE TIME!! LOL

    i hope this helps when i say it….
    when the man that came up to you and said ‘Hey JD, you are my idol’ what he means to say is that he looks up to you and admires all of the work you do, and is influenced to do what you do in your life and saying ‘no homo’ included in the line, is saying he doesn’t look up to you in a different way other than that because some people seem to think that when they talk to people and compliment them they feel self-conscious into what they say and include sayings like that to let them know they aren’t attracted to you in a way.

    if you don’t get me holler at me, peace out. hope mine helped
    xx.

    megztsarr.

  66. A real man shouldn’t have 2 say “No Homo”.

  67. Simply ignorant … ‘Nuff Said!

  68. The shit is just something to say! If i am right a whole bunch of “rainbow brites” held a you tube v log about this shit all I can say is, get your panties out your asses stop giving a fuck about peoples phrases cause soon enough niggas will have some new shit to say and muthafuckas will complain about that. I liken this shit to the word SWAG and how now you got some people acting like they got something against the shit or the people with it! Undercover hate to me! Oh and saying No Homo absolutely has nothing to do with your sexual orientation or what you feel about the same sex it is just a phrase! Stop being so P.C!

  69. If you feel the need to say no homo either you are insecure, or you don’t really need to say what ever you are about to say…LOL There certain things one man should not say to another, and saying “no homo” does not make it ok…

  70. people use da word for everything what if u meet president Obama and u say ” I look up to u, u my man my idol no homo. dats dumb people need to grow up and have a conversation like grown adults

  71. Nigga it’s called ATLANTA… Let’s keep it real, I was right down there in the crowd while you were on stage. You come up in there with your Purple velvet shit on, niggas on the floor was looking at your like a big ass grape!! Damn look at JD, let’s go get him!! LOL Now I know why you got security, to keep them dudes back!!!! LOL AND THEN you went to the bathroom with bodyguards ???, Nigga you ain’t Obama!!! LOL

    Man I have never even heard the term. I Graduated from MOREHOUSE so i know about some niggas in the closet but who am I to judge? What you do is what you do, can we make money or something positive together is all I am concerned about. People really don’t say much about the gay community you know why? Cause they got money, you know why? Cause when most guys were on campus chasing women they were on campus having their identity crisis with there heads in them books. Most of the gay students that I knew at Morehouse were straight A students and rolled with the baddest chicks…. (I never could understand that one) But I don’t have anything against gays but I do have something against them in the closet brothers. If that’s you that’s you but don’t act one way and you are really not.

  72. I am sick and tired of the No Homo,Pause,No RuPaul and the other stuff these men are saying. You never know who is on the Down Low now so I guess thats why they consistenly use these words. But also these words are usually used amongst friends who always point out the double meanings in conversations. I also have gay friends who say No Hetero so for me it’s just another word that is over-used like BLING BLING was.

  73. @Kandi: You are wild. That shit was funny.

    @Anita: Your shit was mad true. Me and my mans (should I say no homo for the fags?) are mad tight and we never see the need to say “no homo”

    Yo J.D. I know you gotta know this rhyme. “Put it out on the street no promo/a real man shouldn’t have to say no homo.” Jadakiss said that in a feestyle in New York. Hot 97 I think. Well anyway it goes, the shit is true.

  74. Hello JD,

    WOW this is a good one. I really can not call it and this is the first time I heard of it because when I was reading the question I thought you were saying homie so I reread it. Maybe they have a problem with gay people and they decided to make up a term to show they are different and if you think I am gay I am not. Or maybe you are right and they are just hiding behind the statement. I will be reading the other comments because I am curious to see what this is about…….

    Patrice

  75. Look we all know how our community latches on to terms. On the other hand I think the Hip Hop community Down Low club is out and about in full force. So some people are really trying too save face. If Yall missed Snoop from the wire touched on it a little. It’s really over used but as a male sometimes even more being black our male bravado is what we fall back to.
    I can say JD I look up to you and keep doing your thing especially as a DAD! Well meet one day..

  76. Personally, I just think kats are insecure that say it all the time. It just shows how homophobic urban communities are JD. No Racial is the new shit. If your white friend, say some shit like “You want to go get some watermelon.” That’s a no racial moment which is really racial when you think about it. LMAO!!!!

    Check the video NO RACIAL ( 2009’s NO HOMO)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_uh0ozOf5c

  77. To me its just stupid. When i hear guys using that phrase i just cant help but roll my eyes. To me its childish immature and ignorant. i guess some men look at it as a way of defending their “manhood” but little do they no they come across seeming very insecure as if they have too prove themselves. Ive even seen girls say “No homo” when complimenting a woman sometimes. its so stupid! i think the main people who feel the need to say “No homo” are the people who are homophobic. They are so homophobic they feel the need to do all they can to separate themselves from anything that could be too “Homo”

  78. blame CAMRON for that dumb shyt…

  79. IT’S USED BECAUSE IT WAS FIRST SAID BY DIPSET AND RAN INTO THE GROUND, AND US BEING THE SHEEPLE THAT SOME OF US R W/O OUR OWN INDIVIDUALITY WE MUST FOLLOW W/O A GOOD REASON WHY. NOW IT’S SAID FOR NO REASON IT’S STUPID AZ HELL. I BET IF LIL WAYNE OR JIGGA TOOK A CD COVER PICTURE W/DRAWERS ON THEIR HEAD AND SPANDEX WIFE BEATERS YOU WOULD START TO SEE ALL THE FOLLOWERS DOING IT….

  80. Ignorance at its best. It’s sad that people just use that phrase without completely understanding what they are saying. I mean we as a world wide community went through the horror (for lack of a better word) that blacks and jews collectively went through. We have the video footage of blacks getting sprayed with power hoses, we know of the vicious crimes committed against them. We have seen the holocaust museum, seen all the hair that was shaved off the heads of the jewish community, seen all the glasses to signify the amount of people that were killed. I mean we have felt the sadness the injustice and made changes to stop it. It’s a shame that after we have experienced all of that we turn around as a world wide society and do the same thing to Gays. I mean come on’ ! Are we just doomed to repeat history over and over ?? When are we going to learn from our mistakes, educate ourselves and move the f*** on to make this world a better place !!

    I just wish that before people say that phrase the wake up and understand what they are really saying, understand that they are discriminating against a group of people, even with just two words…WAKE UP FOLKS !!!

  81. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz…so fucking bored about this (no homo) shit….how can u think about homosexuality while conversating with someone about something that has fok all to do with being gay?, CLEARLY u are sooooooo in the closet its fucking up ur subconscious…..people just need to educate themselves about sexuality and stop saying dumb shit like (no homo), comments like these are the result of so many hate crimes against gays and lesbians. So people go out there and enlighten urselves instead of showing how much of an ignorant person u are..Last but not least Shout out to South Africa for being the first African country to allow same sex marriages.PROUDLY AND LOUDLY SOUTH AFRICAN.thank u J.D FOR POSTIN UP DIS Q

  82. ok. i AM gay or ‘homo’ so i want 2 weigh in on this one. WTF? that is not a statement 4 anyone 2 make. it often seems like the more we as a civilization move 4ward in acceptance, the more ignorant people get. i guess because a lot of people who live an alternative lifestyle r no longer as afraid 2 just be who they r where ever they r, people (including other gays who want 2 remain in the closet 2 the public0) don’t want conversations, adoration, or friendships 2 be preceived as come ons. i still think any disclaimer is retarded in situations like that. when u r speaking, chillin, or whatever with a person, ur body language, facial expressions and way of speaking represents the nature of ur intent. when someone says something like that 2 me 9 times out of 10 it is bait 2 see if i am going 2 bite. they usually r closet cases that want 2 see if u r down 1st. some people r obviously gay and some r not but at the end of the day it really doesnt matter. be urself and quit with the disclaimers as soon as u meet or talk with someone. no matter what, some people will be cool with u and some people wont. keep on movin. LIFE is 2 short 4 all these damn hang ups. IT’S ANNOYING. thanx jd. i appreciate u. l4l

  83. Jay these men are gay, not just them but 80% of men are str8 up flaming fags. If a guy is openly gay the term fag i use does not pertain to him but a man that you chill with and watch babes with and all along he is waiting to pump you in the booty is a str8 fag. Bible says in Mathew 19 that Jesus understood why some men “eunichs” which means castrated or crossgendered male cannot marry so contrary to poular belief the bible does not condemn homosexuals just the ones that change their str8 ways like these downlows, mentioned in Romans 1, so i have grown to have a respect for homosexuals because if Jesus himself understands then i might as well too. I am a recording artist that was born in Nigeria, i notice when i leave then come back into the country that ALL AMERICAN MEN GAY OR STRAIGHT play gay footsie games to try to entice one another and it is not subtle, rather the opposite and disheartening for a mans man like myself. I have done good for myself in my career but in like 1999 the world changed and record execs want a blow job before you are considered fit to be signed and no one wants a str8 dude, they want a str8 dude they think might be gay realize he is not then drop him hence my unsigned status. No homo or dope dealing thug they all want manly booty sex! bottom line. I cant even wear sandals without dudes actin so damn gay i have to change my dressing, i cant show off my body without my lady in fear dudes will flame like they always do!!! frustration man i have lost nearly every childhood friend i have to the epidemic (down low) i have one male friend man, 10 years ago you could chill with the fellas, now they get a few drinks and turn footsie, ball grabbin, open mouth stick your cock in taunting and it is obvious and annoying! Im real so im speakin my mind!

  84. myspace.com/godwon

  85. I just hate when someone says that in everything they say it make me mad like why do you feel something that come out your mouth or something you say to me is gay that is so annoying it make me not want to talk to the person no more. Just stop saying that but I think it has become a trend because in the beginning of Lil Wayne lollipop song he say’s no homo. but that just irritates me I cant stand it

  86. It’s like people feel like saying, “no homo” makes the situation better when it doesn’t….it’s like me saying “your daughter is cute, she gone be fine when she grow up no pediphile” That doesn’t make anything better

  87. What’s JD and the rest of the ocean n sosodef. i dont feel no need to use no homo or anything like that cuz i know what the fuck i am i know that @ the end of night im gettin some by a dime..lol For example when i was in high school people use to tell me Stefan dont call another do handsome, even though i had a girlfriend..but this is how i feel if u look nice im gonna tell u in a non gay so my feelings is that im a big fan of u n what u do and im a big fan of diddy; and both of ya r my idols i wanna be just like both of ya but BETTER..LOL

    SO THIS IS HOW I FEEL ABOUT SAYING NO HOMO..FUCK THAT SHIT IF U KNOW WHAT U R THEN FUCK THAT SHIT…SOSODEF LOL

  88. I think its GAY….the new one is (no bruno)…I feel if a man is comfortable with his sexuality he wouldnt feel the need to make it known that hes not gay…

  89. I remember the term being used by Cam’Ron. Particularly, when he was wearing the pink outfits, and the purple car…if I’m remembering correctly. A lot of people at the time thought Cam’Ron was gay. He started using the term “no homo.”

    I never understood why guys started using that term. I wonder what people said before that term came around?

  90. Why do people feel the need to discuss their sexuality by saying No Homo, I don’t need to tell people i am heterosexual so saying that makes people wonder. I think they use it when thay are talking and a phrase is used and it sounds sexula in content but the intent is not.

  91. I FEEL THAT WHEN MEN SAY SOMETHING TO THAT EFFECT, MEANS THEY R NOT THAT SECURE ABOUT THEMSELVES AND AND HOW THEY ARE VIREWED AS A MAN…

  92. @MegzStar23, LMFAO! I’m sorry I just had a flashback of a few weeks back. I was telling my mom that I have I new light fixture in my apartment’s kitchen and she was like “How low it hang?” and my little brother just blurted out…. “that’s what she said.” so now my mom just be waiting for innuendos to come up in conversations so she can say that shit to me and my brothers…. she so lame. LMAO.

    Random…. sorry! lol!

  93. JD I thought this ever since dudes first started saying the No Homo behind every sentence years back. I thought I was just getting old then too… and I was just in my mid 20’s. I never understood ( and still don’t) as a straight man how some supposedly straight dudes could keep the thought of homosexuality in their brain that much to keep saying that. I though it got old because the frequency of its use died, but yes it is back! And it’s getting worse!! I think it spread across the US from the Atl scene and made it’s way back. Everything is gay to people now. I can’t even smile anymore cause its gay… wtf? You laugh too hard in front of a dude he might suspect your winking at him. You can gaze in a woman’s eye and smile and now she might think your too soft and suspect.

    It’s really like any other phrase/innuendo that seems to get respect when you stress it hard enough these days. When people say half of the catchy and repeated phrases used today it totally ends the conversation for me. There are so many other things to think about and entertain. It so deeper than just this though.

  94. oh yeah… and why does everyone support this PAUSE mess??? Grow up people!!

  95. I see it like this…ya boy Camron said it and cuz him and Weezy roll tight, Weezy started sayin it and when he talks the “sheep” AKA impressionable america listens…so most of these guys sayin this crap r jus tryna fit in wit the latest slang…

    No me personally, im not gay so i cant say gay shit…simple as tht…so y say “no homo”…with tht being said, admittin the negative of a situation means also admittin the positive…if u say “no homo” 2 stuff u also have to say “homo” 2 things at sum point in time..lmao!!!!

    I also heard sum1 say its ignorant 2 say “thts gay”…im sure they also dnt say nigga eitha…we–as black ppl–have been thru plenty and we say the word nigga as 2 take the power out of the word…so when we say it its not with the negativity tht the word was born frm…sam as “thts gay”…if i say “thts gay” im not referin 2 homosexuals in ne way…its like sayin “stupid” “wack” or sumthin along those lines…so grow sum balls n stop bein gay lmao!!

  96. I always thought that was the most insecure shyt a straight dude could say. If a man is secure then there is no need for him to throw out a “no homo” for no reason. Seems like alot of these niggas be gay tryna stay deep in the closet. It was a clever line to say in a rap when the shyt started but it is uttered too much of late. Bury that shyt with other phrases like:

    “At the end of the day…”
    “…situation”
    “Swag”
    “Movement”
    “It is what it is…”

    JD I know u say some of that shyt too…LOL.

  97. I always thought that was the most insecure shyt a straight dude could say. If a man is secure then there is no need for him to throw out a “no homo” for no reason. Seems like alot of these niggas be gay tryna stay deep in the closet. It was a clever line to say in a rap when the shyt started but it is uttered too much of late. Bury that shyt with other phrases like:

    “At the end of the day…”
    “…situation”
    “Swag”
    “Movement”
    “It is what it is…”

    **********************************

    JD I know u say some of that shyt too…LOL.

  98. First of all, I would like to say HOW U DOIN JD?! You should remember me, my name is Michelle and we lived in the same condos as kids, Dahlridge on FLAT Shoals Rd. in Riverdale! Ive seen u a few times in ATL since our youth, I still have a pix of us all singing christmas carols wearing reading glasses back in 1981!LOL!PRICELESS! OK being a single mom of 3 (2 boys), I am outraged to hear the way our youth throw out the word GAY ! It is used as an insult for actions, dress, etc,,,being gay is still not welcomed in our society even tho most pretend it is. Saying no homo is quickly removing you from the “suspect” thought process one may have , when a man compliments a man. It is the insecurity that most people have when we all yearn 2b accepted 4 who we are as people,not our sexual preference. Most black men struggle with deep seeded insecurities and I feel when they say no homo that is a quick defense comeback, to hide the fact they are gay or have suspect tendency! The mind is powerfull and the truth hurts most! I say KNO THY SELF and live w/ a purpose! Work on being secure,explore and take that journey I call songs in the key of life! JD I knew u back then, beat it outfit ,Jheri curl and all! I respect ur success and wish u well. Tell Moms Hi and tweet me . Remember when u came outside and told Lavita and I u were goin2b n the whodini video and showed us ur dance! Dem was the days and yeah we are getting old!! Empower the youth. Love ya and take care! U Done well 4ur self Im proud to say I knew u and I KNOW how much u miss MJ!! Stay strong! Deuces

  99. I just fell like the phase “NO-HOMO” is what’s in right now. On Kanye West Graduation CD he had a single by the name of BIG BROTHER in reference to Jay-Z not one time did he say the words “NO-HOMO” in that whole song, and that song was a song about another man and he made his feelings know about that man and nothing about that song seem gay to me there was no need to say :no-homo. Bring back to this year he has said it like three time in different songs. Its like “NO-HOMO” is the new “Thats Tight” are something. i feel like the people who say just doesnt have anything better to say. Open up ur VOCAL people!!!!!!

  100. DUDE SAID “NO HOMO” CAUSE HE FELT LIKE A BITCH, COMING UP TO YOU GROUPIE STYLE, GIVING YOU YOUR PROPS.. I HEAR ACUTAL HOMO’S SAYING IT. ITS JUST A TERM.. HE JUST FELT STUPID, SO NO HOMO IMPOWERED HIS BITCH ASS!!!! IT’S LIKE SAYING “NO WHAT I MEAN” OR “FEEL ME”..

  101. IM IN THE MOOD TO SUCK A BIG ASS DICK.. “NO HOMO”… SEE EVEN I USE IT.. LMAO!!!

  102. First let me say Rest In Peace to DJ AM and that he will be sincerely missed by all those who experienced his presence. Now the NO HOMO statement which is commonly overused by individuals attempting to clarify their sexual orientation. Within the Hip Hop community the lifestyle of Homosexuality is frowned upon and not accepted by the general listening audience. On the flip side of the industry Homosexuality is accepted by every other genre available. Its a unconscious prejudice against Gays which in my opinion is absolutely wrong and for statements to be made such as No Homo by individuals is absolute ignorance on their part. Imagine two caucasians talking and over hearing one of them saying ” No Nigger ” immediately there would be outrage ! Well the same Outrage should exist when the statement No Homo is brought into conversation by individuals using it. From a purely Business perspective if i were a CEO of my own record Label i would Search for Homosexual/Lesbian Artist to showcase to the listening public and display the equal talent that exist. That community is very close knit and supportive of each other. At this very moment i am looking at a few Keith Harding artworks on my wall and imagining if i would of said No Homo while purchasing them from the gallery. What if the Gay/Lesbian community flipped it and said amongst themselves ” NO Hip Hop ” what effect would this have on artist popularity within the Hip Hop genre ?

  103. saying NO HOMO is an act of gayness… only if you have a “sugar imbalance” would you have to put a disclaimer on your statements…

  104. now a days people cant really express who they are so they choose to express who they are not.

  105. STOP SAYIN NO HOMO FOR NO REASON!!!

  106. LMAO AT “NO NIGGER”… THAT SHIT IS FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hey Billy let go over to popeyes, for a two piece ” No Nigger”

  107. i THINK I SWALLOWED A WATERMELON SEED “NO NIGGER”

  108. I THINK HE SAID IT : so that u wouldnt be on the defense..from the outside looking in a guy might really like ur style Jd. He might want to emulate u and u might be the epitome of how he wants to be..but some ppl when they come up to u they might feel that u feel like their on ur jock! If it was a woman coming up to u its a different thing..I dont think u would take it like that Jd cuz u seem like a cool dude but i remember a story of a rapper who was like ok nigga thats enuff when a guy told him how much he liked him..so i think he wanted to show u the extent of how much he was feeling ur steelo but not wanting u to feel uncomfortable..

  109. i think they say it because men are unsure themselves,if they were real men it would b no need to say thats how i feel

  110. Sometime the context of what is said and the way it was spoken can make a statement sound very wrong. Most people who use this term are insecure of how others perceive them. So when he says no homo to JD, He simply doesn’t want DJ to get the wrong perception about him. It’s all a stupid matter but it’s based on the context of what is said.

  111. My feeling is if you think that your statement would be viewed as “gay” to begin with, dont say it in the first place. Reword it to sound less “gay” if it bothers you to think that they may see it as such.

  112. I USE TO SAY THAT ALL THE TIME. IT’S JUST WHEN A GUY IS COMPLIMENTING YOU WHICH IN RESULT CAN MAKE A PERSON THINK HE’S GAY FOR SAYING IT THAT WAY. REALLY, HE JUST WANTS THE PERSON THAT HE LOOKS UP TO TO KNOW THAT HE’S INSPIRED, THAT IT’S ALL IN RESPECY AND LOVE BUT NOTHING SEXUAL, AND THAT’S WHY THE SAY “NO HOMO WHEN THEY END THEIR SENTENCE. YES HE’S HIDING IN THE CLOSET. WHEN YOU SAY THAT SHIT MEANS THAT YOU ARE BI-SEXUAL AND YOU INSECURE IF PEOPLE MIGHT THINK YOU ARE. I’M BI-SEXUAL, I DON’T GIVE A SHIT IF PEOPLE SAY I AM CAUSE THEY CAN TELL I AM CAUSE THE WAY I CARRY MYSELF. I USE TO SAY IT, AND I DON’T NOMORE. LOL

  113. I USE TO SAY THAT ALL THE TIME. IT’S JUST WHEN A GUY IS COMPLIMENTING YOU WHICH IN RESULT CAN MAKE A PERSON THINK HE’S GAY FOR SAYING IT THAT WAY. REALLY, HE JUST WANTS THE PERSON THAT HE LOOKS UP TO TO KNOW THAT HE’S INSPIRED, THAT IT’S ALL IN RESPECT AND LOVE BUT NOTHING SEXUAL, AND THAT’S WHY THEY SAY “NO HOMO WHEN THEY END THEIR SENTENCES. YES HE’S HIDING IN THE CLOSET. WHEN YOU SAY THAT SHIT, IT MEANS THAT YOU ARE BI-SEXUAL AND YOU INSECURE IF PEOPLE MIGHT THINK YOU ARE WHICH MAN NEVER DO NOT WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW THEY BI OK, THEIRS A LOT OF NIGGA’S THAT ARE BI. I USE TO SEE IT GAYS AND GUYS MAKING OUT, AND THEY DON’T LOOK GAY AT ALL, THEY LOOK LIKE ATTRACTIVE MAN THAT WOMEN WOULD WANNA FUCK WITH. I’M BI-SEXUAL, I DON’T GIVE A SHIT IF PEOPLE SAY I AM CAUSE THEY CAN TELL I AM CAUSE THE WAY I CARRY MYSELF. I USE TO SAY IT, AND I DON’T NOMORE. LOL

  114. BULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLSHIT IT IS WHAT IT IS

  115. lmao…. I’m reading and rereading comment and I’m over here dying… this shit is hilarious. everybody is making a valid point whether I agree or disagree. lmao….

    Okay, now I’m just being silly but lets start a new “movement” by saying “YES HETERO!” LMFAO!

    Nisha
    XOxo

  116. I think its really stupid to be honest with u.. I don’t even use it, I don’t get it am i’m only 24…. i feel like people who use it so much are afraid people may take them another way.. if u know what u mean thats all there is too it. If the person thinks otherwise then their the ones that need help. Especially if its something so simple as to what you just said JD.

  117. I think that alot of people not even just men but women also say “no homo” because in todays world everybody seems to feel that many things that are being said and done are seen as gay to the public and its obvious that its a popular use in the black community along with the “pause” that is also being used on an everyday basis….i think that its used because men don’t wanna be talking to guy and they say something and you take it the wrong way then you lookin at the dude like nigga you gay so yea i think i like the “pause” better than the no homo its played out

  118. I don’t feel good when someone says that, cause in this moment I think, “Shitt this motherfucker think I’m Besexual or Homosexual” and he has to clarify that situation.
    I think ppl now a days has the need to clarify everything because they worry about all the prejudices we have in life and maybe some of this ppl feel an insecurity too.
    Some ppl might says it because they mean its funny to use the word “HOMO”
    I have to say that young ppl has to grow a lil bit more and don’t think that everything could be HOMO or whatever is coming as next.

    God Bless!

  119. i have no idea…i mean it was cute and funni when i was in tha 6th, 7th. and 8th grade ((im 18 by the way)) but now being a fresh[WO]man in colleqe its immature like i dont understand y u have to say tht after every sentence they say… “yo homie i like ya jeans..no homo” like wtf..qrow up reallie

  120. its pointless and shows insecurity. i’d question you more if u feel the need to constantly make it a PSA

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